>>43182311
This is why you ghost your exes, anons, or they'll act like OP.

>>43182325
I guess.

I'm not trying to be pushy at all, I'm trying to take the humiliation and show that Im genuinely sorry and genuinely want to change for them.

>>43182350
Respect their boundaries and stay away. They do not consent to seeing you.

>>43182357
You don't need consent to just reach out to people. I have respected their boundaries entirely. I'm reaching out now because I feel entirely dedicated to them and genuinely think they have some similar feelings also, but they lost a lot of faith in me (deservedly).

A lot of our relationship was built on the idea of never leaving each other, and I want to show that Im willing to do what I said I would, and keep offering everything I have to them.

>>43182379
Go see a therapist. You are not mentally well. You are not thinking straight. You want to violate their clear explicit boundaries because you cannot, or do not want, to think clearly.

>>43182379
>You don't need consent to just reach out to people
have you gotten a restraining order against you lol
if not you will

>>43182311
Dude we told you in the last thread that this bitch is abusive and gets off on this. Please for the love of god stop giving her attention. She wants you to kill yourself. Get a fucking grip dude, don't be a victim.

>>43182311
>Am I crazy for thinking they might also still have feelings for me? Am I crazy for wanting to drive across the country and beg for another chance?
Yes.
They have made it abundantly clear they want nothing to do with you. They have asked you repeatedly to stop reaching out. Move on. Do not reach out to them again.

>>43182401
Am I really that crazy for thinking the cutesy talk is proof that they dont totally resent me?

>>43182475
What is even abusive here. I unfortunately understand their harshness towards me. I just want to do whatever I can to prove that Im dedicated to being a better person for them

>>43182350
>I'm not trying to be pushy at all
>absolutely tries his best to be pushy
anon, you'll end up in jail eventually.
if I were your ex, I'd seek a restraining order atp.

yeah, im not surprised /LGBT/ fails to recognize the narcissist in the ex. OP is completely insane and needs therapy but honestly he's clearly a trauma whipped victim too. if you look at the last thread, she deliberately responds to him every time with chat gpt and emotionally manipulates instead of ghosting him. she has zero intention of reconnecting, this is just fun for her. OP is either too stupid or too insane to realize that and will end up hurting himself. happens every day.

My god nigga I told you to log off last time. You really finna let some bitch ruin you like this? Your retarded delusions putting this bitch on a pedestal and crucifying yourself as she continues to manipulate your dumb ass... it's retarded nigga. Log the fuck off and get therapy. This is the worst fucking woman in the world. You're a traumatized moron who can't see that. Log off nigga, you're done

>>43182514
>>43182547
Why do you guys only see this as strictly either emotional manipulation, or harassment?

Why isn't there room for people to have complicated feelings and make weird, confusing signals because they themselves are unsure what they want?

>>43182558
While it's true that relationships are complicated, you both are doing something highly abnormal. Everything she does in your examples is textbook narcissism. You seem to be suffering a personality disorder. Ultimately, you should log off and get therapy because you're obviously not in a good mental state to pick up the relationship even if she wasn't clearly fucking with you.

I'd ask you, wouldn't it be better to be the best person you can be instead of constantly presenting this person with your insane and disheveled self? You yourself know you're not doing well. Please take care of yourself instead of spiraling over something that's not getting better.

am i the only one who noticed that the ex is stalking op too at this point

>>43182325
not op but yeah this. she didnt ghost me fully and I ended up psychotic like op. not quite good look.

>>43182569
>she wasn't clearly fucking with you
I just didn't commit enough and lost focus of the relationship. I promised a lot and didn't follow through on it.

>constantly presenting this person with your insane and disheveled self
I spent months away and felt like I shouldnt just accept it that easily. I should prove how much I care about them by actually fighting for them.

I guess I do see how my messages read like moping, but I'm literally just trying to like wear my heart of my sleeve and show them how I actually feel about them, and show that I'm serious and our relationship means a lot to me.

Nothing I wrote was from a place of despair, it was from passion

Honestly, I had a BPD fueled breakdown that was a lot like OP's but far worse. I didn't constantly harass my former friend but I did reach out several times and was never in a good state of mind. In hindsight I can recognize we mutually abused each other and today I would never reach out as I don't feel that I've mentally improved much and worry I would hurt her.

If she had kept reaching out to me like the OP's ex instead of leaving me alone I would have gone insane. If a relationship isn't working, please ghost them. Don't constantly prod at it or give it attention guys. It's better for everyone to ignore it.

>>43182606
Leave her be for two years as you get your shit together and try to reach out one last time and if she says no then move on. Have some self respect dude.

>>43182311
I believe in your love quest, OP!

ugh

>>43182475
atp i think it's op's fetish too and we're accessory to the fact

>>43184697
I just like them a lot and want to make it work

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>>43182502
>Am I really that crazy for thinking the cutesy talk is proof that they dont totally resent me?
Yes. Leave this person alone.

>>43182311
>unironically letting someone live in your mind after recieving something like this
>calling it "mixed signals" when you initiated it and the other person is merely reacting to it

OP really is a disgusting weirdo racist kek

>>43186863
The mixed signals are "I want this person back" and "they hate me". I've got a shot!