I have been afraid of socially transitioning for so long due to thinking that living in the middle of nowhere Texas as a trans woman would result in me being assaulted or constantly harassed, and after over 3 years of hrt I finally decided to socially transition a few months ago and you all lied to me, aside from the occasional comment or insistance on "sir" from old people or chuddy teenagers, literately most people are nice and usually at worst just have never met a trans person before and don't know what they should say, I thought due to being terminally online and brain-rotted I wouldn't be able to fit in with cis women but all the cis women my age i've befriended are also brain-rotted, I have friends for the first time since I left high school. I cannot believe I believed the internet for so long and now I have a lot of catching up to do with learning make-up and dressing in ways that better shape my body due to boymoding and only wearing tshirts that are too large for me to hide my boobs for so long
>>43247662it sounds like youre doing well. happy 4 u, nona
>>43247662>>43247780>everybody that ignores me irl truly believes i am a woman
>>43247662of anything ive found that being in the south makes it easier to pass and people are nicer to you because no one actually knows the brainrotted 4d terf discourse.obviously mileage may vary but when i have occasionally had to explain being a tranny, such as when i first came out to friends, i am met more with "oh okay thats weird but whatever" people are unironically more pressed im now a fag than a tranner down here.and passing, lmao. i started passing 2 months on t because of voice alone. nobody knows about "futch gnc girldyke transmasxxx" or "nonbinary highfemme kittens" or whatever the fuck. if you put like the tiniest bit of effort into passing people down here can't clock. i see cis women at my church every sunday that are clockier than anyone on passgen.be careful when it comes to the government/state, hot wheels seems to want tranners dead for whatever fucking reason, but in real life many people do not know or care.
>>43248343Why do you think you pass? People who don't say anything are being polite they are afraid of the liberal backlash although all of that is changing now.If you straight up asked a rando on the street "Do you think I am a transgender" they'd be like "Yeah".
>>43248368i dont think the owner of a gas station covered in maga flags in rural Mississippi is worried about liberal backlash. i think he probably called me sir because he believed i was a man.
>>43248368Why do you think OP needs to have psychcic powers to gauge the internal thoughts of strangers, the majority of which they are not directly interacting with?
>>43248368also, assuming you're genuinely asking, although i think you're bad faith, i pass because im lucky and because i put effort into it. im 5'9 so a little short, but not a midget like most poons. and a year on t plus weightlifting im identical to a cis man if you saw me on the street.people down here have more rigid systems of gender in my opinion, so when they see someone more in between they generally assign them the gender the person mostly presents as. even if i was clockier to your average tranny than i am, i dont think cis people would know down here. i imagine mtfs have it a little harder bc of fearmongering, i.e. people are more aware of their existence where i am, but i also think most wouldnt care.
>>43248532You are literally taller than 90% of ciswomenAlso you have zero insight into the mental processes of complete strangersJust because some rando doesn't say anything to you you don't pass to them.Grow up and take responsiblity for yourself
>>43248368>>43248214buzzkills for no reason
This retard going on about ywnbaw while he's talking to an ftm kekkk
>>43248580>Also you have zero insight into the mental processes of complete strangersits a great thing i talk to strangers and from conversations have insights into their mental processes. which is what i have based my opinions about this topic on.i would highly recommend interacting with others irl. you do have to log off to do it though lol.
>>43248663this lmfao
>>43248678>liberal allies being polite to me is passing>randos not wanting a hassle and sidestepping my pronouns makes me pass>whenever somebody doesnt explictly say to my face that they know i'm trans is passing
>>43248663Do u think he can actually read