I'm not asexual but sex has always disgusted me even in media. Do you believe I'm broken or something?
>>43244058then I guess you're asexual?what do you want me to tell you?
>>43244082But I'm not asexual, I still experience sexual attraction
I get you, OP. I have a sex drive but no interest in ever having sex. I think it's disgusting.
>>43244093>>43244091if you don't want to actually have sex or having sex isnt enjoyable, you are asexual (or have some kind of trauma)
>>43244100My worry is that it's some trauma but I can't think of any reason for that
>>43244058I used to be like thisthen I realised I'm just autistic and sexuality doesn't disgust me if it's like really romantic and does not involve a vagina
>>43244185Interesting
>>43244164Yeah its called having a brain and understanding its animalistic, weird and purposeless.I am the same as you but im demipansexual. Havent had sex in decades but still low key crave it when i fantasize about being in a loving relationship (its never happening tho cause im a shut in autistic freak)
>>43244058You dont like cringe overexaggerated moaning and having to look at naked ppl in Movie and TV show ?!?!??
>>43244058I’m like this tooit’s bc im a germaphobe and other ppl are gross
>>43245040>>43244058But to answer your question, I dont think youre broken at all nona idk im in the same boat I find sex in media really cringey and gross and like porn is nasty as well but I still have a drive like you
>>43245063Maybe it's this. According to what I was told, I refused to be breastfed by my mother as a baby
>>43245078Oooh makes sense
>>43244058Penis and vaginas are both just very gross organs. I much prefer the aspects of sex that aren't PiV (the hugging, moaning, faces, skin contact, etc.)
>>43244715me. sex is gross but I would do it for someone I loved
>>43244058I can only enjoy sex in hentai. In real life I feel very physically uncomfortable and disturbed usually and in real media I don't feel much about it but I don't like it. I have never been attracted to real people much, but I have a fetish for it, like the humiliation and depravity of jerking off to real people is sexually charged for me because it is humiliating and depraved. I only got into it a year or two ago, the flesh fetish thing. I always feel gross afterwards. I got touched though so maybe that is why
>>43246228It's also gross irl for me tho, but that isn't universal among asexuals and hence not intrinsic to it, and as I said in the OP I still experience sexual attraction so I'm not one
>>43244058>but sex has always disgusted me even in mediaI feel this way, but still have coitus with people I genuinely like. Generally I think sex without the emotional bond is weird, and sex in general is quite gross and sweaty and sticky.But I think its very primal and emotionally rewarding when you care about the person you are doing it with :)
>>43244058Do you like cuddles?
