Hey all. I’m 22 and I met this 16 year old feminine guy. He doenst even know what a femboy is, he’s just naturally feminine. He told me he was 18 at first but then told me he’s 16, he’ll be 17 in a few weeks. He really likes me and I think he’s cute. We called and face timed and stuff. What should I do
hes fucking 16. go straight to jail u pedo
>>43224322Country?
>>43224322don’t do it, get that idea out of your head right now
>>43224331Yeah that’s my concern >>43224342Can’t say>>43224343I know but he’s just my type and he likes me. He’s almost 17, it’s only a year more
picrel is from a thread where someone was talking about having dated a 23 year old when they were 15. I feel like it summarizes why this is such a bad idea. You will likely really hurt this kid if you go through with this. Please dont
>>43224375block him and get a lawyer
>>43224375then you can wait a year if you like him that much. getting into it right now would be incredibly stupid, there’s no reason for it
bruh dont talk to a literal child thats so weird
>>43224387He keeps talking to me. I told him abt the age gap and he’s said he’s talked to guys around my age before but he likes me and my personality a lot >>43224398Why a lawyer >>43224415Yeah but a whole year? We just met too>>43224420Idk
>>43224375Why can’t you be say don’t be afraid my friend
ur going to jail buddy, that kid is a cop
>>43224494Yeah but he messaged me. And then he asked me for my snap. Wouldn’t that be entrapment or smth. And he sent me some vids that are proving he’s definitely who he is. it’s not like he said he was 16 from the steer. He told me he was 18 the whole time. I’m thinking of convincing him to start that androgen anti thing cuz he looks really cute and I don’t want him to get Masculine>>43224493I don’t wanna say
>>43224505Why who’s threatening you?
>>43224505Okay i was trolling but you’re just a piece of shit lol how are you gonna get this random kid you don’t know AAs lol
>>43224505good luck proving it bro ur gunna be broke as fuck public defender railroded and on the sex offender list for the rest of your life
>>43224512No one juts replying to that guy>>43224519True. I didn’t talk to him abt it and idk where to get it. I’m just worried someone else will scoop him up. If I stop talking to him. I gotta get him interested in me a lot and then stop so that he sticks to me for a while >>43224520How do u know that?
regardless of how acceptable it feels to you (its not acceptable but the heart wants what it wants ig and people find ways to justify it) dont do anything about this and block him for the sake of both parties. a high schooler should not be seeing someone who has potentially graduated college, they are very vulnerable etc etc. at the very best if the two of you are consenting and you're not grooming this kid, you have still committed statutory rape, which could easily be weaponized against you if things were to go wrong in the relationship or his parents catch on and decide to press charges.
Once again showing the stereotypes are true. please tell me this thread is bait.
>>43224753Idk cuz I know a Mexican dude who was 22 dating a girl who was 16 and her family seemed okay with it so maybe this dudes family is okay with it too >>43224773What stereotypes
>>43224868lgbt people are pedos
oh dude
>>4322432217 is legal everywhere that isn’t an islamic shithole. If you really wanna be safe, check your state/country’s age of consent laws.Everything everyone’s said here is just fearmongering.Try to keep it a secret from family and friends, but otherwise go for it.
>>43224322>>43224889OH and OP also make sure he doesn’t send you any sexually explicit videos.You can have sex with him but sexual vids/pics are still considered cp until age 18. If he’s already sent you stuff like that you’ll be fine because he said he was 18, but now that he’s revealed he’s younger just make sure he doesn’t send any more.
>>43224882Idk I never considered it and I dint approach him. If I knew he was young from the start I’d have said no. But I only found out after >>43224887What>>43224889Okay so I looked into it. The moment he turns 17, it’s legal fully. But only intercouse. It seems like sending photos and vids of himself under 18 is illegal tho idk
>>43224909What about on video call? Or apps like snap? I can just unsave his vids and tjey disappear right. Cuz he’s sent provocative stuff but not nudity yet
>>43224322i stopped reading halfway through, i hope the police put you in jail forever
>>43224923NO, do NOT get him to do anything sexual on cam at all. >Cuz he’s sent provocative stuff but not nudity yetHave a convo with him making it clear that he cannot send you that stuff anymore. It’s not worth the risk.You have something good here. Don’t get greedy and fuck it up.
>>43224924Why >>43224935So. His birthday is in a month or two. Then he’s 17. So I tell him to not do or send anything provocative? And we can’t meet up till after his birthday? What about stuff he’s already sent to me
Okay so I just asked him. He said he’s born in 2010 and his bday is in May.
