how do you tranners cope with never being able to pass?? i thought i could be a chad stoic repper but every few months it just gets too much. Is alcohol and drugs the only way?
>>43148785hrt, srs and boymoding
not passing isnt a real problem with a ccw and professional employment. Its kind of a cheap thrill if you sometimes pass and do not voice train. There are often cis men and women who do not pass. Passing as a motivator for transition can often be misguided. Being liked by strangers is not guaranteed no matter what you do.
>>43148809massive cope also im broke
>>43148830>ccwyou can get a ccw if you are trans? >There are often cis men and women who do not pass.insane cope>>43148838just the HRT then. Once you are 50 everyone will be a hon
>>43148785Most of us can tell if we're going to make it, or not, after 6 months on HRT. If you don't pass, just detransition.
>>43148959nta but what if you cant live cis due to dysphoria detransing isnt a fix
>>43148932Passing is conditional. No cope required. Most people are ugly. Constantly seeking validation is a guarantor of being ugly.
>>43149009Well, I think it's always fixed. I didn't want to personally detrans because I like being a girl too much. I pass pretty well; if I had to, I would have just gone back to being a gay boy again
>>43148785I don't like myself as a person onT, I repped for a long time and I know I can't live like that anymore.
>>43149055well of course you think that you pass, but if you didnt pass detransing doesnt work
>>43149173I did detransition for a super cute guy and then when we broke up, I transitioned back
>>43149202oh my godwell all of that doesnt work when hrt does nothing... if i had to detrans i would just kms
>>43149304Well we're all different. If I found a guy who really loved me and wanted me to live male, it wouldn't be a sush a severe problem, as long as I could be myself, which is going to be really feminine
If you detransition will people know you were previously a tranny if you have boobs? What if I just boy mode permanently while staying on HRT.
>>43149380I really like fucking too much too give up my sex drive
>>43149416Oh that’s not an issue for me, I’ve never topped always bottomed.
>>43149470I always wanted to be good at talking but I never was really good. My boyfriend's always taught me more but I always wanted to top them. I'm just a real femme
>>43149470This didn't come out like I wanted to. There should be an edit function on this thing?
