i'm (and i assume most of you are) in the awkward stage where i'm actually on hormones but am still a long ways from passing. what the hell are we supposed to do socially while we wait? we can't date because we'll only get people who see us as our agab and want us to detroon, we can't make friends of the same gender since they're all uncomfortable, and our families want nothing to do with us. should we just stay alone and wait in the closet and then move somewhere new to go stealth when we finally pass? that's what i'm doing at least, i'm curious if you are doing anything different.and i'm not particularly interested in hearing from hrt reppers, perma manmoders, or other people who have resigned themselves to staying closeted neverpassers. not that i have a problem with you, i just want the perspectives of others who plan to actually live as stealth (or out as trans, but i doubt anyone here would do that) some day.
You are just making up problems, either have a fag voice or voice train a little and you can just honmode, people will be your friend, and date you just fine. Halting your life until you pass is a dangerous game you can get trapped....
>>43154068That stage never ends for most people.I've been on hrt for 13 years and never voice trained, never honmoded, never came out or got surgery.
cry :(
>>43154068I think there's a lie by omission whit this question in the one is waiting for their life to start, I present fem and do most of the same things I use to do because I'm true trans and don't get caught with my brainworms. I don't think I can be stealth, but I've had people tell me that there's a chance I could be in a few years. The people who don't want to be out will do what they want and the same for people that are visible, none of this shit matters.
Cut myself
I used to pass when ana, gained a normal amount of weight and now strangers clock me daily. Now I'm not sure what to do besides try not to rope. Insurance covered FFS but the surgeon was a novice and didn't actually do much besides peel my face on and off, but insurance already rejected getting a revision covered. Now I just try to focus on a job I really enjoy and dissociate from my body / reactions of normies :( gets a little harder every day tho
>>43154068>Laser>Weight cycling >Exercise>Learn hair/makeup>Voice training!!>Ai therapy >Decorating >Organizing >Becoming more thoughtful >Getting closer with friends>Building up immediate family >Saving for ffs
>>43154068I dunno what to tell you I've been passing easily to strangers since I lasered my facial hair
>>43154068>We can dateIv dated a few guys and a girl since coming out>We cant make friends of the same genderAll my freinds are women >Our families want nothing to do with usAnon im sorry your life sucks but it is not a universal experience. My family is very supportive T. Southern hon <3
>>43154068i tell people im non binary while trying to present as much like a woman as possible
>>43154098you gotta try to pass before getting mad you are a hon
I first came out to my bi friend and he became my bf (we are getting married)You can find love ig, but it's not with anyone
