at what point does boymoding become actively destructive to your transition?
The moment you start boymoding the harm starts. I think every moment I mode actual permanent mental damage is being done to the girl inside me
>>43241092Remember, it used to be that trannies had to socially transition for 1-2 years before they were even allowed to begin HRT. Not saying that should be the standard but the longer you boymode the less confident you will be when you start girlmoding.
The younger you boymode the more damaging, early transition is often a good catalyst for developing your identity as a woman especially in very socially condusive environments like High school and university if you 'miss the boat' it can be a lot easier to get stuff in your old ways.
>>43241092if you regularly malefail in boymode (not just a one-time fluke), you should be legally prevented from boymoding ever again. Boymoding past that is self-destructive and cowardly
>>43241238Wouldn't that just be tomboymoding?
>>43241238i fully consistently "malefail" and get addressed as a woman and get directed to the women's restroom and stuff but that doesn't mean i pass or mean i should be femalemodingthere's pity passing and there's also psychic knowledge from the public of what we are, where they can sense our soul and read our thoughts to know we are trans. this happens even if we pass. it's a layer above the physical. anybody malefailing us is doing it to be nice. they ma'am us and want us to use the women's room for good ally points.malemoding despite this is a virtuous act, communicating to those around you that are still care about their comfort and that they don't need to play the game.it will still be a back and forth of ally concessions and trans malemoder reassurances, but it's better than us getting greedy and swallowing up the concessions nonstop and earning the ire of the people around us
>>43241238I do this though. >have some really odd undiagnosable food allergy (either from wheat, peanuts or dairy, it’s been hard to narrow down which) >triggers these awful rashes all over my body>makes my face swell up and look 10 years older + more masculine. >lasts like a week>for that week I won’t pass at all, despite being able to malefail constantly with no makeup and my hair up in a beanie in the days/weeks prior I do feel like a coward but it’s the most dysphoric thing and makes me feel like I can never truly relax. It happens once or twice a year.
>>43241595So you're clearly just an annoying bitch pretending she has real problems when it comes to passing
>>43241870these are real problems. when they hunt us down (and they WILL hunt us down) they will be able to see us through walls. our souls will glow a light they are becoming attuned to more and more with each passing day. they are literally tuning in to us like a radio tuner, focusing on our channels. you can't block the glow with human methods. we glow to them in a very real way. we will not be able to hide when the hunt begins. lead walls won't be enough. our best strategy is to appease them now. let them know we are gentle and self-sacrificing when there are no present stakes, so they see us as pitiable and harmless when there are high stakes. befriend them by becoming a pet. let them live their lives before they hunt us.
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>>43242015aight
