I’ve been planning on doing this because I don’t want to come out to anyone because I know even though they say they are supportive as soon as they know I’m a real tranny they won’t want anything to do with me.

>>43133577
I kinda did that. Like in college I'd dress up ambiguous and go to the men's rest rooms like I'm used to. Once a guy came out, stood in the door, looked at me, turned around to check the sign, turned back at me, pointed at the sign & gave me a confused look. I said "yeah I know bro, I'm trans" and he went ahh & went along.

Another time, I went shopping for clothes with my sister. She wanted to help me pick some feminine clothes. We waited in line to the dressing booths. When our turn came, the attendant waved us over, and I hesitantly asked her "uhm, excuse me, where do I go..?" She was startled for a second, but then decided "you know what, you had me fooled, so go to the women's changing booths"

That's how I gradually realized I was passing and started defaulting to the women's side.

>>43133658
If only everyone was like you, there'd be no conflict.

>>43133577
>i haven't interacted with this thing so it must not be real, 900 downboats for you sir
uniroically i dont get why ppl are like this, same with 'common sense/knowledge' being used for people expecting others to grow up the same way they did and know everything they do, even when they know its specialized knowledge (like "laymans terms"). reddit does it more but i see this dumb stuff everywhere

>>43133824
It's because everyone's terminally online to some extent but still want to dunk on someone from a different niche from them to feel normal. It's why autistics hate other autistics that are more retarded than them.
>>43133658
I was personally thinking of mostly boymoding but being as feminine and "passing" as I could conceivably be on special occasions yet still claiming I'm male. Especially because I'm terrified of voice training and ruining the whole boymoding technique I'll need for every Thanksgiving and Christmas so I can stay in the closet for as long as possible.

>>43133853
>Especially because I'm terrified of voice training and ruining the whole boymoding technique I'll need for every Thanksgiving and Christmas so I can stay in the closet for as long as possible.
I came out the closet when I moved out of my parents' home. I just figured they can't kick me out anymore. Worst they could do is disown me, but not make me miserable short-term. You should train your voice. It takes an eternity to really get it down but my vocal range is insane now. I can sound like a dude if I wanna still, I just don't wanna.

Funny thing, I always loved singing, but when I recorded myself & listened back to it, I always sounded so dogshit. Now I actually sound okay. In hindsight, duh, I've more or less mastered my own voice box. So you could pretend you're just into singing. Most of female/male speech differences just boil down to intonation & "breathiness" (and maybe shoving your adam's apple out the way). I realized this when I realized one of the cis female YouTubers I watch actually has a naturally deeper voice than I did pre-training.

>>43133577
too many ppl like you cant be mad

>>43133984
Call me privileged and cruel but I'd rather be disowned by my family than supported by them. Being supported by them means I'm still in debt to them for everything they've done for me which means visiting them and keeping in contact with them. In a family where all my siblings and cousins are men I really don't wanna be the odd one out that they have to walk on eggshells for or have them be way too excited about my new minority status because they're massive libtards. I would rather boymode around them permanently and I just know I'll slip up if I voice train. I just feel bad because I wanna be as much of a woman as I possibly can be for my future girlfriend/wife.