both before transitioning and after i've had a persistent fantasy about dating an incel and 'fixing' him by encouraging him to stop being a neet, making him workout and showering him with loveever since i discovered all the blackpill rhetoric it's been there, and part of it comes from a narcissistic drive to show that i'm 'not like the other girls' and don't have crazy standards. it's worth mentioning i never really identified as an incel in the traditional sense, i always liked guys so i was only an 'incel' in that no guy wanted methe issue is i worry that i'm projecting this on to my boyfriend. it doesn't make sense, he's more well adjusted than me, he works out, by all means he'd be absolutely fine without me. but he's trans and he's short, so it plays into it. i don't try and consciously participate in the fantasy, but we talk about the dating market and stuff and i'm terrified he'll see it as me saying 'yeah, you better stay with me or else you won't be able to find anyone'i mean, that's always what the fantasy's been about right? caring for someone when noone else would? but it feels terrible, i love him so much more than that and i want him to choose me because he wants to, not because he feels like he has to
>>43258238i can relate but im on the opposite end. im a shut in negative incel but ive had a couple of times in my life someone push back on something i said that was taller than me and each time it woke something up in me. id get kinda nervous and stammer. the idea of them like "saving" me turned me on and i would jack off the concept when alone. ill never forget once i went on some short negative rant saying something snippy about life and this guy looked down at me and said "youre cute when youre flustered" i had this sea of back and forthness occur where i went from shocked to angry but then felt flustered being angry because of what they said so i tried to not appear angry but then i was mad they were controlling how i handled myself which only caused the cycle to repeat. i spent the rest of the night red faced and quiet until i left.
>>43258456>"youre cute when youre flustered"hot
It's not helpful to feed into my fantasy like that of being saved by meeting a cute trans girl
>>43258986you'll find her someday soon anonbut you should also work on yourself
>>43258238Don't do actually do this irl, they will leave you to look for someone "better" the moment you've built up their confidence enough. I have had this happen repeatedly throughout my life because I never learn my lesson.
>>43258238I so have this. I talk to these broken guys and I don't even understand the emotion driving it. And it's not even like one incel, it's like I have to save all incels with the power of bussy. I am so confused by this feeling. >Please don't shoot up the school Anon, it will be so much harder to have sex with you if you do!I fucking hate my brain.
I do work out though, quite a lot. What normies don't seem to understand is that inceldom (that is, rejection of the idolatry of woman worship) is caused by experience with women, rather than being caused by lack of experience which is how it is usually portrayed. This is because women's social value depends on destroying men who fail to play the game and try to "get laid" all the time.>>43259618It's interesting that the "school shooter" stereotype used to be so much more prevalent until women realized it was overkill, they could destroy a man's reputation simply by pronouncing him ineligible to access their holes. All the old style accusations were superfluous and arguably too much work. Hence why the term "incel" was popularized, sometimes they say "creep" too, means the same thing.
>>43258238Hi im a lonely blackpilled transbian
>>43260103i didn't make it clear but i understand incels as much as i can, the working out thing was just because i also have a forcemasc kink, otherwise teaching someone how to love would've done the trickthe dating market is fucked, a lot of women are evil because female power games are just one big circlejerk of them playing nice on the outside, gossiping on the inside, and then tearing down men when it's socially acceptable (like through labelling them incels, creeps, whatever). i disagree with it and it's part of why i think i'll never truly overcome my malebrain>>43260110nona i have a bf>i always liked guys>i worry that i'm projecting this on to my boyfriend
>>43258757>hotyou have no idea. they said it in such a flat tone. and the angle and facial expression was like this. im not gay but i definitely wouldve let him top me in that moment i really wanted to be pushed against the wall.
>>43258238im an incel and i tried to transition to escape it, didnt really work out how id hoped but at least now i can kinda resign myself to being unfuckable.
>>43260220Unironically proves blackpill as trvke.Tall chads can be rude to people and will get raw bussy sex in exchange.Its all pointless and evil.
>>43260739no im just really submissive and love being told what to do or being dominated
>>43259618>I talk to these broken guys and I don't even understand the emotion driving it. And it's not even like one incel, it's like I have to save all incels with the power of bussy.it's a similar kind of perception of being existentially cucked as tranners get when it comes to brainworms. there are many parallels between the two groups, which makes the cases where they can't empathize all the sadder, but the cases where they save each other (healthily without the usual codependence issues) all the more heartwarming
>>43258238im an incel you should cuck me with your boyfriend
>>43263113I've had this experience before with poly transwoman who had a bear harem(fakecel tho). She was really sweet to me and I told her I'd pick her up if we ever met in person. We eventually did, wound up coming onto me very strong, was worried I didn't like it. I was just a massive pussy who hadn't been touched in like 6 years. I think we both may have some sort of savior kink because I have the same thing for lonely tgirls now, less sexual, more in a comfort object way.
