This board is actively detrimental to my mental health but I don't know where else to go without feeling like I'm getting hugboxxed.
The sort of stuff you get here is equally as delusional as hugboxxing just in the other direction. It is so pessimistic as to be absurd. To anyone who is not directly afflicted by the mental illnesses this place promotes, it is as cringe as reddit hugboxxing is.
>>43124297>The sort of stuff you get here is equally as delusional as hugboxxing just in the other direction.Yeah this is so true
>>43124297truth heavy bombardment
>>43124289Newfag on here and the entire board seems to be self-loathing, bait threads or thinly disguised fetish threads.
>>43124297being delusionally pessimistic at least lets you wallow in your humility.
>>43124297trvkeNarcissism comes mainly in delusions of grandeur, but it can come as well in the shape of piteous moaning and self righteous deprecation. ig the key is arrogance but either way this place is buns
>>43124303>>43124306I think its a shame because most of the people who are /tttt/ mental illness sufferers ultimately just want to be loved and accepted. Why does it matter if you have mm of bone in the wrong place? Well its because if you do, then you'll be unlovable and gross and everyone will hate you. Its self defeating because ultimately the thing that is most off putting is being some sort of deranged tranny who is hyper obsessed with shit nobody else notices or cares about. They would all be better off just leaning in and working on themselves, making the most of transition.
>>43124321newfag hit bullseye
>>43124326It's not "humility" just cause it's not positive
>>43124326You are not demonstrating humility you're demonstrating self loathing, which is just self obsession with extra steps. It is deeply off putting to other people and will hold you back in life far more than whatever feature you think means its over. You could pass if you wanted to. Hows your voice? Hows your eyebrows?
>>43124330Nah I agree. The right path is some kind of middle ground.
>>43124289>without feeling like I'm getting hugboxxed.Trauma response. You need to feel bad in order to believe its genuine. You think sincerity is false and malevolence is authentic. This leads you to seek out negative experiences which reinforces a destructive spiral.
>>43124321and whats wrong with that?
>>43124289me too. i think it makes my narcissistic tendencies worse. i'm not a prideful person but i am very self-centred and self-loathing
>>43124297This place is still a tranny cesspit and bichud cesspit so you get bad hugboxxing still.
Like all forms of media you need to be able to filter out the bad from the good. You already do this on some level (or else random posts telling you to kill yourself would make you rope), when people talk about "healthy' and 4chan use they don't really mean "good for your brain', even if they think they do. What they mean is whether the things they read and that you repeat make them comfortable or not. Everyone uses social media, and virtually all social media has deeply insidious ads that were designed in laboratories to make you hate yourself and be herded like animal into buying product. I'm not going to pretend 4chan doesn't have this too but it's much easier at least for me personally to filter out and ignore. You can likewise do this with any content posted here, just treat trolls the same way you would think about ads on any other website.>>43124692Self-absorption isn't necessarily narcissism. There's a reason why depressed people are so myopic, it's not because they're in love with themselves.
>>43124289Maybe switch to a hugbox zone, but act just prickly and aloof enough that people leave you alone without asking you to leave >>43124297This. It’s pretty stupid here
>>43124330>most of the people who are /tttt/ mental illness sufferers ultimately just want to be loved and acceptedyeah
>>43124289truth
>>43124330This. It bums me out how fixated some people on here get about really minor issues with their appearance. I understand why they feel that way and I sympathize, I just wish they could relax a bit for their own sake.