When will I know if I actually pass consistently? People seem to gender me female but idk if they eventually clock me (be it because of voice or whatever) and that uncertainty is enough to make me doubt myself and overthink.
>>43237256I'm in a similar situation. I don't know how people see me, and that causes me a lot of social anxiety, but I also can't manmode because I often pass as a woman. I guess I'm just scared of being clocked and hurt
it kinda depends on the political climate of your area tbhonsome places people have the tranny obsession and some places people dont really think about them existing
>>43237256You wont.As they say, hell is other people. Best you can get is passing to yourself, or getting called a passoid on here.
>>43238024How should I present socially then
>>43238033just girlmode.
>>43238024how do u get to the point of passing to urself? i find that harder than passing to other ppl since i know all the features that make me male
>>43239522surgery and gaslighting yourselfcareful though!one offhand comment from a transphobic family member can undo all the gaslighting in a moment
>>43238024>>43239636it sounds like you arent the best mentor for this post (ó﹏ò｡)
>>43239657i mean yk theyre right
