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Do I look to weird? The lady at the pharmacy who gave me my prescriptions acted weird and hasty, like she wanted me to leave as quickly as possible
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too weird*
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You look weird as in you are not dressed in a common way otherwise you don't look particularly unattractive or like you smell. She may just not like your style. Neither do I but you should especially not be concerned with a wagies opinion. Maybe you never learned that what with your visible autism.
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>>43157161
is that what you were wearing at the pharmacy?
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>>43157193
yes
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>>43157161
Cute and passing cute goth princess
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>>43157161
>Do I look to weird? The lady at the pharmacy who gave me my prescriptions acted weird and hasty, like she wanted me to leave as quickly as possible
some people are like that when there is secret attraction.

You look like a man in a dress but in a really good way. do you play fornite? where do you get the dress idea
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>>43157217
once cis people identify you’re trans everything else gets put under scrutiny of being part of some sexual thrill. the only contexts in which you can wear frilly black lace with tights are stuff like a bar, nightclub, or cocktail party where it’s acceptable to present yourself a bit more openly. going to the pharmacy you should be wearing jeans, maybe a sundress at most but only if you can pull it off. it’s okay though and you shouldn’t feel bad, a lot of the first year of transition is figuring this sort of stuff out
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>>43157245
You think a cis goth girl wouldn't do that?
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>>43157243
>you look like a man in a dress but in a really good way
You know that is not a compliment right? I wanna delete the whole thread, shower and self harm after reading that
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>>43157245
>a lot of the first year of transition is figuring this sort of stuff out
Ouch owie OP
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>>43157161
below neck i have no taste for fashion and cannot judge. above neck you look like my elementary school teacher who tried to break my fingers for having bad handwriting. the glasses are too big and i don't want to be mean but they're evocative of harry potter.

in any case i think you pass
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>>43157264
I don’t see it if that matters op, you must look like a goth girl. More dressed up and over the top than most, which attracts attention, but normal in my area (Portland)
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>>43157257
cis women don’t have to worry about that same sort of scrutiny, they can get away with just about anything. we’re not so fortunate and have to be more mindful about when the context is appropriate for this sort of look
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>>43157161
You mogged that bitch out of her comfort zone. Stop doing that if you are not prepared to deal with the consequences.
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>>43157161
maybe dress normally when going to the pharmacy?
and work on that hairline. pick up some minoxidil while you're at the pharmacy
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>>43157284
>more dressed up and over the top than most
I think you haven’t been looking at goth girls. Real goth is more extreme than what I wear, plus the goth makeup. Maybe you saw emos or tiktok/onlyfans girls who pretend to be 'goth' for money
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>>43157264
>You know that is not a compliment right? I wanna delete the whole thread, shower and self harm after reading that
what is the correct way to answer your question then, sweet Julia

what type of response did you want to hear
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>>43157299
Yeah you’re probably right, I shouldn’t worry that quickly. I can be more confident than this and should act like it. Thank you! I like my style and I should own it!
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>>43157307
presenting like this calls attention to yourself which i don’t think you should be trying to do
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>>43157310
the correct answer is you should kill yourself because you are a leech and a parasite
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>>43157161
no u pass and r very pretty just an agp outfit
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>>43157310
Wait WAIT this is Julia? Like selfies of her crying Julia? German Julia?

You look so different girl, I didnt even recognize her. congratulations on finding your style.
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>>43157324
I refuse to dress in the kind of clothes people wear over here. Basic shirts + baggy jeans and puffer jackets. I would rather be 'too much' than being basic and boring like that
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>>43157342
>why do ppl stare at me weirdly
>I willingly chose a style that makes me out of the norm and makes ppl notice me because im notliketheothergirls
When I used to go out in more punk fashion with black lipstick and fishnets I also caught more stares idk makes sense lol
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>>43157342
pretty women choose to dress that way because they don’t want random men hitting on them while out running errands
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>>43157363
I know that some people will stare, especially Germans, the interaction with the cashier at the pharmacy was just weird. Well, she was wearing a hijab too, so probably muslim. I hope that’s why it was weird to her, not because of my estrogen prescriptions and me being trans yknow
>>43157373
I don’t get hit on so no worries there
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Trannies be wearing agp sissy fetish gear and wondering why they get stared at
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>>43157161
>Do I look to weird?
You're a fag in a dress, so yeah, you look pretty fucking weird [faggot].
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>>43157421
>translating
"I hate fun, glory to Israel and Netanyahu"
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>>43157458
>I hate when men wear dresses because it makes me erect
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>>43157421
Julia is about. 5' 10 too.

