what are /LGBT/ thoughs on polygamy?
Literally the most cringe way to be in a relationship
>>43241187Based but only if all parties actually want it, Polyam sucks in current society because people try it out without actually being comfortable with it.It's not for everyone and that's okay, that's how it should be
I don't have strong feelings about it but I dislike how (a small number of) people peddle it as somehow ethically superior. I've seen too many failed polycules to fall for that propaganda. I don't think any relationship structure is better than any other, inherently.
I may fantasize about having a harem sometimes but I'm generally against it
>>43241210kill yourself lol, no one in a polygamous relationship that is totally comfortable with it truly love "their" partners. is just hedonistic cheap sex, specially for trannies, wich can only date other trannies irl
>>43241241You simply don't get it and that's okay, you dont experience love the same way we and others do.You don't have to shit on it for it not to be for you. I agree, oftentimes it IS an excuse for hedonism, but of course that isn't universal, and I have alot of love to give :3I don't think it's fair for you to assume how other people act because it fits your narrative, I enjoy polygamy and have been in past relationships where its worked out fine, but it's only possible if EVERY PARTY is mature and understanding. My boyfriend does not feel comfortable with Polyamory, so, we're monogamous, and only do things with people as far as he's comfortable, and we've spoken quite a bit about our boundaries. The last thing I want to do is make him uncomfortable or push him towards something he wouldnt be happy in, and that mindset is IMPERATIVE if you're going to be intimate with someone.
>>43241187is it weird if i think being anyone in that picture would be a miserable existence? im not strictly against polyamory but a dynamic anywhere close to the one drawn there sounds like constant ropefuel
>>43241187the only way to afford rent
>>43241241I'll have you know I have way more luck with chasers than other trannies, lol.
It's not for me. I'm sure there are some happy poly relationships out there, but I'd wager most have stressful imbalances going on... pretty rare to be in a group of people where you truly don't have a favorite.
>>43241187it’s fine, but not anything i’m into, and i don’t care about people making jokes about poly people/relationships
>>43241187three's a crowd. group friend relationships rarely last. where do you think this is going?
>>43241281Doesnt sound like a polyamorous. Just sounds like an open relationship
degenerate
>>43241187I would like to be in a pooner polycule
>>43241187Its fun in theory but i don't want to deal with the logistics of it
>>43241187easy mode for ugly people and sex pests
>>43241281no, i understand perfectly, i understand you trannies are hedonistic pigs with no ability to love
>>43241187it requires a balance most people can't handle. i'm a cis male with a cis girlfriend, and a trans girlfriend. if you get any amount of jealous in your life, you're doomed immediately. we all love each other, but they do more stuff together because i'm a massive hermit mode enjoyer. when i see them doing stuff together, it doesn't bother me at all. when i end my occasional hermit modes, they immediately want to make me do 500 things with them over and over.
>>43241187but what if the others force me out and im left with no one?
>>43242010i'm ugly, where the fuck is my polycule.....
>>43241187My gf and her best friend occasionally joke about them both becoming my wives. But I think if we actually tried that in practice that would cause too many problems lol
>>43241187you are naturally polygamous or you are nothalf of the population are polygamous to a certain degreea lot of poly people love stealing mono terms like gf, bf, marriage, wife, husband, love, etc. mono people rarely doif you are poly you shouldnt repress it, if you are mono you shouldnt repress it. a lot of people fall for societal pressurespoly is pushed on lgtv people and overrepresentedmen tend to be more poly and women tend to be more mono
>>43241241we can date cissoids but they are unworthy 99% of the time, T4T is superior because trans people act like human beings.
>>43241187i feel like most cases is just the majority of them desiring one person so badly that they just put up with the others, which is horribly depressing. Its cute if they’re all genuinely in love with each other but I’ve never seen it. Also when it goes from regular monogamy to being a poly relationship i just 100% think thats just one person blatantly cheating on their partner and manipulating them into being okay with it.
in theory i would love to be in a ménage à trois and ive wanted it for a long time, but in practice unfortunately i dont think ill ever have that since finding even just one attractive partner who would be capable of being in a healthy and stable and committed relationship seems to be way more difficult than it should.
