>be me>straight edge anon from a few days ago who is turning his living room into a bdsm play room>internet breaks when an anon wants to ask questions about it>>43229613>We could, I am curious about one thing>When you mean "turning your living room" did you divide it or are you doing one of these hidden BDSM rooms which look normal but can be quickly assembled for use?I didn't divide it. The whole living room is going to be a place for reading and playing, with some stereo speakers on top. I might get some furniture that converts to bondage furniture later on. For now, my buddy will help me put together a St. Andrew's cross, my bookshelf with room for fetish toy storage, and figure out how I want to store my collection of floggers.
>>43239806That’s sad, don’t you have friends you need a normal living room to hang out with?Sad for you schizoanon
>>43239829He said he has a buddy help him putting stuff together, retard. All of his friends are probably into kink as well or don't mind it if he goes this hard into it.
Why are you turning your living room into a play room?
>>43239986I posted it in the thread. TL;DR The kink and LGBT world near me is a cesspit of drug users and alcoholics, and they seldom know what personal boundaries and consent mean. Building my private play space means I can more effectively filter people and even remove them instead of having to repeatedly deal with them. I got fed up with "Hey, you into fisting and speed?" and idiots who want to tie someone down while being drunk or high and unable to be responsible.
>>43240078Youre a dick for the cop thing you said in the old thread but the rest is understandable. Im not SxE but its not surprising you got so many druggies in the old thread screaming at you. They are insecure asshats.
>>43240159Most cops are huge dicks. I know that better than most people. But if someone ignores boundaries and lack of consent, why wouldn't I make use of what I can to keep them from doing so, and get one up on them? There is no care for my wellbeing exhibited, so I have no reason to exhibit the same in return. Usually, it's druggies who act this way. I guess my advantage is just 'unfair'. Lol.
Very "might makes right" attitude but I get it. I would probably do the same if I was you. I was harassed a few times and assaulted, it hurts.
>saltireyou aim ta torture trannies by remindin' 'em a scötland, eh lad?
>>43240405>Might makes rightI guess? I'm more on board with Max Stirner's "My might is my property. My might gives me property. I am my might, and through it, am my own property." I do this because I want to, and my might allows me to, so I actualise myself. It's 'sadly' at the 'expense' of retards, but who cares? I'm a philosophy fag, please be patient because I have. Sidenote, it's still weird to me how consent is put on such a pedestal with anything LGBT and kink, but in reality, it's rarely paid mind to in my experience. If you say anything about it, then you are the issue, because the guy who tried to grab your dick or didn't stop when you told him to is one sad boi victim and has zero agency over his actions, so he's excused completely, and you shouldn't feel bad, and especially not do anything about it.>>43240443Quoi?
>>43240519>because I haveAutism? Probably. You also sound like you have a massive and unadressed chip on your shoulder regarding drug users and SAers.
>>43240615I might Lol. Also, yeah, I do. It happened on an almost regular basis. When I tried to talk about it, I was often told that it's my fault and that I should have just accepted it. The peak of it was when I told a gay therapist about it who proceeded to yap about his bathhouse orgies for ten minutes in response. When I piped up about it to the LGBT healthcare center via a professionally worded letter, I was banned from the premises. So, I'm doing my own thing. >inb4 my hard kink ass needs to be le more openminded and le more sex positiveThe whole victim blaming and victim shaming shit that feminists talk about is real, and it's not only restricted to straight women.
>>43240792That sounds ridiculous but Ive heard stories like that before. Im sorry you had to deal with this. Cop friend or not, I have a lot of respect for you not lying down and abandoning your sexuality.
>>43240931Yeah, it's common. I've met a couple of gays, bis and even some trans people who have abandoned the larger share of LGBT and kink communities for the same reason. It all gets swept under the rug and you're told to shut up about it, or else. It's the same hypocrisy you see with conservative straights who go on about muh gender roles and muh church, only to cheat on their spouse and take it up the ass in drag.Also, thanks. I dunno if you're the Anon who wanted to chat from the original thread, but it's enjoyable.
