You know if you're a trans girl and you're keeping your dick for no particular and on HRT, you're kinda just hurting yourself. Let me explain. I'll leave the more obvious, albeit somewhat esoteric stuff, like how I feel like my brain just wants to have a vagina to masturbate, out and focus on this one, much more clearly practical thing that no one talks about.Before I got on HRT, I could piss properly. I could get a really good, strong, straight stream most days standing up and I could even sit down and pee normally. I actually didn't usually pee when I pooped either like I could control which one I did usually. Now, after 3 years of HRT, whenever I poop, I pee for a minute before it slows down to a dribble I can't really stop unless I >Dab with toilet paper until I stop pissing so much it gets too soaked for the following steps>Stand up, holding a piece of toilet paper to my genitals>turn around>open the lid>push on the bottom of my scrotum so a decent enough stream comes out I can get most of the pee that's stuck inside my shitty, broken, male urethra.>sometimes it stays in there or I fuck and don't notice I wasn't finished and I get to the bathroom to piss a bit more later... if I'm lucky. Otherwise, though I've been getting better at not having this situation, I'll piss myself later.Then of course, there's all the sexual performance issues. I can't always get cum out either (we'll, I might be rare for e to even being able to produce that clear liquid) and that causes the same issue and no; that's not hot to me. Its fucking gross.It barely even gets erect, I can't *really* penetrate, and sex toys barely work.Getting a vulvoplasty/vaginoplasty fixes this genuine health issue. And no, I can't stop the HRT. I tried. I hated going back.So I really feel like mtf trans girls on HRT should just get the surgery. I'm no longer even sure my primary reason is "dysphoria". The more I go through this process, the more I realize this IS medical
>>43082730Get your boyfriend to suck out the pee.
>>43082730i couldn't even pee properly before hrt let alone after. getting srs didn't really fix that although it did seem to make doctors care more? well maybe it just made me pursue it more.i never had sex before srs so idk about that but it definitely let me pursue it mentally. i was scared of anal and scared of topping with my pp...>I'm no longer even sure my primary reason is "dysphoria". The more I go through this process, the more I realize this IS medicalthe more i experience the more i think concepts like "dysphoria" can really mask the reality of our issues. look at all the doctors who recommend we don't transition in situations where no cis woman would be told to just accept that she is going to look male-the fact that's a major quality of life impact is understood there in a way it is not for us.my favorite was being told bv was dysphoria...they treated it as a mental issue too and i had to find a new doctor
