ADHD nonas, I have now successfully interacted with a guy on three separate days and he hasn't blocked me or ghosted me. He's even seen a picture of my face and was still interested.I am trying not to overreact. How do I stop my brain from fucking this up?
>>43260923It’s a leap of faith or something
>>43260923What are they like?
>>43261836Nice. Same age as me except I lied and said I was younger. Gentle. Decent. Shy. He's weirdly kind of handsome but is so unkempt and weird it makes him look ugly. Like he's got good bones and stuff, but his hair is balding and not doing anything about it, his eyebrows look like two black caterpillars squaring up for a fight, and his style is faded black t-shirt that's two sizes to big for him. That's like the best case scenario right? Because there's no competition even tho it's all a super easy fix. Works regular hours, takes care of his mum, is close with his family, Catholic and has a genuine relationship with God. It's such a pity my stupid dumb brain is going to fuck this up.
>>43260923why do u think ur gonna fuck it up
>>43262975I always fuck it up.
>>43260923Have you tried emotionally overwhelming yourself with existential anxiety to dissociate? Its a fix allT.adhd
>>43262985>2 mins replyyep thats adhd
>>43262998D-does that work?>>43263000tbqh it was luck. I do have ADHD, and autism, and transgenderism, and probably a couple of others. But the 2 minute reply in this case was just crazy random happenstance.
>>43263015>Does that workIt works for every problem I have ever had in my life. Simply scare yourself with the strangeness of reality and the fear or mortality and then when you are to the point of panicking just relax into it and accept death. Best part is that you can do this for free constantly. Heavy weed abuse helps but isnt needed
>>43263047I don't feel like that's good relationship advice. How long have you been married?
>>43263159I think it makes me a very centered partner actually. I been with my gf for 7 years
>>43262975adhdidiots are extremely good at torturing themselves with this hypothetical stuff
>>43261946You two live near each other? Might be nice to go on a date irl. Have you had any previous relationships/do you know if he has?You can tell him you’re nervous and don’t want to spoil things. Just you know, keep it concise. Don’t over share about the details, or over promise like you’re madly in love before you’ve had time to get to know each other. It’s okay to be scared, and it sounds like he’s a nice and patient person.
>>43260923Good luck nona
>>43260923idk but gl nona as an adhd tranny who struggles with guys
>>43263949They are the sweetest idiots! They're like autists, but not villainy like autists
>>43263999Naw, he lives like a 10 hour drive away in Adelaide. But I was thinking about moving somewhere else anyway and apparently Adelaide is nice to trannies. I haven't had any previous relationships, he said he hasn't been in a relationship for 6 years but I think maybe he was telling a fib because he didn't want to admit to be a KHHV. Which is cute af. >>43266396I have autism too. I really wish my mum hadn't drank while she was pregnant with me.
>>43266487Ah that sounds cute, Nona :) hopefully if you’re both relative novices you can extend each other a little grace while you continue getting to know one another. He’s probably nervous for his own reasons too. I’m not sure what your situation is, but it would probably be a good idea to meet in person at least once before you seriously consider moving across the country.Gl in any case!
>>43267315ty nona
