Longtime female friend ha become so violently transphobic and BPD with current politics that I'm considering cutting her off despite knowing her for like 14 years. She literally has made hating trannies her entire personality when before she was accepting. She's also become addicted to AI shit like chatGPT and Grok.I have a feeling she'll have a freakout and try to ruin my life if I do anything at this point so I'm waiting things out to see how they turn out and how to safely start disengaging but this feels insanity inducing. When my partner and I tried to talk to her about her obsession with right wing politics and how it feels like she's been brainwashed and has gotten obsessive she got incredibly dismissive and rude. She keeps being supportive of us and telling us we're "different" because we're her friends but I know it's only an amount of time before she tweaks out anyways.Does this just happen with cis women? I don't get it.
>>43153826You should cut her off. These people are never going to learn if there are no consequences.
>>43153896I will probably once I know to do it safely. Partner and I spent all night discussing it. It feels so insane how someone I knew and loved like a sister became such an extremeist and so violent about loved ones in less than a year. I swear using Grok all the time had something to do with it since she only got this bad after using it daily. We tried to intervene wih that too.
>>43153826don't try to convince her she's wrong or been brainwashed. Extremist thinking centers itself as normal and everything else as intrinsically wronginstead you need to firmly tell her that you can't be friends with someone whose beliefs are so antithetical to your own existence. You being "one of the good ones" isn't a basis for a friendship in the face of such beliefsand cut her off. Maybe she figures herself out, maybe she doesn't, but you deserve better than being the token good tranny in her eyes
>>43153936Sorry this is happening to you. It's happening to people all across the country. My own sister was arguing a while back that kids shouldn't be allowed to know about LGBT people, which is just insanity to me. They want all us queers to go back into the closet. Fuck that. LGBT kids and teens deserve to know that they're fine just the way they are and they have a whole community of fellow LGBT people to support them.
>>43153826>Longtime female friend ha become so violently transphobicThere's something in the water istgHow is this happening to so many people?!
>>43153826run away before she throws you under the bus in the tranny purge
>>43156077Said this earlier but yeah my partner and I spent all night talking about this because we know she'll have a massive BPD crashout and genuinely try to ruin our lives if she feels we slighted her. We want her to be better so badly but her being like this has us worried. She even said the trans community "deserves what's coming" for shit like trans kids and drag queen story hour.She didn't use to be this way but in like a year she's become fucking insane and dependent on shit like Grok/ChatGPT to even form opinions.
>>43154228my little brother point blank said to me that all "crossdressers and such" are insane & degenerate and pretends not to know me if I come across him in a public place wearing a skirt
>>43156439jfc lmaoi've never had anyone close to me become that openly extreme, must be weirdsocial media's doing a lot to fuck us over, lots of ppl adopting mainstream transphobic language/opinions rn but they keep it on the dl around usrly concerning the # of ppl in my life suddenly having opinions on my right to integrate into society after a few instagram reels
