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i got lucky with hrt and breast development and ended up with 32DDs that objectively look ok.
they may be bigger now since i didnt measure them for a year but my old bras are tighter now. they hang straight, theyre round and arent tubes or anything

but i hate them, so much. i hate the feeling of wearing a bra. i hate their weight and how the mens clothing i still wear isnt made for them. mens shirts ride up because they take up so much space and theres not enough material

but mostly i hate them because it feels like having boobs is extremely agp. like these stupid things on my chest are so embarrassing. having breasts is so sissycoded. im ashamed of them.
but now im worried that hating breasts is also agp. maybe even more agp. is it? does the fact i ever had breasts at any point in my life mean im doomed to being some sort of sissy even if i remove them or bind them?

idk what to do sorry and thank you
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>>43094061
Image being so blessed and hating it.
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>>43094092
Imagine*
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>>43094061
You have 32 DC breast and you dress like a man? You want to be a woman at your dress like a man, why be so creepy?
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>>43094122
im not comfortable presenting as a woman yet
i feel like i'll get attacked for presenting as a woman or using she & her pronouns
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>>43094061
Ik this is kinda not the point of the post but like. Do you actually hate them, in like a having dysphoria about them way?

Or is it just that they are big enough to have become uncomfortable/unwieldy?
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>>43094061
How would that be AGP?
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>>43094122
For real. just causing bad optics for the whole group because OP is too much of a puss. if ur not gonna transition why troon out? with 32 DD too LOL cmon you’re doing more damage looking like a titty neckbeard than you would just being a kinda clocky lady. not only to yourself but to your whole community’s image
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you hate em because you are mentally ill and you will probably always be
wish i could say something nice but i don't like lying
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>>43094061
>i got lucky with hrt and breast development and ended up with 32DDs that objectively look ok.
Pic or it didn't happen
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how much do u weigh?
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>>43095121
430 lbs
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>>43095045
i dont like the sensation of tightness from bras or sports bras when trying to hide or shrink them
and yeah theyre just very in the way
>Do you actually hate them, in like a having dysphoria about them way?
im not dysphoric about them, it does feel more gender-appropriate to have them, but its still embarrassing to have them. when i go outside i feel like i need to completely hide my body now, i wear high necklines and as many loose layers as i can to obscure them. same for very loose jeans to hide hips or rear
>>43095077
i dress androgynously and i dont have a beard, i wear mens clothing that women would also be ok with wearing like gigantic hoodies and big sweaters and lots of layers
the feeling that ill get murdered in public is scarier than the dysphoria feeling bad. and i also dont deserve to present as a woman, karmically
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>>43095193
> i dont like the sensation of tightness from bras or sports bras when trying to hide or shrink them
So you are fine in normal sized bras/ones that dont try to compress t hem?

Also this + mentioning you dont like how male t-shirts fit make me think that maybe you should just try to wear more womens clothes? Like im not saying to girlmode i get that thats scary, i think so too, but like maybe try neutral womens shirts instead of mens?

> and yeah theyre just very in the way [...] im not dysphoric about them, it does feel more gender-appropriate to have them
Ig worst case you could consider consider a breast reduction if its possible? If the problem is more their size and not that you dislike them being there at all.

Also im scared ill end up the same way lol. Like i kinda like my current early on breast growth most of the time. But im super anxious they'll get big in an uncomfortable way/start getting in the way or being annoying to hide...
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>>43094061
Depends, like do you actually like your boobs but they embarrass you with all the things that come with it? It's not necessarily AGP, you just sound self-hating in general and hate that you are like that, it's fine though it's ok to enjoy your breasts.
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>>43095193
Do you have an unrealistic imagination about how women are treated in our society. You would be much safer living as a woman but you're too stupid to understand it
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There's no limit to the larp
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>>43097045
i feel pretty indifferent to them in a vacuum. i just feel like that woodshop teacher who dressed up with fake breasts to prove some point to his school, since breasts are like. inherently sissy stuff. it feels like they're huge and fake and obnoxious and embarrassing. i think id feel the same way if i was a cis woman... i feel this very fundamental urge to hide my body and hide every shape of it and be modest and inoffensive and shapeless and hidden.
i should wear a full-body cover like a nonreligious equivalent of a burqa or something. i hate this
>>43097084
i think i pass but im not ready to present as a woman. i feel like if i try to do that ill suddenly stop passing and be seen as trans by every single person in the city block around me and they'll kidnap or kill me as punishment. i think its true. i'm terrified. i think i might go back to staying indoors. i stayed inside for 4-5 months straight last year or maybe 6 months idr. i think it was actually really good to be safe and indoors like that.
i'm not stupid, i'm safe.
>>43097112
nobody is larping here
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>>43094061
>help! I'm autistic male with tiddies and a sensory problem!! help meeeeee!
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>>43097229
im not autistic and disliking tight clothes like bras isn't a "sensory problem"
cmon now



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