How do I come out to my parents as a troon? I am 29 and fully independent so there isn't really any concern about retribution or punishment, but I can't help but love them and I don't want to be a disappointment.There is no universe in which they would accept me. My mom just told me she thinks it's a death cult and social contagion encouraging kids to mutilate and kill themselves, and that she shouldn't have to "respect them or their pronouns" based on "what her eyes tell her". My dad doesn't talk about trans people, but he's a conservative southern baptist. To this day he believes that I am a practicing Christian because I don't have the heart to break his fragile worldview. I've thought about just cutting them off but they are both doing pretty poorly and I'm one of their few social outlets.
>>43169243you'll kinda have to grit your teeth on this one nona :(
>>43169243Iv come out to my sister who was a white nationalist. She said a bunch of hurtful things which i expected. I did win her over though by emphasizing how much being a tranny sucks and how much i wish i wasnt one and how testosterone feels bad and not being able to get pregnant makes me want to kill myself and that i like men and dont hate men or really even like women
Do you pass? You should wait until you do unfortunately
>>43169243i would wait as long as possible to come out to them, if ever
>>43169296I don't think I ever will, is the thing. I don't say that to be self-deprecating, I do not think I'm particularly ugly or anything, just unmistakably masculine. It's part of the reason I took so long to stop repping. That said, it's possible I won't be seeing either of them this year, so there is time to at least think about my strategy. I only really visit for Christmas (I live 5 hours away now) and it's looking unlikely that I'll make the trip this year.
Wait until the Trump administration fully collapses
I'm thinking about this too. 31, only my sister and mom left. No social circle to come out to. I once came out to my mom at 16ish and then stopped going to appointments because I thought i could rep. I'd be coming out again. My sister never knew. I'm only considering this because I feel like I'm on the end of my rope and this is my last chance. People tell me I look 21-24ish. Idk how to go about it. Is it male pride preventing me from just doing it?
>>43169553I hope you figure something out. How did your mom respond the first time? If it wasn't negative, maybe it is safe to do so again.
>>43169243why dont you get a bf and move in together so even if your dad gets mad you dont have to live with him?also if you get a bf he might be more receptive and see you as a girl because hes worried about you finding a partner or being a weird gay freak
>>43169771I think that would make him hate me more. He'd just see me as a gay man larping as a woman, which is twice as blasphemous or some shit
>>43169933what if your bf is a straight masc guy and he connects well with your dad?
>>43169951He'd have to be pretty chuddy...
Don't wait, listen to misanthropic music, think the thoughts "I hate my mom I hate my dad" and such over and over, throughout the day visualise murdering them in your head (don't actually do this), eventually their hold over you is broken and you will start to despise themYou're welcome
>>43169771>>43169951>preordering honsHoly shit, brutal desperation in the chaser community these days. Maybe next time you won’t vote for right wingers now that you know that it collapses the troon market. Troon availability was phenomenal under Biden.
>>43170204Everyone is going on about the gas prices... But no one dare mention the price of tranners, not to even get into the boymoder inflation!
>>43170248The Strait of Hormoones is CLOSED
