many trannies have messy frizzy hair and this hurts your passability more than you think. long unkept hair doesn't read as female it reads as autistic male. i've started to notice how rare it is for cis women to go out with messy hair, when they don't have time to make it look nice they put it up in a bun or something. passing and being accepted as a woman is more than just having feminine traits its presenting those feminine traits in a typically feminine way. its better to be a hon with genuinely feminine presentation than a twinkhon with half hearted feminine presentation.
>>43094059Messy bun is pretty much a cheat code when you don't want to do your hairTake good care of your hair nonas, you can outdo many cisfoids who don't really care about their beauty and femininity
>>43094059I have messy frizzy hair I don’t know how to take care of and nobody sees me as a man
>>43094059lots of cis women have frizzy hair, you can find plenty of cis women complaining about how hard hair care is online
>>43094222>>43094261We have to try harder than they do though. They can complain, you have to actually fix yours
>>43094059Yeah, learning how to care for my hair makes me feel so much better and 100% more fem. My mom and cisf cousins acted like conditioner was going to make my hair fall out. They liked me having frizzy fried hair, plus not knowing how to care for it made growing it out a hassle. Thankfully I was able to learn that I only need to wash my hair when it feels dirty or gets a little smelly, and that it won't get fried from washes if I let the conditioner soak in for 15 minutes.
>>43094059Good hair is expensive. Transition has lots and lots and lots of expenses. It's just not the priority for the first couple of years. Sorry.
>>43094191The messy bun on a male skull is a manbun. They don't even look attractive on men.
i fixed my fried bangs. idk if its from using quality shampoo and focusing roots or actually leaving in conditioner for 5 min with a timer or a combo of both? combing it wet like that video said? or maybe using too much argan oil on purpose and wearing a hat on my off days? all of the above? either way its not frizzy anymore and is even starting to look thicker and all i did was cut off like half an inch of split ends. actually really like how it looks rn and might be able to skip the ackward grow out phase by constantly mulleting it until i hit long wolf cut. only thing is that i manmode and have to put it up at work if its shoulder length and im p sure having huge whispy bangs like that with a pony is gonna look clocky and gay af oh well lmfao
>>43094515It's impossible to actually fix hair that's been fried. You've probably been using products with silicone, which will make your hair look glossy in the short term but make the damage worse over time. The only real way to fix fried hair is to cut it off and start over. The damaged hair will continue damaging healthy hairs that grow after them. You need a pixie cut
>>43094534hm then maybe it wasnt actually fried and just frizzy? i never dyed or bleached it
>>43094368>The messy bun on a male skull is a manbun. They don't even look attractive on men.You mean to TELL ME I'VE BEEN A BDDPASSOID THIS WHOLE TIME?! I thought it was them calling me ma'am and flirting with me as an insult for wearing a bun...
>>43094191this just makes you look like a secretary
>>43096065way too much bangs hanging down and the bun needs to be tighter
>>43096065Secretary is a hot achetype