>>43157340
It's the same Julia. Can't get enough attention Julia. Crying selfie Julia. BPD incarnate.
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>>43157487
Just look at the face. Focus on the face it all goes quickly soft.
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>>43157161
Yeah girl u look weird asf. It’s not even about passing u just look weird and dress weird. Are you not aware your fashion sense is irregular?
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>>43157518
boohoo I don’t dress like plain Jane
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>>43157458
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>>43157161
I’ve seen you post on here for years and this is the first time I’ve wanted to shove my penis inside of you
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>>43157161
i'd do the same but because i don't want to get your number that'd be bad rn
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>>43157842
what
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>>43157161
Yes, your fit is unflattering to your body, unsuitable to your apparent age and just plain ugly. Hairstyle and makeup are terrible too.
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>>43157161
nigga u need ffs god damn
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It's giving sissy
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>>43157874
it's kino
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>>43157161
dont you live in germany? how do you dress like that without getting raped by turks?
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>>43157161
do you come in at a busy time? im training to be a pharmacy tech and it can get really busy and im kinda like that with every customer when it gets super busy
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>>43157161
where do you buy your clothes from
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>>43158069
>pharmacy tech
nigger you're a cashier
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>>43157325
I don't think you're a leech or parasite... You're just mentally not well. But it's good that you play dress-up sometimes. Men who like that will like that. Aim for shorter skirts for maximum impact and braces like this
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guys where do i buy lingerie hol yfuck

i wannna be a goth bitch
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>>43158094
nta but shut up faggot
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>>43158561
t. butthurt cashier
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>>43158090
various shops around town
>>43158547
nothing about this is lingerie. At absolute most the hand sleeves could count
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>>43157518
you are a jewish man
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>>43157161
sweet fit, I dont think you look weird but if your voice sucks it might be weird, also some people are just not comfortable with alt or goth asthetic.
also fuck everyone do you, theres always going to be people who reject you and people who accept you
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>>43158634
thoughts on my voice?
https://voca.ro/1hxNOGDSRDWK
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>>43157161
I dunno you look like you have a bunch of Hello kitty merch
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>>43157161
your makeup looks cakey in the picture on the right. maybe she clocked you that way
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>>43158671
voice is not very good but also not totally bad, definitely could improve, dont think its too "low" but is is very nasaly. where are you from its a accent I dont think ive ever heard
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>>43157161
i dont think the bangs suit you very well. sorry
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>>43157161
where did you get the dress?
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>>43158713
How would I improve it?
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>>43157161
why do trannies dress like onlyfans stars
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>>43157161
You're hitting the wall.
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>>43158842
agp
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>>43157161
>>43157193
>>43157217
NTA but, straight man here:

Biological women usually avoid dressing blatantly sexy outside of socially acceptable contexts. This is due to two main reasons:
1) They don't want to be perceived as sluts (outside of socially acceptable venues and contexts in which it's socially permissive and even celebrated), as it diminishes their reputation. And women's reputation's is their biggest asset.
2) They fear dressing in a sexy manner in a non-socially acceptable venue or context might invite the sexual advances of men they find unnatractive (i.e. "creeps" aka ugly men).

The pharmacy's employee most likely thought you were a sex worker/prostitute based on your lack of this social inhibition, as hookers generally don't care about being identified as such.
3) There's also the possibility of the female attendant judging feeling jealous of you, which wouldn't be unlikely given you look prettier than a lot of biological women, at least in those photos.
4) Another possible factor could be your behavior and manner of talking with her was weird. Biological women are extremely sensible to whatever they perceive as "abnormal" because they're the weaker sex and thus must be vigilant of possible threats, whetever they're real or imaginary.

