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How do you actually find a boyfriend or girlfriend in real life though
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>>43100067
exist in public and then just attach yourself to the first person that tries to have sex with you
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>>43100067
ffs and not mastectomy
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>>43100067
Exist in the same space long enough and have interactions with them, sounds a bit facetious but that is the core of it

>>43100082
trvke this happened to me it ended horribly though
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You don't. I've learned this the hard way through years of trying my absolute best. I can't even find someone to reject me. I am nothing, an intangible ghost completely invisible to the world.
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>>43100067
How one doesn't? Sooner or later society forces you to go out and interact with people. It is designed to (almost) guarantee reproduction by repetitive interaction and it's so effective you'd have to go out of your way to deny that purpose, aka living like a monk, having unbelievably high standards, being super anti systemic, being an asshole to people, etc.
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>>43100308
>It is designed to (almost) guarantee reproduction
i think humanity has never been less guaranteed to reproduce in history
isolation is at an all time high
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>>43100438
Nah, it's just that you first worlders live in a fucking techno-futuristic distopia lmao. The system evolved through 300.000 years of human history to basically solve the food problem and reproduction problem, the most basic levels of animal needs, with such effectiveness they basically became desires for you, not needs anymore. You guys have the privilege of having food and pussy/ass at a couple of clicks away so everything naturally just feels trite and pointless resulting in enormous amounts of people like OP living on both ends of the issue, ones thinking that finding a gf will finally make the dullness go away and quasy nihilist that prefer to shut themselves down cuz they believe nothing will make it go away really.
Don't worry tho, I'm sure the system will figure out the human part of the problem eventually now that it has the animal part under control and us thirdies will get the refined version of the system eventually.
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>>43100308
i have a large number and diverse group of friends in several circles at uni yet theres really no one who romantically clicked with me. its not like i dont have deeper connections either, i have a smaller subset to whom i talk to nightly. i guess theres just not many people interested in mtfs.
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>>43100084
This.

You needs to looksmax, unironically becoming more attractive is better advice than any of other crap on this thread.
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>>43100764
The "system" is capitalist and this alienating by its very nature. There is no "human part" that will ever be solved by this system. We are also much too deep in this system for any radical change to happen. Your only chance at a better system, as a third-worlder, is to manage a revolution at a time when the US, China and other world powers are too distracted to strangle your revolution.
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do straight trans women even get to have loving long term relationships
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>>43100764
the system evolved to be productive, i dont know where reproduction even comes into things.
if that were the case, you would expect things like child care to be well funded in the united states, yet here we are.
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>>43100942
>Your only chance at a better system, as a third-worlder, is to manage a revolution
I happen to think your system is fucking swell actually and don't see a reason to change it. I mean, don't you think it's fucking cool to have all the food you can eat and all the flesh you could fuck with just your phone? Even if you don't, ask anybody that does not live like that to not want something similar and they'll laugh in your face, ask anyone that already lives like that, even if spiritually dissatisfied, to give up that lifestyle and they'll shoot your ass (if they are american).
The system, the way I see it, is a reflection of humans, what we want the most as a species, an almost living beast without a master (even if cabals of ultra wealthy can certainly have a say in his development, this is still way bigger and older than them) constantly evolving as a result of perpetual human conflict to satisfy the needs the majority of humans have.
The way your system works is the end goal for most nations and, assuming humanity has not died on a nuclear hell, we'll all reach a point in which we'll have to think about how not to become fucking crazy when the animal part of our beings is no longer an issue. Maybe we'll be destroyed by the dilemma as plenty of ultra rich people are, maybe humans are just not meant to exist on pure desire and zero needs, or maybe something new will happen, who knows? I guess you gringos will be beta testing that stuff in next couple of centuries.



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