Women are beautiful and cuddling sounds amazing but I am very sexually motivated by gay stuff. All my fantasies are gay as hell. Will these thoughts dissipate in a relationship with a woman?
>>43195719Fagslop is peak and no it doesn't go awayt. MtFujo
>>43195719Huh? You can cuddle with dudes too you know. Why not do that if you’re already sexually attracted to guys?Maybe you’re bi and dating a woman could work out for you. But no, you can’t will the gay away and force yourself to like women instead of men- especially if all your sexual fantasies are about dudes.
>>43195752>You can cuddle with dudes too you know. Why not do that if you’re already sexually attracted to guys?I don't feel romantically attracted to men
>>43195765Okay, do you feel sexually attracted to women? You might be shit out of luck if not
>>43195777Never as intensely as gay stuff. I thought I was nearly asexual until accepting my gay interests. But I want to learn to be straighter so I can have a relationship with a woman
>>43195808Start with a tranny, obviouslyStill male and male brain / other things you'd find familiar
>>43195828Lmfao my sexuality is so fuckedI don't like trannies at all. I'm not attracted to feminine people. I enjoy being the feminine person.
>>43195719
>>43195719Find a troon with cock
>>43195808I guess you can try that, but I think you’d have an easier time finding a guy you had feelings for than trying to get make yourself sexually attracted to women. I honestly don’t understand how you can be physically attracted to a gender but not also romantically. I see people say that on here occasionally, and it frankly just seems like some kind of personal hangup.
>>43195847I had someone I liked who would send me loss to annoy me and now I'm sad they don't talk to me anymore>>43195857Trannies are disgusting>>43195865I've rarely felt romantically attracted to people but when I have, it's intense and with women. Never had that for a man
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>>43195934Hmm… you seem pretty weird op, and definitely like some species of queer. I think you should try to be open minded about potential partners for yourself, since I imagine anyone you’d be compatible with is also going to be an idiosyncratic weirdo. Even if you can will yourself into finding women sexually appealing (and that is an “if”) that’s not exactly going to open up a huge dating pool for you. I can’t imagine there are many straight women clamoring to meet an effeminate guy who fantasizes about cock and has to force himself to want pussy. Anyone who’d be a good match for you is probably also a sexual basket case
>>43195840transition
>>43196170> imagine anyone you’d be compatible with is also going to be an idiosyncratic weirdo> can’t imagine there are many straight women clamoring to meet an effeminate guy who fantasizes about cock and has to force himself to want pussyVery on point and something I'm trying to come to terms with, which is probably why I'm trying to change my interests as much as possible. The "women" I've found myself attracted to were really FTMs/theyfabs and everytime I've felt like I needed to become interested in Piv and as male-like as possible to be attractive to them long-term>>43196186>transition I did for 2 years and then detransed like 2 months ago because I thought it would make me more attractive to afabs
>>43196214take your meds
>>43196236I hate the word "meds" so much
>>43196214>detransretransition
>>43196253You hate yourself more (mood tho tbhon)
>>43196301Why
>>43196214> The "women" I've found myself attracted to were really FTMs/theyfabs and everytime I've felt like I needed to become interested in Piv and as male-like as possible to be attractive to them long-termOp this sounds like you’ve created a Rube Goldberg machine to trick yourself into being with a “woman”. I think you should really grapple with the possibility that you’ve just been deep in the closet your whole life, and your inner faggot is slowly forcing their way out. I’m skeptical trying to trick yourself into like PIV sex with ftms and acting more manly than you feel is really a sustainable solution either.Again though, whatever you do I think your potential partners are also going to be weirdos, and you’d be well served by being open minded about the people you meet.
>>43196311because you should
>>43196310>You hate yourself morehonestly yeah
>>43195765The idea of having romantic attraction to one sex and physical attraction to the other is made-up virgin bullshit. Romantic attraction happens on an individual level.
>>43196318I think I was forced in a rube goldberg of being a faggot and I'm trying to get out of it>>43196319>because you shouldThats not much of a reason >>43196353>made-up virgin bullshit. Romantic attraction happens on an individual level.What do you mean? I am rarely attracted to people romantically, but everytime I have, it's been an afab
>>43196382it's the best reason :3
>>43196382> I think I was forced in a rube goldberg of being a faggot and I'm trying to get out of itI’m sympathetic to people not being happy with who they are, but you’re really setting yourself up for a Sisyphean task here.
>>43196434>you’re really setting yourself up for a Sisyphean task here.It's between that and dying alone
>>43196456I’m sorry you feel that way, and I hope you find a way to live happily. Your current plan just seems destined to fail from the outset. I don’t really know what your deal is, but it seems like self acceptance is a better way forward than whatever you’re proposing in this thread
>>43196669I've already tried accepting whatever feelings I have and that made me realize that I do like men sexually. So I tried to entertain those feelings, and now I'm realizing that I don't like men romantically.
inject tren
>>43196710>inject trenThat sounds genuinely awful and would immediately tank my self esteem
>>43196700Sorry, I’m not trying to say you’re not trying or capable of self examination. I dunno, I guess I’d just reiterate the value in staying open minded about who might be a good partner for you. gl, hope things work out
>>43196730how are you going to have a relationship with a woman if you can't dick her down? and don't even want to? what is the point of this thread. you have low t and internalized homophobia
>>43196744Sorry I'm not mad at you, I'm just frustrated about it all and was dwelling in my emotions. Thanks for talking
you're going to have to have a queer platonic open relationship where you hook up with bulls together. that's your only hope, and it only exists in cuck fantasies.
>>43196749>how are you going to have a relationship with a woman if you can't dick her downI think I could probably learn. And I think a lot of gender and sexuality is derived from your environment, so I think I could probably learn if I was actually in a relationship with a woman. But I have heard enough horror stories of people changing their feelings later in life>>43196764Open relationships are always sad and gross to hear about
>>43196753Np, I didn’t think you were mad at me, I just feel like we’re talking in circles. I really do hope things work out for you <3
>>43196320Love yourself
>>43197525>Love yourselfIf only it was that simple snoy
>>43196785>I think I could probably learn. if you think that then maybe you have the ember in you. the gynephilic-dominant streak. you need to find that and feed it if you want this to work. you won't do that here on 4chan like you said you need to actually be with a woman. don't call it "learning" call it "growing" or discovering, nurturing. otherwise it's just conversion therapy which doesn't work. but if you genuinely have capacity to be sexually lustful and dominant towards women then you should nurture that if that's what you want to do. alternatively you could just date an asexual girl and deal with your gayness through porn.
>>43195840>detroon repper is a detroon reppermany such cases
