/lgbt/ - I’ve been abused and abandoned It’s a really bad f - Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, & Transgender

Anonymous

04/09/26(Thu)18:15:02 No.43210588

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Anonymous 04/09/26(Thu)18:15:02 No.43210588 Archived

I’ve been abused and abandoned
It’s a really bad feeling when you miss the guy who used to hit and belittle you

Misandry Troon
04/09/26(Thu)18:46:42 No.43210909

Misandry Troon 04/09/26(Thu)18:46:42 No.43210909

You don't need validation from men like that. Find community and build strong platonic bonds with other women. The rest will come but you need to have people around you who can love you until you learn to live yourself. I am so sorry you went through that Nona <3

Anonymous
04/09/26(Thu)18:50:17 No.43210947

Anonymous 04/09/26(Thu)18:50:17 No.43210947

>>43210588
cast an evil hex on him, hit him with that estromantic transgendification curse

Anonymous
04/09/26(Thu)18:58:12 No.43211029

Anonymous 04/09/26(Thu)18:58:12 No.43211029

>>43210909
>The rest will come but you need to have people around you who can love you until you learn to live yourself.
i went the other way due to cynicism from never meeting anyone i found actually remotely interesting ever irl and honestly it worked tbhon, solitude is beautiful if you can attain it (not just being alone)

Anonymous
04/09/26(Thu)19:13:20 No.43211209

Anonymous 04/09/26(Thu)19:13:20 No.43211209

>>43210909
I struggle with making friends I moved towns after he left I didn’t even have anyone to say goodbye too y’all are really the only friends I have
>>43210947
He wasn’t all bad the first couple years he made me feel safe and loved

Anonymous
04/09/26(Thu)19:17:10 No.43211261

Anonymous 04/09/26(Thu)19:17:10 No.43211261

>>43211209
>he wasn't all bad
no, he was, i guarantee it
you're just a bit stockholmed/trauma bonded is all
with time will come healing and with healing will come memories and realisations of what he was really like (which will be painful but are better than a sweet lie)

Anonymous
04/09/26(Thu)19:23:33 No.43211348

Anonymous 04/09/26(Thu)19:23:33 No.43211348

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>>43211261
I don’t know how long it takes to feel normal after years of that but I’d like to start again with someone gentle

Anonymous
04/09/26(Thu)19:33:21 No.43211455

Anonymous 04/09/26(Thu)19:33:21 No.43211455

>>43210588
hahaha

Anonymous
04/09/26(Thu)19:56:02 No.43211639

Anonymous 04/09/26(Thu)19:56:02 No.43211639

>>43211029
what helps you out the most in solitude

Misandry Troon
04/09/26(Thu)19:58:53 No.43211667

Misandry Troon 04/09/26(Thu)19:58:53 No.43211667

>>43211209
I'm so sorry. I know it's hard to make friends as an adult and I didn't mean to make it sound like you can just magically have it happen. Have you tried bumble bff? At least where I live there's actually a lot of really cool people on there

Anonymous
04/09/26(Thu)20:36:35 No.43211953

Anonymous 04/09/26(Thu)20:36:35 No.43211953

>>43211667
I haven’t tried that it’d be nice to have a friend with a similar mindset

Misandry Troon
04/09/26(Thu)20:41:55 No.43211989

Misandry Troon 04/09/26(Thu)20:41:55 No.43211989

>>43211953
Do you have discord or anything?

Anonymous
04/09/26(Thu)20:50:03 No.43212057

Anonymous 04/09/26(Thu)20:50:03 No.43212057

sounds hot
go find another you lazy fycj

Anonymous
04/09/26(Thu)20:56:05 No.43212116

Anonymous 04/09/26(Thu)20:56:05 No.43212116

I want to hit and belittle OP (sexually)

Anonymous
04/09/26(Thu)20:59:46 No.43212153

Anonymous 04/09/26(Thu)20:59:46 No.43212153

>>43211989
Yeah but i never use it I kinda get confused by servers with all the bots and stuff

Misandry Troon
04/09/26(Thu)21:01:26 No.43212174

Misandry Troon 04/09/26(Thu)21:01:26 No.43212174

>>43212153
I don't blame you but there at least used to be some good servers for trans support and stuff

Anonymous
04/09/26(Thu)21:40:33 No.43212527

Anonymous 04/09/26(Thu)21:40:33 No.43212527

>>43212174
I just found my province has a website for support groups thanks Misandry troon you’ve made my day better

Misandry Troon
04/09/26(Thu)23:26:09 No.43213488

Misandry Troon 04/09/26(Thu)23:26:09 No.43213488

>>43212527
I'm glad. I hope you feel better soon:)