Conclusion: dress how you want but be ready to accept the consequences. It's not fair, I know, but if you choose to stand out you'll always find out shitty and mediocre normies looking from the side. It is what it is.
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>>43157161
she might just be mean or underpaid or tired idk u look fine
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>>43158944
Stfu you faggot blow hard
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>>43157518
You are by far the worst name fag on this board
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>>43158944
This isn’t blatantly sexy to me. I like lace and frills and stuff, it’s cute to me. I don’t go to any clubs or other events and don’t plan to. Only dressing up for that sounds lame and dumb to me.
I haven’t had to deal with unwanted advances, so I can dress like this and not have that happen I guess. In fact, that has only ever happened to me when I was still early into transition and blatantly not passing.

I think saying I looked like a sex worker is a big reach. There’s a recording of my voice here >>43158671 if you want to listen, other than that I act normally and friendly.
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>>43157161
Yes
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>>43157310
Shes the biggest narcissist on the board
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>>43159022
>This isn’t blatantly sexy to me
It's sexy (and cute) in the eyes of the majority of people. You don't have to take my word for it, ask literally anyone you know about what do they think about that clothing combination and you'll see.

>I don’t go to any clubs or other events
That would explain it. Look at videos of women at clubs. Pretty much all of them are dressing sexy (like you).

>Only dressing up for that sounds lame and dumb to me.
It makes sense if you take into account that (non-gay) men prefer women who are PERCEIVED as not having a high body count, when it comes to the idea of marriage or choosing the mother of your children. This is the reason why biological women have the pressure to only express their sexuality in socially acceptable ways or contexts.

>I haven’t had to deal with unwanted advances
Good for you then.
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>>43157161
Its kind of depressing how the entire reason you changed your previous getup was just to appease your boyfriend whos probably really lame and will leave you regardless of if you dress "goth" like his waifus or whatever.
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>>43158671
Incredibly nasal
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>>43159227
>men prefer women who are PERCEIVED as not having a high body count, when it comes to the idea of marriage or choosing the mother of your children
P.S. Elaborating further on this:
Men's paternity wasn't a certainty until very recently with the invention of DNA test.
For several thousands of years men controlled women's sexuality and put a premium on their chastity because of the risk of wasting their time and resources raising another man's child and likely not passing down their own genes.

Transwomen don't have to pretend to look "pure" or denote to have a low bodycount because the men who are interested in them don't have to fear getting cucked (in a biological sense), so I doubt you'll have any problem with chasers looking into being in an LTR, despite looking like a sexy biological girl.

Anyway, dress however you want and ignore the social conformity busibodies.
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>>43159358
>ignore the social conformity busibodies.
Why? Why are you above society and its norms
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>>43158804
practice? do the vpice guide bs in the vg thread
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>>43159524
>>43159271
I have a very nasal voice naturally. That’s not due to me trying to sound feminine. Dunno how/if I can change that
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>>43159544
Practice ig. Get on discord with some people
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>>43159022
>I think saying I looked like a sex worker is a big reach
I forgot to mention the time of the day is also a factor.
If you go dressed sexy to the pharmacy at night nobody should find that socially strange since there's the likely possibility of you being on your way to a party or a club, which would make dressing sexy justified in the eyes of normies.
But if you go run errands dressed like that before the evening it might raise their attention as something strange.

I just heard your voice. It's very nasal, to the point it sounds kind of fake or overreacted, but it's also cute (your boyfriend must be a very lucky man). The pharmacist definitely found the nasality odd.

>>43159522
>Why? Why are you above society and its norms
Because I don't depend on others' approval to survive. And even in the contexts where I have to conform, I do it on my own terms.
And it's not about me being a 6'1 man, it's about not giving a shit about people and things that don't really affect your life.

E.g. In OP's case. What does she lose (or gain) from having the approval of a random clerk? Nothing. She'll still serve her regardless of her personal opinion on her voice or if she personally likes how she's dressed.
And it's the same with 99% people you'll interact with (within reasonable limits ofc, nobody is saying you should go outside naked).

