> context 22yo tgirl dating 21yo cis female chaserI found feeder porn on mygfs phone. now normally this wouldnt be an issue as im not the judgy type and if she wants to like that stuff who cares, but recently shes been smacking and grabbing my tummy during sex and offering to cook on most nights. Should i be concerned? i dont really wanna ruin what we have but i feel like i want to confront her and ask her whats up with all this T_T
>>43169113How do you people get into a relationship without being able to simply ASK questions?
let her get you fat
>>43169122calm down… i’m not good at this!
>>43169128ive already gained a bit of weight but now im questioning if that was accidental relationship weight or if she planned it out..
>>43169319you're over thinking it nona
>>43169113Bro if you’re trying to pretend to be a woman you’ve gotta stop calling them females
>>43169353the policing of calling people male and female is an entirely recent and artificially created phenomenon.the two terms are useful and not in any way dehumanizing, I frequently refer to people of both genders as male and female without much thought. the two are useful because they are adjectives. you wouldn’t say woman chaser or girl chaser. those would mean entirely different things. you say female chaser.
>>43169113you probably shouldn’t bring up that you went through her phone, but maybe bring up that she seems to be giving your tummy a lot more attention recently. but why do you feel like you should confront her about it in the first place? the weight gain was probably not on purpose (pretty hard to get someone to gain weight without them knowing) and it doesn’t seem to be effecting the relationship in any way? maybe just keep an eye on the scale to make sure things don’t get out of hand and talk to her about you gaining weight if it happens
>>43169122because op is fantasizing about having a feeder cis gf. it's all a larp
>>43169397probably a good idea anon, thank you
>>43169113i love my feeder bf
>>43169381It it’s about just using those words it’s about the “men and females” speech pattern, which OP uses in the post to the point of subconsciously misgendering themself by “men and females”‘ing themself.
>>43169412op 100% has a fat fetish and is either planting the ''feeder porn'' into her relationship for this story or the entire relationship itself
>>43169353You don't use female as a noun. Female as an adjective is fine. Learn grammar
>>43169381There is no policing regarding the usage of male though?
>>43169113Bring up that you feel like you've gained weight and that you wanna start exercising to see her reaction
>>43169113talk to her about it and ask why shes into it. Assert yourself and be firm about what your goals are. See if you can compromise so that both of you can be happy.
>>43169113you should balance the scales and make her anorexic kill her if sshe doesnt
Not sure what to do but maybe ask her why she's checking on your tummy recently?Also peak Library of Ruina art
>>43169606i thought you had a feeder gf?
>>43169113L yuri taste lowky better PJM yuris out there
>>43170163went to boy :p he prefers it
