My bf wants me to gain 30 pounds. I'm not particularly skinny (BMI 23). He insists he's not a feeder and doesn't want my belly to get too big. What explains this?
If not a larp fetish thread then the truth is just because he wants to see and feel a big ass while he is having sex.
>>43149794I suppose men do like large breasts/butt if they aren't put off by the weight
>>43149770He's technically a feeder, but a lot of people associate that with whale hunters who want mega obese girls and thus avoid the term.He probably wants you in the chubby, but not obese range, 28 BMI or so.
>>43150761I had a friend warn me that my bf wanted me to just keep gaining, but he says I shouldn't be too big. So I guess this makes sense
>>43151700Something like 20% of guys are some form of chubby chaser, but of course that covers everything from "I don't mind softer girls" to "I want to feed a girl to 800 lbs".With lesbians it's more like 40%. How tall are you?
>>43151700A lot of the time runaway gaining is because people will adopt eating habits to reach a goal as fast as possible and they'll stick, and those habits have a caloric surplus way above chubby.Like, the number of calories needed to maintain a normal person are only slightly lower than that needed to maintain a chubby person. It's like an extra snickers a day. But if you were to eat only that much the gain would happen extremely slowly, like a pound or two a year. This is how a lot of older people get fat by accident, two pounds a year for 15 years. Meanwhile if you wanna get chubby as fast as possible you eat like a pig to do it quickly, but that much eating could maintain a 400 lb person, and once you've gotten used to those habits and stretched your stomach out it's hard to stop and people will blow past their goal weights and balloon
>>431525895'10
>>43152706The obesity threshold then is 209 pounds. 195 is a nice middle chubby number. Overweight starts at 174 at your height
>>43152719I was 180 at one point, the real problem would be the difficulties that come with being overweight long-term
>>43152754If you aren't obese and aren't lazy those are minimal to nil, just stay active
>>43152663i tried eating high fat high cal all the time and only gained 20 lbs in a year lol, when i tried it much younger i just didnt gain at all
