My partner of 3 years came out to me as a trans woman the other day, and I’ve been astounded by how much of the reaction from people I tell is the assumption I’m going to leave her now. I love her a whole lot and I’m bisexual anyways (with a preference for women actually lmao, go figure) so it astounds me the way it’s always assumed when your partner comes out boom, that’s it over. To be honest I’ve known for a while (has always been quite feminine and spoke about wanting to dress as such in the past) and I’ve always found her femininity very attracted pre-transition. She was beautiful before, and she’s even more beautiful now. I don’t even know what my goal of posting about this is, just that I love my girlfriend and I’m so happy she felt she could share herself and be authentic with me. She’s so talented and kind and stunning and I’m lucky as all hell to have her and be her girlfriend too. I don’t understand why the hell I would’ve left her over this or why that’s always the assumption
>>43177684most trannies are more evil vile selfish and hollow than even real women so good on you for having a soul
>>43177684Your cuckold fetish is showing
>>43177684It's bullshit but I choose to believe it
>>43177684when i came out i was already married. when i told people i could see them struggling to dance around asking me "oh so when is the divorce?". i probably should not have been surprised by that question but i was not expecting to get it so often. i think thats just how people think about trannies. if you are a tranny you are straight so of course you would break up with your partner and find a new one.
ive been with me trans gf for 8 months nowshe doesnt know im a repressor but sometimes asks questions taking this to the grave desu
for the happiness of both of you, you should tell her.
>>43177684yeah i'm a lesbian and i've been dating a trans woman for a couple years now and for some reason like, it's assumed that when you're a man dating a trans woman it's like a fetish thing, and when you're a woman dating a trans woman it's assumed that you're coping and holding onto her masculinity to keep the relationship going. though i already met my gf while she had already socially transitioned, and though i'm a life long lesbian, people still assume that i'm not happy with her and i only like her for some sort of innate masculinity that she supposedly has. people are just haters i hope you love and cherish your gf for the rest of your lives op <3
>>43178017Thank u anon, I really hope to also be able to love and cherish her forever :) it’s the oddest thing to me, when I tell people they genuinely give me condolences sometimes as if she died or something. Our relationship isn’t different and she isn’t a completely different person, which is the part I think outsiders grapple to understand the most. We’re moving in together soon, so I hope I can continue to make her happy and for her to continue to make me happy all the same :)
>>43177684psyop post cis women hate trans women
>>43181015You're just an incel
>>43181085>>43181015These things can both be true at once. One doesn’t necessarily contradict the other.
I want to believe
