How much of t4t is just a way to cope because you can't find someone cis to love you? My desperate need for external validation is getting pretty bad so I'm considering opening myself up to t4t but I don't think I could handle dealing with someone else's dysphoria, as unless I find a passoid willing to date me I'd have to constantly lie to them about how pretty they are or how they pass (they don't) or how passing shouldn't be the goal (it is)
T4T is just for transcels who still can't pull cis women
I prefer tw4tw generally but for some reason it cannot be believed?Like id rather date a man than a cis foid
>>43163468I wouldn't date someone I wasn't in love with regardless of if they're cis or trans, and I also would date anyone if I loved them regardless of whether they're cis or trans.With that said, I feel like a fellow trans woman would be a really good partner for me if I liked her a lot and we clicked in terms of our personalities. I would love to find a cute trans woman to spend the rest of my life with.
>>43163478I'm bi so I could probably have hookups with guys but I want an actual relationship thats the hard part for me
>>43163468A relationship in any form is work both ways. You support them they support you within reason. Gender isn't really a factor in being a good partner despite what people here think. I've seen abusive gay, lesbian, straight, poly ships, t4t and straight t4t relationships. I think a lot of people these days just CANT be mature enough for a relationships regardless of their gender, good couples of anytime are rare these days. I think it's a combination of people wanting instant validation and not wanting to put any effort into their partner, people will block one another over nothing now (and people who get blocked won't ever try and fix anything either). The battle of the sexes type shit is a factor too "all men are pigs waaah. All women are sluts waaah. All trans women are crazy. All chasers are the devil." People hear this stuff all over the internet and get demoralized, they refuse to date and end up stunting their maturity due to lack of relationship experience. On top of that battle of the sexes stuff there's a ton of hate on her for people of various sexualities too that deepens this issue. Also most people on here are young so your basicly asking rookies for dating advice. Not a great plan.
>>43163478Wrong most t4t is just androphiles that have some hang up about dating cis men so engage in the lowest risk form of amab dating.
>>43163468I have a cis gay boyfriend
>>43163468I don't know if I could actually deal with t4t. I'd rather be the man in the relationship with a cis woman than the more masculine tranny dating one who ruthlessly mogs me (if she even wanted to date me, a hon). At least with c4t, it's clear what the expectations are for each person, but with t4t, i feel like it'd be extra complicated or messy or bring up new complex brainworms too.
For me? Zero. Cis people are boring. Cis people are vanilla on top of vanilla. Do you even know any interesting cis people? It seems like interesting people are at least gender curious.
>>43163468I cant find even t4tIm complete disaster
