I wish I could be a mom.
>>43219827When I was in college working as an RA, my residents always called me "dad."I can't imagine the pain of adopting a kid and there being a high chance they would always see me as dad instead of mom.
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>>43219827Same, nona
i had this one kid come up and hug my leg by accident when i was in a cashier line once, and then a really cute dad came up and apologized to me, and it made me wish i could be a mom
>>43219827Imagine a mini you running across the house, hugging your leg and calling you "Mama!"
>>43222868What are you here just to torture us?
>>43222909I just find the image of this happening cute
>>43222909I think you mean "why".
>>43222713>>43222868republicans are based for making women die in childbirth again. they deserve to be incubators and nothing more
>>43219827Three or 4 options...1. Become a teacher or librarian2. Adopt younglings3. Get a BF and gradually introduce mommy kink into the relationshipI also suggest mommaxxing your image and figure rather than the usual girly girly look (gain weight, frump up a bit, wear mom clothes)
>>43219827You could always be the mom who stepped up.
>>43223442Average BMI of a mom is like 32 and they dress in a way very different from young ladies. More yoga pants and mom jeans
>>432234424. Marry a workaholic but non-child free cis woman 5. Do the surrogate thing the gays do
>>43219827me too, I will, one day, even if through adoption.
>>43219827Would trannies want to go the process of pregnancy? Isn't it like painful? Although maybe it be hella euphoric for some of yall.
>>43223806Ofc being pregnant and giving birth can be a drag sometimes, But that really isn't enough to cancel out the desire to be a mother in the most complete sense.
>>43223806physically it would suck i'm sure but psychologically pregnancy is a very big part of motherhood; you are growing a tiny person inside you for nine whole months, and every health choice you make is a choice not only for you but for this tiny person. every moment, waking and sleeping, is spent together, as it develops; it moves inside you. it gets bigger and you can physically see and feel and become ever-more attached eith every day that you take care of it, and yourself for it. by the time a mother gives birth she has already spent a considerable amount of time bonding with her child. it's probably a good thing that i am not a cis woman because i am of the opinion that birth is an increasingly immoral choice nowadays...but i really really really want to be a mom. i hope i get to adopt someday.
Surrogacy is evil.
Any time I like an anecdote of parenthood on social media I always get several more the next couple days so I've had to ignore them. It's miserable and an affront to all that is good, I hate that I feel like I have to.
>>432251824chan users are just completely wrong about the most random things
>>43225453You are evil.
>>43225182Oh is that the practice where homosexual men buy a child from its mother?
You'll never be a mom as good as Clementine and she was an 11 year old girl
>>43225790yes
>>43223442>>432237706. impregnate a cis woman (this is how most trans women moms became moms).
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=f4zwF4ukPmc
>>43226050I meant that with 4, but specifically I think it has to be someone like that otherwise you'll end up in a diminished mother role that can feel father-esque at times.
>>43222868>>43222713>>43219827>>43220094yeah...
I want to be a father but I also want to look like a woman
>>43219827Learn how to put motherly traits on display and start looking for single dads asap nona
>>43219827do you actually have maternal instincts?
>>43222868somebody's kids i know did this to me and i almost cried
>>43222969they dont. stfu saar
>>43224534Same, I'd like to adopt with my partner once our finances are sorted out
>>43219827i can't relate desu... there are a lot of downsides and difficulties to motherhood & pregnancy. on tiktok there's a popular List by a childfree activist that convinces a lot of women not to have children: https://z00mie.substack.com/p/the-list
>>43227796What's this asking exactly, don't most of these develop after being with child?
>>43229821as someone who has been with child, no. that's something that happens in adult brains who parent, love, and care for a child. some people dont bond with theri children at all right after giving birth. It doesn't "click" in the way stories and tv says it should. then they build up to that deep love and connection over months and months, while geetingt o know their child and themselves as a parent.a lot of my social circle now is trans and queer parents. There's a lot of amazing trans moms out there, and they definitely have maternal instincts.
