Every person I've been with, trans or cis, has said that I'm very attractive and rate me pretty high, anywhere from 8-9.5/10. Where can I meet a pretty trans girl who's also around that rating? I'm not socially awkward or weird or anything of that nature, so its not like im fumbling. i just can't find a cute trans girl irl is basically impossible. but looking online on dating apps is also quite difficult since trans people in general dont seem to use those sorts of apps. I'm guessing most trans girls just stay indoors mostly or stick to hobbies / interests that dont have them interact with a lot of people? which places do i look in online and in person. I dont mind putting myself out there i just dont know what places to put myself in to let a cute trans girl know that i am available and interested in getting to know her better.
>>43132626the animation meme community
Passiods that hot often don't advertise they are trans directly and will tell you after a few dates, so yes its very difficult.
>>43132626atp you use social media as a dating app i guess
>>43132643what does that mean>>43132652so do I just date normal cis girls on dating apps and hope they are trans? odds of that are hundreds or even thousands to one. that's not a viable thing to do >>43132680I do somewhat, but I don't think it's wise to cold approach people on social media. with dating apps at least I know that people are there for the sake of dating
>>43132726>so do I just date normal cis girls on dating apps and hope they are trans? odds of that are hundreds or even thousands to one. that's not a viable thing to doCorrectAn 8-9/10 passing tranny is literally like a one in 10000You're going to have to either get into clockier troons or get over your fixation with trannies because the odds of you snagging one are basically non existentAdd in the fact that if you do find one and show any implication that you are into trans women she will probably drop you like a bad habit. Clockier troons usually have to cope with being okay with being fetishized or else we die alone, but pretty passers can afford to be picky on that frontNot trying to blackpill you just giving you the facts
>>43132626how tall are you tho
>>43132785im not interested in them from the POV of fetishization though. I'm attracted to unique people, and trans girls have some of the most unique lives since their upbringing and transition is something that very few people will experience. it gives them different types of insights and mindsets which i find intriguing. some of the most interesting conversations ive had with are with trans girls. The attraction part is because I've never had a single partner rate me anything below an 8, and most have put me 9 or higher. I feel it's reasonable to want someone who's the same level as me. so yes, I would like to get to know a trans girl.but it's for reasons much beyond just physical attraction. does it play a part? yes. but its not the end all be all.thanks for the words of advice>>431328055'9 or 5'10. i get diff answers during doctor visits.
>>43132841i was writing out this long answer from a t4t perspective but then i re-read your posts and realized you're probably a cis guy so maybe my advice is not applicable lmao.
>>43132652Some of who date men do or say on first date to avoid things getting violent.
>>43132841>The attraction part is because I've never had a single partner rate me anything below an 8, and most have put me 9 or higher.I get the logic in general, but when talking about trans women the problem is 9/10 trans women are so few, most of us unfortunately do not pass, and there already isn't many trans women trannies period Being a 9/10 trans woman simply is magnitudes rarer than a 9/10 cis male>im not interested in them from the POV of fetishization though. I'm attracted to unique people, and trans girls have some of the most unique lives since their upbringing and transition is something that very few people will experience. it gives them different types of insights and mindsets which i find intriguing. some of the most interesting conversations ive had with are with trans girls.It's not me you'll have to convince
How old and where are located OP?
>>43132626chasergen
>>43132858Yes, I’m a cis man. Forgot to mention that. >>43132882Yeah, I get it from a pure statistics point of view it certainly is quite rare. I suppose asking for someone who’s an 8 or above is already a bit much. I’d much rather be with someone who’s above average and I have a genuine connection with them rather than someone who’s very attractive but shallow. >>43132894Mid 20s, southern US. >>43132904I’ve browsed that thread, I’m not sure if I’d meet someone there.
>>43132983>southern USUnfortunate
>>43132626Would you wanna pre-order one? I'm early in transition but people say I pass really well. the worst someone has said is that im androgynous leaning fem and very promising.
>>43133244Don’t say that about yourself lol. Like I said, I’m not interested in trans girls purely for fetishization reasons. Looks do matter but I’m more interested in if we click or not. I don’t mind getting to know you. But what about you? Why make a post advertising yourself in such a way
>>43133366>why make a post advertising yourself in such a way?Well I figured there couldn't be much harm in chatting with who seems as articulate and earnest as you. So it was just up to whether or not my 'immaturity' would be a deal breaker lol.
>>43133427Your honesty is amusing lol. Are you based in the US? I’m not too interested in some long distance relationship.
>>43133466Sent the message a bit early. While i don’t mind talking to someone on here, the point still stands: where would I meet a cute trans girl? My only guess would be to frequent a place cute girls also happen to spend a lot of time on, but going to those places online just for finding girls seem a bit… lecherous I suppose. Unless it’s a hobby I’m also interested in. What are cute trans girls into?
>>43133466I'm southern U.S. :)
>>43133478What made you want to get into trans women?
>>43133485The penis
>>43133485It’s probably too long to write up here, but I did put the gist of it up top. Essentially they live very unique lives. Right from their childhood they got a lot of internal strife. Most people don’t have supportive families so they have to figure out how to achieve their goals in spite of that. The most interesting poeple I’ve met in life have been the ones who’ve faced the most struggles, and there are very few groups of people that’ve faced as many struggles as trans people have. As I’ve said, looks aren’t the only thing I’m looking for. But they are important. I put effort into making myself attractive and healthy and presentable, so I’d hope to find someone who does the same. >>43133480Okay, I’d like to talk to you a bit more and get to know you. Do you mind if I ask you some more stuff here? Or do you have some discord or snap or smth I could add you on to talk to.
>>43133540>I'm an 8-9.5/10 looking to date trans women for the strugglesIt's just not working for me. If you're bi or gay or interested in experimenting you should say so. You sound way too new.
>>43133540my discord is lazvli (legacy is Lazvli#7519 I still don't know if that matters)
>>43133566What is it about my words that makes me sound new? I think you’re misunderstanding the point im trying to get across. Historically, character is built through struggle. I’m not claiming to be better than anyone else. I’m saying that I’ve also gone through plenty of struggles in my life and I know I’ve become better due to it. I want to meet likeminded people who are in the same boat as me: they’ve faced difficulty in life but have come out the other side a better person. I’m not sure how else to succinctly word it>>43133574Added.
>>43132841>The attraction part is because I've never had a single partner rate me anything below an 8, and most have put me 9 or higher. I feel it's reasonable to want someone who's the same level as me.Brother, I follow the logic, but. I'm a passoid but I have no idea what people would rate me. You're asking for an extremely rare kinda breed. Passing AND self-confident. Remember that we essentially grow up with extreme insecurities.
>>43133750Ah that’s a fair point. I didn’t consider that too much. In most cases people can rely on the opinions of those close to them, but I’ve noticed there seems to be some disconnect within the trans community where certain girls are unfortunately not that attractive yet will be lauded as beautiful by others. I imagine that makes it hard to truly see where one stands. You said that you have no idea what others would rate you, yet you say you’re a passoid. In my mind a passoid means someone who is attractive in the eyes of most people. What does it mean to you?
>>43133820that's not what passoid means. it has a set definition. "trans woman who looks like a woman". could be super ugly, or attractive. just needs to look like a woman.
>>43133860Interesting. So what’s better in the eye of trans girls? To be attractive while people know you are trans or to be ugly but be fully passing? In my mind even the question sounds kind of like an oxymoron. Who wouldn’t want to be pretty.
