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This woman who’s really trying to interact with me at my job asked me what perfume I used, and when I said I don’t use perfume, she just stared directly into my eyes with a blank look on her face. I got overwhelmed and said the name of the perfume I was wearing. She smiled, said that it suited me well, and then walked away.

I feel like she knows I’m a tranny. Is this forced female socialization?
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were you or were you not wearing perfume? god, it's like talking to foucault
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>>43156273
I was wearing perfume yes

I didn’t think it was enough to notice
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>>43156290
from the perspective of this woman: she liked a person's scent, she asked said person what scent they were wearing, and that person was REALLY weird about it. just fyi
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>>43156260
she might have guessed you were a tranny or she might have just thought you were a cute boy embarrassed about wearing perfume
cant really tell from what you've said i wouldnt think about it too much
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>>43156260
Why would you lie about wearing perfume, faggot?
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>>43156311
I’ve been making subtle changes to my appearance, and it’s like she comes directly up to me and compliments it or comments on it in some way.

It just feels really exposing

>>43156335
I think it’s the first one
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>>43156363
>perfume
>subtle
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>>43156371
It smells more like cologne so I thought it would be less obvious

>>43156356
I look like a boy
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>>43156378
All boymoders look visibly gay, there's nothing wrong with wearing perfume if you're gay.

You could have also just lied.
Look up a cologne brand and tell them instead if you're that fucking embarrassed of wearing your frou-frou LaLa fairy spray.
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>>43156260
>Tranny get scared when woman acts normal
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>>43156260
Your a liar OP, you should have been honest from the start and said the name of the perfume.
You need to work on yourself, and public behavior.
Building community is about trusting people in the community, you are not being honest so you may not be what a honest community wants.
Dishonest transgender women end up in dishonest transgender communities, you don't want to be that transgender women you want to be the one in the good communities.
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>>43156290
So what you where dishonest, and can't be treated.
Everyday there are dishonest transgender in the news
They didn't think also
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She just thinks your a cute gay boy.
t. cisfag who has never worn mens perfume
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>>43156260
she just assumed you're gay and liked the smell of your perfume anon... next time act like a normal human being and say "oh thank you it's xyz, i just started wearing it out, it's not too strong is it?"
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>>43156363
You need get personality in order or you are going to be a angry tranny that society doesn't like.
Be honest be yourself
Have courage
Have self-esteem
You're sabotaging your self , self destruction by lying.
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>>43156610
>>43156632
although i am a big strong hairy man,
at least i am not an albanian
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>>43156610
>>43156632
The only reason I wasn’t upfront was because I boymode everywhere

It’s weird to get clocked so persistently by one person

I wasn’t dishonest about anything bad

>>43156649
I’m gonna be "lying" until I don’t look like a boy anymore it’s not self destruction
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>>43156666
I wear bint hooran , and everyone loves the smell, when questioned I say I'm a boy and it's also a boys perfume.

Yes, Bint Hooran by Ard Al Zaafaran is marketed as a unisex, versatile Arabian fragrance suitable for both men and women. While often marketed for women, its rich notes of musk, cedar, and tobacco make it highly appealing to men as well. It is widely considered a rich, long-lasting scent suitable for anyone.
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>>43156260
I hate you stop being a coward
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>>43156696
Just be honest, you earn more respect, I'm a boy but feminine, people ask me questions all the time, Im nice when talking, I always ask if I offend anyone, so I know who to talk to and not.
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>>43156696
>I’m gonna be "lying" until I don’t look like a boy anymore it’s not self destruction

Looks are not every thing, a lot of people spend money on plastic surgery, because of a mental illness.
Bodybuilding
Don't fall into the looks trap , we are human and humain it's what separates humans from the animals.
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>>43156792
My Looks are pretty much everything to me actually so this isn’t a trap
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If someone can smell your perfume from more than 1 foot away, you’re wearing too much
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>>43156848
sometimes when i'm out on a walk a zoomer foid will driver by with her windows down and i can literally smell her perfume from the street. i fucking hate americans, so, so much. they use perfume like deodorant
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>>43156840
Well then you have a lonely walk of life , because most people don't care about looks but care about mairit and trust.
No one likes people who judge on looks and not their abilities.
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>>43156871
Only my own looks I don’t really judge others for their own
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>>43156879
You need to talk to someone a professional about your looks. Don't go to a convention therapist, but go to some type of therapy, support group about this look complex before it becomes a big problem in your life.
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>>43156848
She came up to me
I only sprayed it twice

>>43156905
I don’t think that would help much
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>>43156965
A better way to wear it is to spray it on cottonball and lightly rub it on your skin, or just spray once. It’s very likely that you’re wearing too much nona. Perfume’s purpose is so that if someone happens to be close enough to smell your body’s scent, it’s slightly more pleasant and flattering
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>>43157013
This specific type of perfume is one you have to rub into your skin it’s like an oil kinda
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Bump
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>>43156260
obligatory reply of I hate being asian
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>>43156260
kek


i started wearing womens deodorant on accident and only realized after a few months it says so right on it. i thought it was a gender neutral scent. oops
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>>43156696
if she's clocked you but is also doing typical girl stuff like asking your perfume, she's your greatest ally and is gracing you with female socialization. Cherish it, as you transition it will be a great asset
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>>43162104
How do I socialize back without feeling a weird autist freak?
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>>43156712
the perfume named the arabic word for girl is gender neutral?



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