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i want to be a princess but i don’t know how:<<
I kinda want the princess aesthetics on myself, not so much the masochistic emasculation part
>>43177612It's a beautiful aesthetic. How would you like to express it in your everyday life?
>>43178177I'm curious about starting crossdressing in private, once I get a job and start making some good moneyI also want to learn how to draw and just draw these girls myself
>>43177508Something about “malebrained aspects on a girlfriend” really gets me going
only my intense sissification instincts can keep me from self destruction like make me brush my teeth and sleep before 5am to remain more "cute". i don't have self care in a non-sexual way.
>>43179626Good girl
What's a good social media for mental sissification and is using 4chan too much counterproductive? I dont even count instagram as social media cause people dont have conversations there do they? much less tiktok or twitter. the only things ive found are lolcow and crystal cafe but the energy is off. maybe i just dont like women who knows. i mean there is a nice undercurrent too though i guess i feel like a stranger pretending to be someone im not in topics i dont care about.
just watched sakura from leserafim skincare routine was fun~
>>43181020tumblr pinterest specific youtube algorithm
>>43183237can you even talk to people in dem joints i dont even go outside so i needa talk to people
its kinda wild i psyopped myself into the habit of watching kpop idols doing random shit
>>43177508Does anyone feel like it's one step forward two steps backward? Every bit of energy which goes towards anything mef makes normal life more difficult, complex, stressful desu...This was once relaxing, now it feels out of my place.Furthermore, how do you keep it "going" outside of intense focus? For example, mental state while listening to hypnosis vs. daily tasks...
>>43183650Just enjoy it as a fetish bruh that's what it is
>>43183650not OP>Every bit of energy which goes towards anything mef makes normal life more difficult, complex, stressfulWdym?I've been at it for 2 years now and I have yet to encounter a problem. I just live my life as normal but my body and my mind are slowly getting more feminine. I'm already out as a fag and nobody cared about that anyway.What specifically makes life more difficult or stressful for you?
I want to become gayer and more bottombrained. I've been leaning a lot on MEF since starting hrt two years ago and also finally found a masc bf and we moved together last summer. He's not trying hard enough to feminize me though. But life is still comfy.Other things that I've been doing:>voice training (I finally have a bit of fagcent)>walking on an imaginary line (in the summer when I'm dressed more lightly it improves my fem appearance)>reduced jerking off (anal and vibrators)>made a flamer friend and two cisf friends and try hard to emulate their mannerisms>learned make up>got laser on my faceIt's working but it's soooo slow.I'm not sure I want to become a woman (maybe hsts?) but I want to emasculate faster. I work in a place that has weird people so I'm not limited from that perspective.Any further ideas?
>>43183650Don't force mental changes. They come naturally on their own while your lifestyle change
>>43184170nta but it's not quite true.Yes, the mind changes with the lifestyle, but the lifestyle doesn't quite change if some mental changes don't occur too. It's a feedback loop and it works better if I intervene on both of its ends.
>>43183650Mef is maladaptive
>>43177612Is this entire general just people who think they are too good for mtfgenNo one is actually mef
>>43185490>everyone is brainwormed exactly like me and anyone claiming otherwise is lying
>>43185602Literally look at what I am replying toHow can that be considered mef
>>43186430I'm not really MEF other than considering myself a failed maleI just like hanging out here, having a MEF girlfriend would be nice
>>43186448>considering myself a failed male>having a MEF girlfriend would be niceHow does that even work?
A pretty significant part of MEF is having sex with cis men because it's part of the aspect of humiliation and emasculation. If you remove that and are just normal transbians then this entire idea is just meaningless word soup.
>>43187106I like people who are even bigger failures than me, it motivates me to do better to protect them
>>43187137Yeah, pretty much.MEF in theory may not be androphilic, but it is in practice.Not only women don't want failed males but it's part of the fetish to be put in your place by a real man.>>43187208So you want to larp as a real man. Ew.
Is Hunter Schafer MEF?
>>43187137theres a lot more emasculating thing you can do tho
Is she /ourguy/, mefgen?
>>43187463>picnow that i think about it she might be /ourgirl/
>>43184081>He's not trying hard enough to feminize meCommunicate your needs more clearly. Ik this sounds reddit-y but it works. You live together so you can remind him that there's only one real man in the house, him, and you can't serve him right if he doesn't help.The ideal setup is one where you constantly reinforce his masculinity which gives him the confidence needed (compliment him, men love that since they're starved of compliments). And in return he feminizes you.Do you cook for him? If not, you should try. Cook high-protein T-enhancing foods for him.>(maybe hsts?) but I want to emasculate faster>Other things that I've been doingAll good on that list. Since you live together, you shouldn't be cumming alone basically ever. The purpose of the vibrator is to get yourself in the mood for him. Maybe add AAs to your regimen (cypro if you can tolerate it).Try to find a cage or a fufu clip that is comfy enough to wear almost full time. Fufu clips gives you a flat crotch which is both emasculating and feminizing.Collect more cisf friends, preferably the gigasub kind, and observe them while with their bf/husband and emulate that behavior.Start referring to yourself in the feminine in your internal monologue.For exercise, get into rhythmic dancing or some other overwhelmingly feminine sport.And then, ofc, there's the nuclear options: ba and srs.Good luck! Ygmi.
it’s so hard to decide what i want in life i always have fantasies of someone forcing me into doing this
i'm unironically mef
>>43190705mee tooo! I'm really embarrassed about it :)
>>43190827It being embarrassing makes it hotter
What are some emasculating dancing styles an amab can do without being too weird. I found "heels" in my area but I'm p sure it'd be too far.
>>43184040It's enjoyable to develop ideas and make commitments.>>43184068Uhm, I think that each step towards feminisation means less transformation is possible. Shaven arms become mundane...maybe that is the point? If it is true that mef is purely trauma response, then reducing stress makes sense. This would also mean that fantasy is only a temporary thing, but it points to the next action. >>43184170>>43184299I have my own "loop". So I think you are both correct...I've noticed that after listening to hypnosis often, parts of it will play in my head automatically, or be triggered by some noise or word. I think this serves to guide attention. Attention is so important, and it is difficult to maintain in daily life.>>43185186How did you decide that?
>>43187466like how is it emasculating exactly, this stuff is cute af but it is more girlymaxxing than emasculation those heels seem just really cute, normal heels would emasculate you for 90% of those