>>43241024>Conservative style hypocrisyYouve got a point and fuck you for putting it this way. Im not that anon, youre just an interesting fag, I guess. You sperged out while sounding educated and youre going against the grain in a community that defines itself by going against the grain. You basically dont fit in anywhere.
>>43241024NTA, but this is why I dislike having to be stuck in small communities - if you dare to expect fairness while not having the correct opinion, identity or privileges, you get your shit pushed in socially.>>43240519This is one reason I hope I'll be able to fix my body and gain appropriate might, same goes for my social skills and social might. When push comes to shove, might makes right. In some systems it's individual physical might, in others social might, in third oppression points might, but it often boils down to one of those.
>>43241236That's the fate of us tismos that don't find the right niche and get uppity about principles n shiet.
>>43241236Fuck me yourself uwu. Thanks. I rarely feel like I fit in anywhere, for a bunch of reasons, and it's a weird one, It makes it hard to find my people, but if I find some, the bond is a lot tighter for it. Then there's also those people who are strangely fascinated by you being so 'different' and kind of treat you like a rare animal in a petting zoo. I enjoy getting to sperg out a little, I don't get to do that a lot. >>43241244Yeah, that's true. It's a pretty global LGBT issue, but that doesn't really matter when all you get to deal with is your local community. The might stuff, it always sounds so brutish or it intimidates people, but all it ultimately comes down to is your ability to assert and actualise yourself and what you want. It's what everyone does or tries to do, most people just make up excuses for it so they feel better about their base desire of "I want thing", which is also why they usually fucking suck at doing any of it.I dunno where you're at in life, but what did it for me was fighting sports and powerlifting for the physical aspect, and selling NGO memberships in public to randoms on the street for the social stuff because it's basically brutal sales work where you either git gud at people-ing or you won't go anywhere.
>>43241370Why dont you feel like you fit in?
>>43241670Normie shit is boring because it's vapid and surface-level. The sports ball went, politician said bad or good thing, I did a party and got drunk. It's almost always consume, consume, consume, and hardly ever about something they did themselves or they created, and even 'rebellious' opinions are safely nestled within the framework of what is accepted as 'rebellious'.I'm also a dumbass who is drawn to intense stuff by nature. Sports ball once a week is too boring, I have to do intense fighting sports, belly dancing or powerlifting several times a week. Pop music or safe-edgy music? No, extreme metal or classical, please. Sticking it in to pork away for five minutes? I want leather, chains, and a bit of blood, and maybe then we can pork a little. A lot of my interests are all over the place. I know that we live in a totes super liberal and hecking openminded world where you can be yourself and do as you gosh hecking please, but that's only permitted as long as you do it in the 'right way', and that's very narrowly defined, so you still have to fulfil some stereotype. It's like how 'accepted' BDSM means a couple of spanks, fuzzy handcuffs and a 'good girl' and a 'yes daddy', but the moment you go beyond that, you're 'weird' and 'fucked in the head' or 'scary'. I REALLY tried to fit in with several niches, scenes, and whatnot, but it always led to a moment of 'if you do or do not do thing, then you are not really one of us', and I couldn't be fucked to submit to that.
>>43241920>Seeks intense experiences in general >Is into extreme kink >Interested in philosophy, quotes ultra niche political philosophers>Deconstructs norms while being extremely ideological about it, ironically>Spergs the fuck out at the drop of a hat and is happy he gets to do it because he usually can't>Is very rustled by the kink and LGBT world's hypocrisy regarding yass kween consent>Clearly cares about people and wants the best for themOP, you are a prime example of an autistic guy who isnt socially or sexually retarded because he doesnt get it but because you get it and want to do it as right as you can, because your tism demands it. Normies and druggies dont give a fuck about any of that, they just want their quick and cheap fill no matter how they can get it.
>>43242283You're the second guy to put it to me in this way, and I'm starting to think you might have a point, even if psychologists, minus the guy telling me about his orgies, told me it's more likely my CPTSD. That can cause some very tism-y behaviours.
