>Lesbian engineering student>Lab partner asked me out earlier of course I reject him>Still friendly afterwords figured that was it >Anyways last week he was so close to me in the lab it made other students notice and think it was weird>I lightly hit my head and he fucking caressed my head>When I told him never to do it again he tried to justify it>Have to work alone with him on a project in the lab this week.>Pure dread and paranoid thoughtsWhat do I do about this. I just laughed it off when it happened because it objectively isn't that bad. So I can't really report it. But also I'm just dreading working alone with him outside of class. There is no way to split up the project because we need to share the same equipment and physical thing we are building. To make it worse I have anxiety so now I'm having paranoid thoughts about him hurting me that are probably not true but like.
Stop fucking around. Tell the teacher he's a creep and you refuse to work with him. Tell the teacher that if he doesn't reassign you to someone else, you'll report the guy for touching you. Mention that you don't want to make more of a big deal than it is but you are not going to fuck around.
>>43243719i hope he looks up where u live follows u there and strangles u to death the next time u are out late
>>43243719just randomly hint you're already in a relationship while talking to him. if he doesn't back off after that, do what >>43243740 said because it's probably going to get worse over time.
>>43243740Yeah actually if any teacher would get it it's my engineering teacher right now she's even a fellow gay.>>43243780Why so mean>>43243789I literally rejected him by saying I have a girl friend. He knows he's even seen a picture of her because I made the mistake of being friendly with him after.Bright side is at least low key everyone in my class is in my side with this and trashing him about this behind his back. So originally my plan was to let a bit of peer pressure sort things out. But now the closer I get to having to actually start working on this project the more uncomfortable I feel and I'm just procrastinating even talking to him about a time. And like what of he finds out that I low key fed into everyone gossiping about him and then decides to fill from a #nice guy to like being aggro
>>43243740Do you think this is bad enough to talk to the teacher about. I'm like he didn't literally grope me so I don't want to make a scene but also...
>>43243740fpbphe's already continued to escalate despite you clearly trying to shut him down. This is a guy who does not care about consent at all. Your feelings of dread are your subconscious screaming at you because your subconscious mind can tell he's a predator. OP, I would also buy and carry pepper spray if I were you.
>>43243719>another day, another mesbian making a big deal outta nothing
>>43243879Sounds like he needs to cure you of your Lesbianism and give you a nice hard non-consensual dicking.
>>43243921I have pepper spray I just don't want to get expelled because my states anti self defence or worse if I accidentally got paranoid and used it early. My mental health was already down hill before dealing with this this semester.
>>43243994well, in that case, you should at the very least make sure that you exhaust all your options for legal recourse. Seriously, don't let your doubts get the better of you here. Assert yourself and demand the teacher do something ASAP.
>>43244004Okay I'll email/talk to the teacher tomorrow. I shouldn't let avoiding this be the reason I fail the class. Now failing it because Im stupid might actually happen anyways lol but at least that's the right reason to fail out of engineering.
>>43244024attagirl.
