Can someone tell me why there's generally a masculine presenting female in a lesbian relationship?Is this a trauma response that one woman is interested in men but is repulsed by the penis?
>>43169884Most lesbians do not engage in butch/femme dynamics.
You probably just don't notice fem4fem couples and similar.
>>43169884Can someone tell me why there's generally a feminine presenting male in a gay relationship?Is this a trauma response that one man is interested in women but is repulsed by the vagina?
>>43169884it's actually not that common and a lot of lesbians are fem4fem or butch4butch a better question is why the hell would you date your own clone
>>43173262this doesnt really happen. femboys and gigatwinks either date eachother, troon out or they date older perverted bipedos. normal gay men dont want them, most gay men date a similar bodytype to eachother
>>43169884ive seen way more butch4butch than butch and femme tbf, but it is true that every cis lesbian is obsessed with butches and trans men, almost like they dont really respect trans identity...
>>43169884>trauma responseYour trolling doesn't work because you don't understand the subject. The trauma response girls are all straight and chasing abusive boyfriends, they never go gay. Most masc lesbians are masc4masc. Conversely, most femmes are femme4femme. Butch x femme looks hot, but it's rare irl.
>>43174142>>43174366>>43174482I think it's more of just something people idealize and try to enforce. It's more weighted on the femme side though, for both women and men.Like there's a perceived vacuum. Being fem at all means that they see a lack of independence or capability, as in there's an inevitable dominant masc figure to fill that void.
>>43174142Mild AGP/AAP, you desire similar qualities in your partners and in yourself