Im sick of being in constant mental and physical pain.My ffs was botched and im not coping. Im just venting into the void to cope. I hope everyone else is having a better day
surgeon's name & post the botch because you're probably overthinking it. you can also go to a different surgeon and get revisions
>>431316032pass, Dr. NoormanI had an implant put into my nose and other surgeons are deeply reluctant to touch it. The placement makes my brow look huge, and i dont pass now
>>43131697why would they put an implant in your nose for a feminizing rhinoplasty? be honest, were you asking for something hyper specific?
>>43131725The nose bridge collapsed mid surgery, it absolutely wasnt planned or discussed beforehand.Its bad, i get a ton more abuse now than before.
>>43131752oh jeez i'm sorry to hear that nona, honestly then your best bet is probably with the original surgeon, you had shit put in your face by him that was not planned or discussed and gave worse results, that's his responsibility to fix, you have to be pushy and dramatic and call the office, demand to speak with him, demand revisions to fix this, cry a little on the phone if you can manage it, make it clear without threatening outright that it's going to be a problem for his practice if he lets you walk away with botched results.seriously stand up for yourself and be a karen. not doing revisions after unacceptable results is unacceptable
>>43131863He refused. I did go back. He adjusted the nose tip in a revision, but its unsalvagable. I didn't pass 100% before but i could get by, go about my business. Now i cannot. I had a consultation in Thailand with another surgeon and he just said its too dangerous to touch, could affect my breathing if he adjusts it.I went from someone who had friends and went outside to a recluse. I dread outside now. I have to go outside to the doctors today and i have panic attacks. Idk what to do. I try to cope but i look at pre surgury pics and i spiral. Not coping.
>>43131863The ironic part is that i can pay upfront for a revision, if a surgeon said I'll fix it but need 20k, i could pay. But no one will touch it.I can tell i dont pass at all now, by how people react to me. I had a bit of a melt down in public, cried a lot. And all i heard was "thats a man" as i went home. Pretty shit dont recommend living like this
>>43131863Thanks for listening to me rant anon
>>43131968can you share photos of just your nose (before/after if possible). basically this should not happen and if the results are actually as bad as you think they are you would easily have grounds for medical malpractice and financial compensation, which you could use towards finding a surgeon willing to do the work
>>43132053I'll try
>>43132053Before left, right after. Was botched
>>43132210i didn't see it before you deleted it, you can sagepost it if you want less people to see
>>43132314I get depressed looking at it
>>43132470nta, this angle might just be really bad for seeing the issue but based on this picture youre mostly fine? like yeah it looks worse sure but it doesnt seem even close to justifying being a recluse and whatever
>>43132676Are you sure? I get very sad
>>43132470it's a straight nose ridge i agree that it looked better before but it's not that bad and not masculinei get that feeling of "it was better before and that's lost forever" and how powerfully debilitating that can be but your nose itself is not that bad. from the way you talked about it i expected a deformity and this just looks like a nose and frankly a better one than what a lot of trannies have
>>43132803It kills my soul. Its difficult not to cry all the time. I was happy with how i looked, now i dont like it.Im very insecure about my appearance, got bullied a lot. I wish i never had tbat surgery
>>43132470the brow ridge always looks so fucked when they bust up the bone and "soften" itlike it's still fucking huge just round
>>43132965Yeah its not flat and it sucks.The funny part is i pass better directly face on now, but irl who looks at you face on, unless its a conversation lol.
