I'm broke & wanna be loved.
>>43120427Go on Grindr, put g3nerous in your bio and wait. Either you’ll be banned or approached by rich chasers within a weekOr alternatively start an OF and post content on Reddit to promote, you’ll quickly get DMs from wannabe sugar daddies (although a lot of them will be scammers)t. An mtf former sugar baby former pornstar
>>43120468what was your experience like?
>>43120480Draining. I used to do porn and made a lot of money out of it but I could never sustain the sugar daddy side of it.I’d wake up, reply to their boring DMs, fain enthusiasm for their deeply dull lives and get talked to like a sex object for hours of my day.>’hey send me what you’re wearing rn’>’hey, here’s my odd fetish that you don’t share that you have to pretend to be into so I keep giving you money’>’hey, I know you’re spending time with your friends rn but you should really send me a lewd pic, if you don’t then I’m sorry but this isn’t going to work out’I think sugar babying can be a good fit for plenty of people but for personally, I couldn’t stand it.I quit sex work years back and switched to less lucrative work because I couldn’t handle how gross it made me feel
>>43120544how much money were you making?
>>43120427Looks like someone forgot to grind their fundies
>>43120544awkinda sadIt's like having a job with shit coworkers, lmfao
>>43120575By the end about £500 a week? Like I said, porn is lucrative as hell.The worst thing about it though is that it’s true you can never escape it. I’ve seen videos of me reposted, I’ve had to file copyright claims in countless reuploads, for a while if you reverse image searched my face on google you’d be able to find me getting railed within minutes
>>43120544Genuinely how hard is it to get started? Like if pass reasonably well, will I have a lot of problems? Also do I have to share my face publicly or will not doing so just make things harder.
>>43120660ngl that doesnt sound like a lot of money but i guess you'd probably have to keep putting in work to get to those higher tiers. that sucks nona hope your civilian career works out
>>43120651Yeah, it wasn’t the worst thing in the world obviously.But I think it’s hard to understand unless you do it how much objectification breaks you. To begin with it’s fun to get the horny DMs and money for existing. But as time goes on you find yourself always dressing slutty so when someone asks for a picture or a meet you are always prepped. You spend hours in front of a mirror analysing every way you suck and need to be more attractive. You’ll record a video of yourself or take a picture and find yourself taking the picture over and over again for hours because you are convinced you look disgusting.And then whilst all this is going on you then need to constantly maintain a happy attitude to the people who are borderline raping you. Sex work was the worst thing I ever did and nothing has come close to being as degrading and mentally damaging, having worked in customer service is I can say it’s the kiddie pool of degradation to me.But note that this is just my experience and I know plenty of sex workers who enjoy their work, I just was at an all time low whilst I was doing it personally
>>43120660>By the end about £500 a week? Like I said, porn is lucrative as hell.grim
>>43120697If you aren’t actively repulsive anyone can be a sex worker. It just takes effort. And you don’t need to show your face but your face is where the big bucks are>>43120722I was talking about passive income from sugar daddies plus OF, I was getting paid upwards of £600 to sleep with someone for 15 minutes
>>43120750We’re talking about no effort sex work, I only ever posted like 30 pictures/videos to OF in my stint
>>43120764>And you don’t need to show your face but your face is where the big bucks areYeah this is what I fear, like I don’t care so much for myself but I have a family member in public eye, don’t want what I do tied to them.
>>43120764>I was talking about passive income from sugar daddies plus OF, I was getting paid upwards of £600 to sleep with someone for 15 minutesoh
>>43120806There’s still plenty of money to be made without a face if you have a good body and are willing to get good at lighting, composition and appealing to some very niche fetishes
>>43120776yeah this makes much more sense>>43120764
>>43120861What did you use for taking videos and photos? Just an iPhone? I already have some soft boxes I can borrow.
>>43120736I could never force a woman / transwoman through thisIt's such a gooner expectation.I can't help but empathize and think how it would make them feel I commanded them to do this shit
>>43120924An iPhone in a well lit space goes a long way. I always slapped this one filter onto a pic/video if it was only of my body and boom, quick and dirty gooner baitYou’ll want to minimise shadows in your images, and post to Reddit over and over again. Never comment your OF, leave that in your bio for people to find. Be consistent and make a wish list as well so people can buy you things.If you want to push it further you can have a ‘premium Snapchat,’ basically add a Snapchat labelled as premium and charge people to talk to you.Oh and reposting is your friend, you’ll want to delete and repost your promotions on Reddit every two to three days Never make a free OF, you’ll want your OF to have a ‘deal’ on perpetually, like make your OF £8 and have a deal on for a limited time for new sign ups that costs £2.This is because the money isn’t in new subscribers on Onlyfans, the money is in people forgetting they have auto renew turned on.The first month they’ll pay basically nothing, but the second they’ll pay full price, and eventually some of those subscribers will forget to ever turn off their subscription so you end up with hundreds of people paying you for doing nothing
>>43120985Yeah, I don’t get the people who can do this to people Having been one of the workers it was very odd to me the disconnect they had in viewing me as an actual person rather than wank material.I’d get all sorts of messages, all sorts of confessions, I had people open messages with shit like ‘my wife is out of town, wanna come over?’ And for some reason they just couldn’t process that basically everyone on earth would find that repulsive because I’m apparently the endlessly horny prostituteThe worst part was I was starting HRT at the time and my libido was at an all time low, so there was no gratification for me at all
>>43121036Sorry, I needed to charge my phone just wanted to say thank you for passing on your knowledge.
>>43121443Np. Me having a bad experience is not the same as sex work being inherently bad.Just look after yourself out there, if you aren’t enjoying it don’t do it. The worst thing you can do is become financially dependent on something that drives you to suicide
