what's stopping you from girlmoding in public, aside from not passing? you can't manmode forever
>>43104455not passing is a valid reason to not girlmode. ppl are not nice.
I girlmode at queer parties my friends host so I basically do use womanhood as a costume I guess.
>>43104455just tomboy mode and you'll get gendered female more often than if you're wearing a revealing dress
>>43104491Eh most people are fine about it unless you live in some truely awful places.
>>43104455social anxiety
>>43104520no theyre not lol you literally cannot have a normal social life as a nonpasser. trust me, i tried. back to manmoding and will likely manmode forever
>>43104455I'm scared of being discriminated against if I get clocked, being stealth means having a secret you keep with yourself forever, being out means being othered.
>>43104455i wear boy clothes bc I'm afraid of being seenpeople gender me female regardless
>>43104534Same lol
>>43104534Are you out to people you interact with constantly? Like friends or coworkers
>>43104491 you don't want to be seen as a woman
>>43104455The look I get when I'm dressed nice and people hear my voice
>>43104509That's okay, being a drag queen is cool
>>43104558I understand what youre saying but you’re just some annoying retard. you don’t know what i want or don’t want.
>>43104526You feel more comfortable presenting yourself as a man because you identify more with maleness
>>43104526I dunno I've been doing it for 10 years and I get along fine, I haven't lived in only liberal paradises either.
>>43104579No, I don't know what you want, it's true. I do know that many transgender males really don't want to live as women. They like the idea, but not everyday reality
>>43104624I'm pretty sure they want to live as a less conspicuous transwoman instead of an obvious one
>>43104585if i dont girlmode i am still seen as a man, just as a creepy ogrehon. which is worse than just being seen as a man. being perceived as a woman literally isn’t possible for me. >>43104624nothing to do with me
>>43104636I used to think that too. After years of living full-time as a woman, without people even knowing I'm transgender, I've decided it's not really what I want. So, I'm projecting my own situation on to other people because I'm looking for agreement.
>>43104548i never say I'm trans and i always use girl voice and my documents are updated also i never wear makeup bc lazy and self conscious
>>43104640I was always seen as something different than a man. Not a woman, but not a masculine man either! I wanted to be perceived as a man, but I just didn't have the physical appearance. It's safer for me to pass as a woman cuz people don't ever think I'm anything different. Nobody ever thinks I'm transgender, when presenting as female. If I try presenting as a male, people think I'm a feminine homosexual.
>>43104714also i dont have friends and I'm unemployed now but i wasn't out to my last coworkers
>>43104455>you can't manmode foreverhaha watch me
>>43104455When i girlmode people still think im a man after the first glance so whats the difference
>>43104714Nice thanks I think I'll do the same
implying we all arent going to get buried in man's clothing with our man names with manly pictures
>>43104455AnxietyI girlmode for dates tho
>>43104714Is your hair long?
i girlmode in the sense i look like a man with long hair in girls clothing and everyone calls me sir
>>43104455>you can't manmode foreverwatch me
>>43104455money for clothes and shoes and makeup and shit mostly
>>43104455I wish it was easier to be high effort. Dumb shit, I know, but girlmoding means I have to shave, get dressed up, accessorize, put a lot of thought into what matches with what.... with manmoding I just put on a sweater and go.
>>43104455because most look like picrel
>>43107587Not bad at all tho even if she doesn't pass
>>43107618kys
>>43107642Why
Seems lame and impractical and real women™ look like women even in men's clothes
>>43104455not skinni enough >>43104518trueeee
>>43104455I wanna look like a girl that wears boy clothes
>>43107739Mood. I tomboymode not boymode
>>43104455but nona the femininity i had has been beaten out of me and there is only the deep fear of anything feminine, i miss being a kid that wasn't afraid of expressing myself and doing feminine things
Honestly I’m too comfortable boymoding, like I have a bunch of clothes that I just don’t wear because I’m too scared to try wearing out for fear of sticking out too much and looking overdressed or out of place for where I am. So I never escaped the hoodie.