>>43242461yeah from what ive seen i agree. most people seem to be doing poly shit for all the wrong reasons. i want an actual loving poly relationship where everyone loves each other equally, but im not holding my breath and so far have settled for monogamy t: >>43242476
>>43241187Open to a throuple with the right lady. I don't mind sharing bf with someone I like
>>43241187watching my gf fuck someone she clearly enjoys more then me and then geting broken up with the second she remembers I exist
>>43241187Gives people with attachment issues the ability to claim to be in a relationship with someone without any of the maintenance that an actual relationship requires. Hard pass
>>43241187these people are alien to me. if i ever got with somebody and they asked me if i wanted to try out an open relationship, i would immediately start bawling my eyes out, then slice my jugular and wrists wide open .
>>43241187I always really liked the idea of having two boyfriends where we would all date each other. Idk why but i also really like watching guys kissing and having sex with other guys. I would probably really like it but sadly that seems rly hard to get as a tranner. Is that normal??
>>43241187Extremely cringe and millennial pilled.
>>43241187So fucking hot. Honest to god. Run while you all still can. You have no idea how fucking insanely attractive it is... >Send help...... PLEASE! SEND HELP!
>>43241187i'm not into the relationship aspect (aro) but having a bunch of different sexual partners is an exciting concept to me
>>43241210Seen you around quite a lot recently. Doing the lords work in these threads
>>43245568Based. Follow your dreams, i can tell you it's possible.
>>43241187idk if i could do it, would take just the right type of people for me and finding that is rare. i do know a bunch of people who are poly behind closed doors but present as mono
>>43247403Recognizing my boyfriend's typing patterns on /tttt/ once again <3
>>43247986FUCK, YOU ACTUALLY DID GET ME AGAIN!FUCKFUCKFUCKFUCKFUCKFUCKI cannot do nuffin, you are literally too good at this. FLY MY CHUDS! F L Y! f-U-c-K ~
>>43247403>>43247986>>43249277i knew it
Embarrassing samefag
>>43241309The transbian black mold polycule apartment is a spoooooky place
>>43249474buh?
>>43241241>is just hedonistic cheap sexlol it's actually way worse than thathedonistic cheap sex nonmonogamy is what swinging is. polyamory is more about deep seated emotional narcissism and an inability to truly enmesh or seek even relationships rather than just quick gratification physically>>43242390>men tend to be more poly and women tend to be more monkek"poly" people will describe animalistic mating strategies that express themselves only in those who don't care for the people they "love" and claim that it's an identity like being gay or trans, pathetic
>>43241187Evil and never works out. Every poly relationship seen as ended terribly with all parties feeling miserable
>>43241187It only makes sense in warrior society
>>43250456cuck
>>43250903anonmonogamy and polygamy are both animalistic mating strategies
>>43241187i want to be part of a chad's harem
>>43241187Literal cuckold psyops, if you love someone then you would never want to let that person go let alone be ok with "sharing". There have always been a section of society which feels nothing, loveless creatures who craves something they simply don't feel, do whatever you want but I won't respect you. Yeah that's right, you won't get the respect of an anon on here, how terrible of a fate is that?
>>43241187it'd be really cool to have two boyfriends, neither of which fuck each other or have romantic feelings for each other but both love and want to have sex with me
>>43250981b u h ?
>>43251093So, having kids is cucked considering you have to eventually let them love others as well as you?getouttahere
>>43241187Completely unfeasible and if it was humans would not have settled into monogamous family units across through world and throughout history. Modern polyam has two flavors: people in a failing relationship who convince themselves letting their partner walk all over them by fucking whoever they want will "fix the relationship" (or be the one to walk all over the other) or people who think being "poly" is an actual sexual orientation and wanting to sleep around while in a committed relationship is special
>>43251465c u c k
>>43241187in my experience its usually ugly people and serial cheaters settling for each other
>>43251591r word is that u?
Polyamory is reddit, monogamy is reddit, being aromantic is reddit, having FWBs is reddit, and fucking random strangers is reddit. My husband and I have a guy we treat like a dog who is our voluntary sex slave. This is the only way. Anything else is embarrassing, and if a potential partner pitches it to you, it's time to run.
