i'm really not *that* passingi've just never been publicly misgendered or gotten any transphoibic remarks, mostly because of luck i think. idk there are some areas where i'm a little lucky. my facial features are soft, my tits came in pretty nicely. and i naturally have always had a kind of feminine voice (this was the only thing i ever got called gay for as a young kid)but anyways the incident that brings me to make this post was a recent date i went on. T4T. she's super cute, a bit younger than me. but, it slowly set in to me over the process of the date that I was making her feel insecure. i would tell her about my experiences at work and how i assume most of the adults at least know i'm trans, but everyone treats me like a womanshe doesn't even get treated as a woman at all. i really don't get it, she totally does look like a girl.and then it came to voice stuff, and that made me feel really bad. she apologized for her 'lazy voice' at the end, and then said something that implied i had done a lot of voice training. so i had to awkwardly explain to her that I hadn't really done any.idk. that's all.
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>>43213199fpbp
yeah this is cope. they play along so you dont go into a moidrage
>>43213089most people don't want confrontation and will play along with a mannish tranny to avoid conflict
>>43213089grrrr I'm jealous of gigapassoids*reloads shutgon*
>>43213089how tall
>>43213448but i’m not a gigapassoid! i think i just make people feel comfortable, even if they can tell i’m transand to the mean people: i get that they are “humoring” me, but they def aren’t doing it out of fear. they are just woke
>>432134725’8”
>>43213487her how tall
>>43213199You mean OP or your post? (Serious question I'm dumb)
>>43213501oh. uh… i didn’t super notice. so probably the same height as me, maybe a bit taller?i think she is mostly getting clocked due to her face and mannerisms. she has boy sperg mannerisms
>>43213530what boy sperg mannerisms
>>43213546hmmm it’s hard to put my finger on exactly. pretty low eye contact, the way she carries her shoulders, her gait. her expressions, kind of
>>43213557big shoulder?
>>43213562hmmm i didn’t super notice that either. she has a slender frame generally, so i dont think super wide
>>43213089>i'm really not *that* passingi've just never been publicly misgenderedstop reading immediately fyi
>>43213089sounds like an opportunity for you to acknowledge your privilege and grow as a person
>>43213089>so i had to awkwardly explain to her that I hadn't really done any.you didnt have to awkwardly explain anything. you should have lied and protected her from the truth, say "haha yeah i watched a lot of transvoicelessons" and leave it at that. if you rub it in that you lucked out of course she's going to feel inferior
>>43213089is that a liv agar wojak
>>43213626i’m not privileged. i dont even cispass. >>43213647lying doesn’t come naturally to me.>>43213697no its just some random wojak. liv agar doesnt have two toned hair
>>43213089Voice matters astronomically to how you get treated. Your voice being better than hers is why you get treated as female and she doesn't
>>43213089So you just bragged like a dumb bitch instead of treating the date like a normal person? Who tf says “oh I don’t really voice train on date??” Ew you sound motherfucking insufferable and I bet you look busted which is worse. >needs serious humble pie
>>43214079i really wasn’t bragging. if anything, she was the one out of line. she was the one who got onto voice, and i didnt say ‘oh i dont voice train’ out of nowhere. she said she needed to voice train more, i said ‘me too’, she goes ‘omg i totally would have thought you had’. i tried to soften and was like ‘oh i mean ive tried the techniques before but i’ve never had a consistent routine’i was polite and accommodating. she made it awkward by calling attention to it.also im at least like a 6.5 out of ten i’m not busted. i’m kinda cute :)
>>43213089People are gonna hate on you for this but my experience has been similar. Not during dates specifically, but just from reading the experiences of other trannies on here.
>>43213271Nah not really here