Social approval matters when it's coming from people who can actually affect your life (in a negative or positive manner), such as a current or potential employer, a group of people you're friends with (or you're looking to befriend or become acquaintances with, etc), a partner or their close family members, etc.
The opinion of "the lady at the pharmacy" is a non-factor.
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>>43157161
You look like a guy in a fetish outfit or a very ugly hooker.
That dress is closer to lingerie than clothing and isn’t ok to wear outside.
Patterned tights and fishnet gloves are literally only to be worn by prostitutes on the clock.
t. Boomer
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>>43157161
You look like a normie goth girl
Cute
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>>43159761
It’s ok for her to wear that outside because it makes my cock happy.
T. Millennial
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>>43157264
didnt you delete a previous thread already today with litterbox links
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>>43159761
>Patterned tights and fishnet gloves are literally only to be worn by prostitutes on the clock
Goths in shambles!

Fishnets are not unseen in club girls at all.
Also women have been dressing like hookers when they go out at night for about 10 years now.
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>>43159983
This is a prostitute
Sorry I don’t make the rules
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>>43159160
>Shes the biggest narcissist on the board
yes, but its good that she is confident in herself, even if it is a form of honfidence.

I remember Kat picrel was like that too, but she really worked on herself and has now become almost fully passing
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>>43159022
Nah ur dressed like a whore. Be real.
t. ex prostitute
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>>43160026
how long did you pros for
you look still really young
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>>43157161
yea lol u do
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>>43160009
>Kat
>Fully passing
Please don't tell me you mean the Finnish schizo trans woman from /vg/
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>>43160026
>>43159761
you guys are prudes and lame. I can’t imagine being so lame that I would think that tights or goth means prostitute
what the actual fuck
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>>43157161
>semipassoid who could be gigapassoid
>gets all her fit inspo from male-gaze "lesbian" OF content on insta
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>>43162048
I just wear what I like, whatever is cute or pretty to me
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its
giving
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TIL that on tttt of all places, half the population has never seen a goth or alternative person irl and cannot let them exist without being sexualized and judged as hookers
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>>43162099
This is the most retarded, underage, tumblr interpretation I've ever seen. You HAVE to go back.
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>>43157161
Are you gonna post this every day? Go beg someone else for compliments you attention whore.
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>>43162094
pinkman kinda fishy desu
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>>43162099
not sure how old she is but she looks too old to be dressing like that

also the dress is terriblw for her proportions. makes her torso look superlong which is like literally the opposite silhouette 99% of transwomen need
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>>43162199
He legitimately just has an androgynously beautiful face, but the massive forehead and MPB hide that.
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>>43157217
Why do so many trannies dress like a pedophile's idea of a 14 year old? And it's always the most cheap looking amazon shit as well.
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>>43162819
>posts boomer fetishism of 1950s
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>>43161639
Straight to the gaol
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>>43157161
you're dressed like a hooker
>b-but cis women also dress like that
they're dressed like hookers
>b-but these days lots of women dress like that
in a nightclub? yes. in a pharmacy? no
>b-but women should be allowed to dress like hookers wherever they like
great, sure, yeah, but do you know who doesn't think like that? normal people. people who work in pharmacies. people who go to pharmacies. people older than 30. that sort of person tends to be a bit weirded out when a visibly transsexual prostitute approaches them
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>>43162893
chuds mad
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this thread is so damn miserable and mean
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>>43157161
Why do you feel the need to force your fetish onto others and live it out in public? A porn sick man wearing the outfit of the last onlyfans girl he just jerked off to, poor woman
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>>43157161
This thread makes me want to wear shiny polyester sissy dresses in public. Fuck. Your. Optics.
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>>43157245
holy newfag
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>>43162835
A straight knee length skirt with a blouse and a straw hat are just normal summer clothes. Why am i even paying attention to you? It's not like you know anything about fashion.
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>>43163605
Nobody wears that shit
In fact bimbomaxxing is way more normal among 20-30 something cis women where I live
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>>43163615
you are talking to a boomer or conservative tranny and I‘m not sure which one is more retarded
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>>43163720
Even conservative women are 100x more likely to be Mar-a-Lago-pilled than whatever that is
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it’s not good……
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>>43163615
>>43163720
"Arguing with a goy only proves that there are two"
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>>43163890
That is peak. You had to put it on a nigger to make it look bad.
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>>43164149
Hey fair point
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>>43157161
long torso is long. your legs look super short and that makes this look weird.
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>>43164184
Cool it with the racism
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>>43164217
sorry I just thought posting an ugly model and blaming the outfit is really jewish
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>>43157161
Most CIS women would not be dressing like that and also getting estrogen from a pharmacy, so she clocked you instantly.

