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I'm meeting a cute feminine guy and things are going well. The problem is I'm in the closet and not planning coming out in the future. Because the relationship can work for a while, but if we finally break up (most typical scenario), I'm single again and decide to come back to girls... What kind of girl would accept dating me after knowing I'm bisexual? I'm not even into poly shit, nor strap-on stuff (I only top) nor threesomes so it's not even a LTR with a queer liberal woman would work. I just want a normal relationship with a girl or a feminine guy. So I'm kinda fucked with this.
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>>43173169
How old are you? IME as a bi guy, a lot of liberal girls are not bothered by you being bi.
That being said, you shouldn't lead this guy on. Tell him it's just a casual fwb thing.
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>>43173169
>What kind of girl would accept dating me after knowing I'm bisexual?
Just don't tell em
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>>43173174
I like dating him but it has to be discreet.
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>>43173174
Where do you live anon?

>>43173196
People just talk to each other and sometimes make uncomfortable questions.
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>>43173197
I mean as long as he knows what's up then whatever I guess?

>>43173211
I live around Boston. I was nervous about telling girls I was bi when I was younger.
There's enough people around here that there's no way it would've come back, but I just started being honest about it because it's more fun and relaxing. Nobody I've dated since then seems to be bothered.
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>>43173211
Normie women don't randomly ask their men if they fucked other men. If you don't give her a reason, she won't even comprehend the concept.
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>>43173223
What if some acquaintance tells her I fucked men?
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>>43173234
How would this happen if you're in the closet?
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>>43173169
Just lie bro she doesn't have to know lol.
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>>43173256
What if I told some people in the past I was bi but finally went back to the closet?
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Bro why cant you just come out, ots way less stressful than all this cloak and dagger shit you are imagining
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>>43173301
Very few women would accept fucking/dating a bi man.
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>>43173338
That's not true if you are a top, women won't date bi bottoms. Big difference. Also you live in a city, there are plenty of women who won't give a shit
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>>43173394
>That's not true if you are a top, women won't date bi bottoms
Your source??
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>>43173416
Im a woman
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>>43173484
A trans woman?
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>>43173578
Obviously
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There is no advantage to coming out as a bi top. Smashing one guy isn't suddenly going to mean the whole world know you're bisexual.
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Bi tops are straight.
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>>43173394
Women prefer bi bottoms over bi tops. Imagine putting a penis into your pussy who was inside a man's asshole before. Nasty NASTY shit.
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>>43173169
Didn't we tell you to fuck off like 12 hours ago?
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>>43175161
This has not been my experience.
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>>43173169
Straight man here.

Don't tell them you're bisexual. I've a friend who came out as bi and since then his success with biological women lowered drastically, even though he's a top as far as I know.
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>>43176684
Do women dislike bi men that much? I guess dating a straight man is easier and safer.
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>>43173169
>I'm not even into poly shit, nor strap-on stuff (I only top) nor threesomes so it's not even a LTR with a queer liberal woman would work.
You are a bisexual liberal woman's dream, she can get railed and go to pride and say your relationship is queer b/c it has two queer people in it.
>>43177031
Straight women do. There are some bi women who do too but its a lot more rare.
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