>>43224957the nigga is 15 years old. leave him alone
>>43224965That’s what I don’t get he said he’s 16 before turning 17. And nfl I didn’t ask him just now I asked him before when we were in call and he just mentioned it. He is a bit air headed ngl and English is not his best language. So maybe he just messed up th years
>>43224942>So I tell him to not do or send anything provocative?Correct, and he can’t send stuff until he’s 18. Sites that host video calls and stuff like snap still keep a record of the footage, audio, and things sent even though it appears to “delete” them, so do not have him do anything on cams or send pics until after he turns 18.>And we can’t meet up till after his birthday?Correct. Then you can have sex with him because he’ll be 17, which is legal where you’re from.>What about stuff he’s already sent to meThe best play would be deleting it if you’ve saved it. >>43224957>>43224983LMAO nevermind OP. If he was born in 2010 there’s no way he’ll be turning 17 this year. He’s already lied to you about his age once and now he’s being inconsistent with whether he’s currently 15 or 16.This isn’t worth it. At this point just block and move on.
that's legal where i live and therefore ok.
Bump
don't be a fucking pedo
>>43224322Been in your shoesBe the better person and guide him instead of taking advantage of himI made my boundaries clear with mine early on and though we still talk, strictly told him off of anything sexual
>>43227285But how. He gets horny. I feel like if I lead him on too long he might get upset and then things could go bad
>>43227673So he confirmed. His bday is May 2010. I told him he could get me in trouble so I’m worried. He said that he still wants to talk, and he said he doenst like snap. So he said telegram. That sounds so sus but he was literally on call with me and even video called. So I know he’s real
>>43224322concerns over age gap are a joke, just be sure to be legal where you live, that should be your only concern when it comes to age
>>43227732bruh they can ai slop that shit up ez ur getting pedobaited
>>43224322Kill yourself for messing with a child
Fucked up that people are giving op advice on his to get away with grooming this child
>>43224387LOL that was me. I haven't broken up with rapist bf yet but it is coming. OP I reccomend you stay platonic friends until they are 18, and maybe ask them about hrt>>43224480yep thats what I did. When I told my bf my real age he ghosted me for a day and I spam messaged him. I was literally crying and going crazy because I thought I lost him. eventually he messaged me and said he would keep it platonic but that didnt last. Our second date he grabbed my ass. I can't believe I was screenshotted lol
>>43224915You wouldn't have pursued if you knew from the start but you're pursuing now even though you know? Leave this kid alone
Hi OP, I have been the 16 year old in this situation and I ended up damaged. It's your responsibility as an adult not to mess with this kid no matter what they think they want in the moment.
>>43227673He's a teenager, of course he gets hornyHormones, manDon't do it, fucker
>>43224935>you have something good hereA vulnerable child. Disengage entirely, op.
Block them and delete everything you retard. What the fuck is wrong with you?I hope it’s one of those unhinged pedo hunters and you wind up shot in a public park.He’s fifteen!
>>43228070Ah yes but according to op he didn't originally know that he was talking to a 15 year old child, and the child really wants to talk to him sooooo
>thinks he's 18 >he's actually 16>didn't immediately lose interest and break contact>he's actually 15>also he's ESL>OP still hasn't lost interest>still trying to justify it in the replies>still waiting for someone to tell him it's ok because he has literally zero moral compass at 22op, please get castrated as soon as you can
>>43227869well hes 15, so thats not legal. if he was close to 17 it would be legal.>>43227919im not messing with him>>43227930im not grooming him, he's the one who wants to keep talking to me>>432279353 entire years of friends? idk if i can do that for 3 whole years.also for estrogen and anti androgen isnt it better to start it earlier than 18>>43227957i pursued him in the start cuz i thought he was over 18, afterwards ive been having mixed>>43227973how do i not mess this up>>43228070>>43228097yeah i didnt know initallyhe just told me randomly >>43228728why
>>43228868Stop talking to him! It doesn't matter if the literal child wants to talk to you and send you provocative stuff, you're a grown ass adult and it's your responsibility to stop this shit.
>>43228906>>43228906idk tho. we called for a long time last night and spoke about a lot of things. i enjoy talkign to him. he is immature in certain aspectrs but i guess that makes sense since he is younger
>>43229367Honestly at this point I hope he's a cop. You're a piece of shit.
>>43228868>3 entire years of friends? idk if i can do that for 3 whole years.you are a stupid gooner if you can't have a friend for 3 years. if you just want to get sex go on Grindr.>also for estrogen and anti androgen isnt it better to start it earlier than 18idk, but 80% of femboys are trans or at least nb. If you get him on hrt it will at least start to make up for the statutory rape.
