I've been seeing a lot of discourse about what kind of attitude towards trans people's genitals should be considered disgusting, make someone a chaser, etc., and I want to knos where you personally draw the line.Where would you put yourself on the continuum below, with A being the most restrictive, and E being the least restrictive on what attitude your partner(s) should have regarding your genitals? Trans people only, please.A: I would not accept having a partner who is attracted to my genitals.B: My partner should be ambivalent to my genitals and ideally ignore them.C: My partner should be attracted to my genitals, but no more so than opposite-sex genitals were they attached to me instead.D: I would accept my partner preferring my genitals over opposite-sex genitals, as long as they do not focus on mine to the extent that it makes me feel fetishized.E: I would accept my partner preferring my genitals to the point of fetishization as long as I am happy with our relationship.
trans women LOVE being held down and sucked to completion
Somewhere between B and C depending on my mood. Usually I'd lean toward ignore but at the same time I do want to cum sometimes and the junk I have is the junk I have. I do not want a partner who prefers or fetishizes my genitals.
>>43234075Out of curiosity, what is your sexuality?I forgot to mention this in OP, but anyone posting their answer is encouraged to add their sexual orientation as well.
>>43234117"actually" demisexual transbian I guess
>>43234039Probably C but srs is always gonna be my big goal
>>43234039Idc, just saying anyone who dates me expecting a hentai futa will be severely disappointed, so I wouldn't recommend having that sort of expectations.
>>43234231I feel like I should treat "idc" as a de facto "E"
>>43234243Sure, really the only thing that matters to me in a relationship is how I feel about my partner. With that said I don't think a genital fetishizer would like me very much in the end so I don't worry much about it.
>>43234039Ftm, I would like my partner to be actively attracted to my genitals but not interested in penetration, which functionally excludes me from dating cis men (I am bisexual)
>>43234039A to C depending on the situation. D and E are unacceptable for meyou are a chaser if you prefer trans people over cis peopleyou are not a chaser if you prefer cis people over trans people (or neutral)you are a chaser if you prefer pre op/non op genitals of trans people over cis people's genitalsyou are not a chaser if you prefer post op or cis people's genitals over pre op/non op genitals (or neutral)chasers always fetishize trans people, thats not a problem by itself. some trans people like or are okay with being fetishized others arenta good amount of chasers are eggs/reppers or lie about their sexuality and that is a problem
I care much more about expectations and actions than the underlying motivation but considering I wouldn't tolerate a partner that raised any fuss over me getting SRS that probably precludes (E) I wouldn't feel comfortable with a partner that expected me to use my genitals in a male typical fashion every time during sex either. >t. Youngshit mtf, straight but ambivalent towards relationships with cis women/theyfabs(sometimes I worry if relations with men might be sinful, or situations were it maybe be irrational/unpractical to exclude such an individual even when lacking attraction)
>>43234410>sometimes I worry if relations with men might be sinful
>>43234231The thing is, some of us want our gf to be small, actually
>>43234392>you are a chaser if you prefer trans people over cis peopleIs this necessarily true though?Like if someone has a general preference for bigger women, are they automatically a chubby chaser?
>>43234776yes?
>>43234039i’d prefer he ignores it for the most part till i get SRS. he can kinda touch it while he fucks me if he wants since it’s basically a handle but i’d get the ick if he wanted to suck it
Depends/thread
>>43234039For me its E. Idc if im fetishised in bed as long as he still genuinely loves me and is a good boyfriend/husband. That said I still will not top
>>43234039>muh fetishization god I'm so sick of this word. Some moids love big breasts, others prefer big butts. Its normal. Nothing wrong with preferences. Its not a fetishization. If you married to a woman with big breasts and she decided to reduce them, its fine to be upset about it. Same with trannies who decide to get neovagina. Trannies see everything as fetishization. I'm fine with bf sucking my dick. Its just preference.
>>43235283fetishization is not the same thing as a preference/kink
>>43235283Having preferences is fine. The problem is that different people (even subconsciously) draw the line between "preference" and "fetishization" differently.Some trannies will see someone liking their dick at all as fetishization, often because they have severe dysphoria. Others couldn't care less if their partner wants to slobber on it all day long as long as they love them. Hence the point of this thread...
>>43234039as a post op i choose option ei d not want a boy who likes to suck on a penis
>Pussyd FTM, C/D/EI want a partner who finds my body - as it exists right now - attractive. I understand why some trans people are put off by fetishists, but I don't mind them at all.
>>43236214Damn being post-op give you the Bi-phobia cis women have?
>>43236485She thinks it makes her better than non-op trannies. Newsflash, girl: we're all trannies. Transphobes don't even consider your vagina to be a vagina to begin with. Get off your high horse.
