I am so so so tired about every boyfriend being edating and they're like 39 even though I'm literally 26 and it's hard for me to meet guys in real life because I never know if guys who flirt with me are doing irl or just trolling me. I have problems with social cues and most people think I'm retarded because my voice but my friends think I'm pretty and lots of people say that but I don't know if they're making fun of me but I know people will just ask for pics and I'm not posting pics on here so just don't ask that. I don't know how to talk to guys because I only like a few things and only ever talk about those and most guys don't like the same stuff I do. I want a boyfriend though who actually loves me in real life and doesn't just trick me to have sex with him then leave me forever for a cis woman. Does any other trans women feel like this? Did you find boyfriends one day or not? I just want to cuddle and watch tv shows I like like euphoria and true crime and we can listen to music but men hate music a lot of time like they don't listen to the music I like. I also feel sad when men try to trick me to thinking they live me and then just have sex with me once then leave forever. It's so hard every day.
>>43246515god u talk so fucking much
>>43246518I'm sorry I was just saying my feelings
>>43246515>men hate music >because a lot of time like they don't listen to the music i likeJesus christ
>>43246515>men hate music a lot of timeWhat
>>43246527Wait why is. That bad to say?
26 and sounds like 16. That's why they leave.
>>43246515>Does any other trans women feel like this? Yeah me. Honestly the tism is a bigger problem in my life that the trans and I'm a gigahon.>Did you find boyfriends one day or not?Not yet, but I'm not done trying.
>>43246528Like they don't like a lot of the same music that me or my friends like or that they play on the play on the radio and stuff and that most people like
>>43246515My advice to you if youre not trolling. Is to slow down. If someone says they live close dont just let them fuck because you think they'll go out with you... go out with them a few times then fuck (if you want) dont act like its your only currency. Maybe make friends with people. Or get people to take you on a date or 2 first.
>>43246537You don't have to be rude I was just saying...
>>43246539So that means they hate music? Maybe you are retarded
>>43246543Try to meet them half way and take an interest in what they're interested in. If you expect men to share your hobbies and tastes in music, you might find that you aren't attracted to those guys.
>>43246542Why am I trolling? I don't mean to always do sex first but a lot of times they trick me by saying that that's how they always did it when they had girlfriends before and sometimes they tell me it's more common now to be looser with that stuff and just let relationships happen around it and stuff like that
>>43246547Well just they don't like most music I mean>>43246551I can try that it's hard for me to fake but I can try to find something they like and see about all the things they like and find one I like too
>>43246553Ok well i told you my advice. Take it or leave it.
>>43246563Okay I'm sorry I'll try to do that next time but how do you know if it will make them upset and leave or not
>>43246570Well if a guy is using you for sex he will be upset if you dont have sex with him. Idk id say stand up for yourself and what you want but i feel like you won't
>>43246538Finding a boyfriend is so hard. I hope you find someone who loves you like you deserve one day <<3
>>43246515Whats the discord kitten
>>43246583I'll try to stand up more and be more assertive but sometimes it's easy to say that and then just get scared and not actually do it eventually but I'll try to
>>43246588I don't know if I should say on here I don't use this website very much and I don't like edating that much I want an irl boyfriend
>>43246592Idk how you meet or find potential partners but just make it clear what you want from the beginning. And be prepared for people wanting different things.. seems like you might have difficulty understanding that if you think men hate music because they have different tastes to you. But good luck buddy
>>43246597U shud
>>43246586Thankyou! I hope you do too!
>>43246614I'll try to say next time I never have sex until a certain amount of weeks so that way if they just want to have sex and then leave they will just not try and if they want to date me they will
>>43246586yea finding a bi / homo for you is making the game harder
>>43246620Well why though idk what the point would be
>>43246629What do you mean
>>43246627Just remember what you actually want and youll be fine. You obviously have no problem getting guys interested its just maintaining....Already youre saying no to people. >>43246597 proud of you
>>43246639You're a transgirl.You're only accessing a subtype of male.And a smaller one that is OK with being seen with you.They're a minority of a minority and they are not exactly normal. Expecting normalcy from this subgroup is not realistic.
>>43246641Thank you :)
>>43246652Oh I guess I never thought of that I always thought it would be like most guys that are straight like cis and trans girls but only some don't
>>43246521I appreciate that u r being open frent. cismoid
>>43246670Thank you that's nice for you to say :)
>>43246652I loved being in public with my ex, she is gorgeous and I felt pride holding her hand while we walked In my eyes she was no different than any other girl I saw out and about, though her being a gigapassoid probably helped with that
>>43246664dudenotransgirls are still amab
>>43246685Dont listen to this loser. Straight guys are generally attracted to transgirls its just the social stigma that stops many of them from pursuing that feeling
>>43246680You sound so sweet <<<3>>43246685Okay sorry I just don't think about myself different than my friends and stuff
>>43246702I hope so because if they aren't that would suck
>>43246515just find another tranny, why do you need men?
>>43246702>Straight guys are generally attracted to transgirlsOh dear
>>43246709I'm only attracted to men so I can't
>>43246711Either you’re a straight dude transphobe who took it upon himself to speak for the rest of your tribe, a bisexual chaser chud who wants to claim transwomen for himself, or a salty mtf who cant get straight guys attracted her cuz you’re a gigahon who doesnt passtake your pick but it what I said still holds true
I suppose it depends on what you'd define as a straight man. I myself am exclusively attracted to femininity, the proper term is gynosexual but I call myself straight. I believe most men are this way but are probably repressing it.
