whats your relationship to consensual nonconsent? does it turn you on to act like you dont want it, or for your partner to act like they dont want it? was it hard for you to come to terms with? personally, i had a hard time finding a way to tell my first gf about it without making myself feel like a creep, and i think it going undiscussed hampered our sex and played a part in ending our relationship
forgot no one on this site fucks
>>43137718happens to the best of us
Part of it scares me because I imagine a scenario where someone is into CNC and then one day goes >haha tricked u, I actually didn't consent that time you're a rapist now haha gotchaAnd then I get into huge trouble
CNC just makes me sad, because rape is essentially sex + rejection, and the idea of my boyfriend rejecting me makes me depressed. I want my boyfriend to enjoy sex and make him happy that way.
I'm a sadist but cnc doesn't do much for me, I'll do it to a partner if they really want it, but I'm uncomfortable ever being a sub in such a situation.
>>43136388It is my dream to one day bottom in a cnc interrogation scene and open with "where am i, where's reznov"
>>43136388basically all my fantasies revolve around it to some extent but i'm too embarrassed to admit it tbhon. dubious consent fuckery is also REALLY good and really underrated
>>43138922That's because dubious consent in reality is just non consent
>>43138953i know duh but it's a subtype and it's semantics, people think of different things when they hear cnc like bdsm etc than dubious consent
>>43136388I enjoyed playing the evil bastard for a girl in high school. It's not really a kink that I'm into in an established relationship though, I only get into it myself when I'm really pent up and lonely and need more and more stimulating material to fap to. I still think it's crazy that some people think having a cnc kink from the aggressor side is immoral and makes you a predator.
>>43139025say more about playing evil bastard for that girl
>>43139077I don't want to go too detailed, but think kidnapping and choking and sexual training. We leaned into more of a mindbreak kinda thing though, not noncon all the way through. Felt a bit more brat-taming adjacent but with a cnc setting. She liked to struggle.
>>43139209hot. were you both in high school or just her?
i used to be really into cnc and we did it with my ex, but estrogen kinda mellowed my libido and i lost my interest in it somewhat. i still like free use with cnc vibes -type fantasies, but straight up rapeplay and violence like choking and spanking doesnt do it to me anymore. never had hangups about the morality of it, i spared that for other fetishes
>>43139306I got less and less into it the more I actually had real sexual experiences
I like free use, kidnapping fantasies, being drugged or made to drink, some degree of violence like medium choking or slapping, but I'm a transbian and its fucking impossible to find a normal partner who wants to do it as a top.
>>43139349drugging >>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>