>>43229367You enjoy talking to the child you're sexually attracted to? Oh that's ok thenRetard
>>43229603where do you think i met him? he had a profile setup on there doodaltho he doesnt know anything at all about trans and femboys. like he knows feminine guy is a thging but not femboy and def no trans. the only way i could convince him is to meetup but that sounds really worrying>>43229557i mean i dont see why he would be. why would cops make profile on grindr saying they are 18 and then admit it way later that they arent that makes no sense>>43229621dont word it like that
>>43224322Leave him. That shouldn't even be a question
>>43224322hi op! kill yourself for trying to rape a child 7 years younger than you
>>43229859>Don't word it like thatThat's the situation.
Hey op I used to talk to older guys when I was 15 and the common theme among them was this: the ones willing to talk to me when they knew how old I was were all pedos
Report his grindr account for being underage and block him you fucking idiot
>>43229905Why though. He approached me >>43229982I didn’t know he was young. I met him and he said 18. Only later did he tell me he’s going. >>43229997I can’t find his Grindr account anymore
GEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEG DO 4TROONS REALLY?>IS 22>ADMITTED ATTRACTION TO 16 YEAR OLDYOU WILL ACK!
>>43229859>too developmentally stunted to flirt with adults>so desperate for sex he's genuinely considering raping a child>tries to justify it even though he knows it's wrong, gets upset when the literal truth of the situation is acknowledged in any way>>43230719>He approached meif a dog in heat approached you and presented itself to you, would you fuck it? If not, why?
>>43230719>But the child approached me!Doesn't matter jfc
>>43230719But you know now. Continuing to engage is making the choice to be a big old pedo.
>>43229859BLOCK HIM EVERYWHERE YOU DUMBASS NIGGA. its not worth it, seriously just get the fuck out of there and never be friends with a child. there are other dudes you can have gay sex with.
>you btw (pedophile)YOU WILL ROT!
>>43230751>if a dog in heat approached you and presented itself to you, would you fuck it? If not, why?Cool thought experiment bro, but we're not fucking dogs here. We're talking two adults consensually dating each other. Dunno why you feel such strong compulsion to bring those dogfucker fantasies of yours into this
>>43231107We're talking about a 22 year old man lusting over a 15 year old boy and justifying it with "but the kid approached me".
>>43230737i didnt know he was 16 he told me he was 18>>43230751i have had plenty of relationships. i just like femboys and he is super feminine>>43230773hmm idk some older cultures did that stuff>>43230913yeah but like. if i block him now he could tell ppl that i talked to him in that way. i have to get him to fall completely for me so he doesnt think about telling anyone else>>43231126well on grindr his profile was set up and i messaged him. he told me he was 18 at the time and for a long time. only after we moved to snap he told me he's younger
itt: people who think calling someone is a crime
>>43232336this sounds like a sting operation
>>43232336I hope this thread is ragebait
>>43231107>We're talking two adults>22 and 15
>>432323361) You've already said he's not even 162) doesn't matter what he said then, you know he's a child now3) this isn't Athens circa 300bc3) if you do anything with him (including soliciting pictures of videos) you deserve to be dragged out into the street and executed
>>43232660Numbering fucked up, therefore it's ok for op to be a child molester
>>43227732what the fuck that kid is 15 yeah youre going to jail toniiighhhhtttguess whos going to jail toniiiighhht
>>43224322Fuck him in the ass>>43224420Do....Americans really??
>>43224322Anon are you retarded? I mean putting the obvious ethical guidelines aside, this entire thing smells like a honeypot.If you're retarded enough to fall for it you deserve it.
>>43224322what the fuck is wrong with u
>>43233803Why>>43233911Idk about it >>43233956Honeypot?
>>43232336op, it is extremely rare to find a cute femboy past 18+.16 is legal in the large majority of places. Don't fuck it up, just wait until May so he is 16, consider yourself lucky
>>43235765It’s not legal here and photos are not legal till 18. I asked him about femboys an trans stuff today and he said he doenst like to dress up like a girl. I told him about anti androgen and estrogen and it seemed like he didn’t really understand it cuz he didn’t even know what the word hormones mean. But I gave him the gist and told him I’d help him and he said okay. he isn’t the most exciting to talk to he just plays brawl stars all day and does nothin else but. He’s really cute
>>43235962imagine the look on that mother's face when she sees you, the person who predated her 15 year old boy
I hope this kid's father finds out what you're doing and corrects your behaviour, op