>>43246717>if we take what i say as gospel truth than you must be ome of these strawmen i createdHmm
>>43246718Maybe I was talking to a guy once who said that but he never wanted to do anything with me like go to dinner or go places like the mall or zoo and he literally basically told me to have sex with and I did once then he stopped talking to me and when he dated a cis girl later he took her on dates and stuff so idk
>>43246742It sounds to me like he was bullshitting and only into you for sex. I'm sure it's not uncommon for guys to lie to trans women about their sexuality.
>>43246702>Straight guys are generally attracted to transgirls1.) You made that up because you need it to be true for your own self-narrative that you can stop being a homosexual man and live identically as a woman2.) Transgirls vary in female proximity and some are just so ostensibly male that the metric, even of "generally" is meaningless3.) There are far, far, far more bisexual males than reported or categorized. The terror of being tainted by "gay" is so high and the need to fit in to the "straight" normalcy, as you are also a part of, is motivating to self-perceive and self-advertise as such... or else transgirls refuse yout. bichud trannyfucker
>>43246754That's sad I wish they would stop doing it's manipulative and just is really mean to do>>43246763No offense but a lot of things you said are really mean on this reply
>>43246807It is sad indeed. You seem like a sweet girl, I'm sure you'll meet the right guy one of these days.
>>43246829Thank you :)
>>43246515Eh not interested, good luck though
>>43246975Well I didn't want on here just in real life but why not
>>43247005>>43246975Like why wouldn't you been interested?
why is glegle huffing moth
>>43247005Beyond the posts being a larp, if a girl like this were real and 26 years old then there's some clear problems going on developmentally. This level of immaturity is often a beguiling mask for something more malicious. Even if the naivety were sincere, you'd be left with someone who wouldn't make a particularly good partner due to their ineptitude and emotional fragility. If you get your shit together by 30 maturity wise, you'll probably have better results. But if you've been allowing just about every one to fuck you...I'm honestly sorry but that's not a good thing and will hurt your future prospects. Though, to be clear, this is a larp and I don't believe it.
>>43247014I don't know
>>43247020Why is it a larp. But I already know from what everyone else said that this is bad and I should stop doing that stuff. I don't think I'm immature I'm just not at expressing my thoughts or what I think sometimes but don't think I'm trying to upset you with my posts or anything I didn't mean that
>>43247030I'm not engaging further. Good luck with whatever this is though.
>>43247036Okay sorry
>>43247020Agreed
>>43246515The internet will give their opinions and you'll get upset about it but honestly for me this is a kind of girl I'd avoid. I know some guys want to be a kind of savior or 'i can fix her' or even be a controlling person in the household but I personally want a partner who has some level of self respect and isn't trying to win my affection in a childish way. My reasoning comes from having dealt with people like that and they often end up being manipulative, or gullible to the point that they cheat. I'm not sure if some people like this are stupid or just under developed emotionally but the consequences are a lot to deal with. There are guys out there who are extremely nice and capable and will 'baby' you to a degree but there are far more who will see someone like you and just abuse you. So I don't have advice for you really.
>>43247059I wouldn't cheat and I'm not stupid and I'm not manipulative but I think I'm just bad with my words. But I don't understand if you're just saying I just shouldn't try? Or if I should try but just be careful. But why am I bad
>>43246561>they don't like what i like, and that means they hate most musicretard
>>43247069If this isn't a larp, you're stupid. I don't know why you're on 4chan in the first place. Log off and stop being so promiscuous. You can afford to have self respect even if you don't understand why you need to.
>>43246515I'd almost want to add you but honestly my life is pretty stressful right now and you seem like a handful. I hope you get your life on track and probably don't make threads like this honestly because you're not going to get actual help.
>>43246515if you're mostly normal and stable i'd get to know you as long as your standards aren't crazy or there's BPD issues
>>43247076Okay you know what I mean though>>43247082You don't have to say it like that but I understand it's not good what i do but I like coming on here sometimes because you're funny and don't just automatically say everything I do is good but I also don't accept that it's all my fault too because I don't do these things on purpose they just happen because other people want it not me
>>43247095I think some people are being helpful but thank you for being honest>>43247103I don't have weird standards but one of my doctors wanted me to get assessed for BPD once but she changed her mind because she thought the stuff she thought was BPD was autism instead but I never got tested for either so idk
>>43247119if you're nice and not stuck up or weird about music then i could probably give you a chancebut i hope you haven't had too many cocks in you, that's revolting
>>43247124I haven't that much it's mostly just some guys I think but I'm not stuck up about music I like mostly the same music as everyone else
>>43247134stats? asl? how do you look
>>43247143I'm 5'6 and 190 pounds and I'm 26 and live in California
>>43247157little bit far but not i've dated from further awaybit thicc too
>>43247168I usually try to lose weight I try not to be so heavy but I'm just being honest
>>43247185how can i help u anon
>>43247211What do you mean
>>43247223with all this shit youve typed out
>>43247234I mostly was asking about how other trans women who feel like me found or didn't find boyfriends and what I can do to find a boyfriend and also just to say how I was feeling
>>432472391: don't be annoying2: don't be a whore otherwise there's no reason to stick around if you give it up so easily3: don't have crazy standards if you want commitment
>>43246703I may be a little cheesy at times... :PThough I think she'd have preferred that I be an emotionless rock, otherwise I might've still been with her.
>>43247256Okay I don't try to be annoying to most people and don't have crazy standards and I'm not a whore I just do when they say for me to>>43247264Well I think you sound sweet and it's good to have feelings and be in touch with them
>>43247278just do whatever youre told and dont arguein fact i will treat you great if you do that as my gf
>>43247278Thank you for the kind words, NonaI'll remember your name