If you'd just dress normally I feel like it would help a lot. At least for the pharmacy. Remember that most CIS people have been brain wormed into thinking trans = sexual fetish.

so if you run around in some outfit like that im not really sure it helps the perception.
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>>43162019
Idc if u dress like a whore but you asked why she was staring at you. Thats probably why. Own it. Take some pride in whoredom.
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>>43157285
you'll break your brain trying to hold yourself to constant double standards like this, operating this way when you internally know its not for kink is just letting the opinions of transphobic retards dictate how you're allowed to dress and behave
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>>43164321
this is true
seeing how this board equates goth and just normal tights to prostitute goes to show how terminally malebrained everyone here is
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>>43157161
yeah you look like a disgusting troon you retarded faggot
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>>43164278
99.9 of cis women under 40 arnt getting estrogen from a pharmacy. and only about 1/3rd max get it after 40.
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>>43157869
i'd get your number 100% in that situation so i'd rush and act hast not to get if thats you you are very pretty
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>>43164321
its true though, transmisogyny (as a term) exists for a reason
i don't get how people glide through life with blissful ignorance like that, hierarchy and caste permeate society and it affects your qol massively
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>>43164421
if you act like the caste you put yourself into (trans woman) instead of a cis woman, then how do you expect to pass as a cis woman?
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>>43164421
yes, the reason is that trans women are highly insecure and vulnerable and people are shitty, it doesnt mean you have to play into it

you can't actually process everything all the time socially, its about what you choose to focus on, your brain craves to focus on things that reinforce your insecurity but the truth is there will be people who think its cringe and who think its cool too, its a mixed bag and no, how you're perceived on a stroll to the pharmacy will not tremendously affect your quality of life lol

just try to be contextually appropriate and dress how you want and maybe spend some time thinking about how much of your self expression should revolve around other peoples opinions and why, the idea trans women are under so much additional scrutiny we should only be allowed to wear jeans and a tshirt to run errands because anything else is fetishistic IS the transphobia
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>>43164510
shhhh you're preaching to the choir. They won’t get it
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>>43157161
YO
LOOK AT THAT STRINGY ASS HAIR FLAP
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>>43157161
yes.
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>>43164447
i'm not commenting on that i'm saying the cis/trans double standard exists
>>43164510
>just stop being depressed!
tier answer
beautifully sardonic, wonderfully disingenuous, utterly dismissive
>>43164528
i understand their points in principal, i don't think they apply in practice
magical thinking doesn't fix tangible problems, i don't care for the theory
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>>43157161
I must admit, seeing you're appearance evolve over the past few years, you went from rapehon over twinkhon to Passaic. You're still only a 5/10 at most, but girl you made it
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>>43157161
I like your style and would let you rape me. t. repper
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>>43157161
you're basically like MWAHnon but like a thousand times more prettier
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>>43157161
oh wow did i trigger a prostitute episode because i asked you whether you offered escort services in the last thread? i knew your outrage was feigned and that the though would make you secretly horny, but damn, you immediately turned your fantasy into reality!
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>>43157161
Your outfit is screaming available to fuck !
Basic Street hookers
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>>43164997
>>43165134
thats what im saying, shes obviously pretty and sexy but running around like that is... something. And then getting Estrogen as a young woman... put 2 and 2 together and your clocked just like that by the pharmacist.
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>>43164721
if what you do causes you to be depressed maybe keep it to yourself instead of preaching depression inducing habits and mindsets to other people
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pass as man wearing sissy lacy panties



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