Im glad theres a niche for the straight bear

>>43278855
so hot giwtwm.

>>43278855
Nice op. Do you get him back in the morning?

>>43278855
I just know those after sex cuddles were to die for holy fuck

>>43278855
Totally not a jack off thread. Back to /b/ tranny

>>43278855
this is what I'll desperately need in my life I might cry

>>43280176
doll x bear is sacred and should be protected by law

>>43280274
usually prefer to do it when he gets back from work. if there's privacy and physical proximity chances are he's gonna start touching my private parts first though

>>43278855
Where the fuck do I get an autistic girl I can do this with

>>43278855
I need a cute little tranny to do this with. I want to tease her pathetic thing and be thanked for using her, then cuddle and fall asleep

>bear chaser

>>43281675
try the more normal looking ones at fighting game events or other geekier spaces. worked for me.

>>43281821
on a further note, transbians will most of the time signal themselves as transbians as an attempt to get attention. the ones that don't do this have a higher chance of not being insane sneedhons

>>43281821
Fuck. I don't like fighting games but that seems to be the place everyone finds their gfs. The only other options I can think of are cons and game stores but they seem pretty awful around here.

>>43281840
for the record, i'm OP. i just kind of latched onto my bf like a vampire bat the second he gave any kind of hint of interest because i have a huge thing for nerdy bears. honestly just get a little swole under the fat and you'll have the all the hussies that aren't just demon twinks snapping their necks

>>43281863
I've been told this before but I'm not particularly tall and while I jump at the chance to meet autistic nerdy women (cis or trans) I actually have pretty strict things I look for ala values/principles and it's difficult to feel like I should put all that effort in to impress people I won't even like.

>>43281883
If you're referring to getting stronger as putting in all that effort, honestly, I don't think you'll ever regret things like this. At worst you got healthier and stronger but didn't get dating results you wanted. Still seems like a win to me.
I'm this anon >>43281772 and also not particularly tall, and I think that's just what I'll do. But being strong always appealed to me anyway.
That only also leaves me with the issue of knowing where to even meet hussies.

>>43281923
Yeah getting particularly strong never held much appeal to me. I'm unironically a "where do you work out?" "at the library" type. For the theoretical GF I would wanna get stronger and healthier, but if I'm gonna be alone being healthier doesn't appeal to me - might as well get this shit over with sooner and enjoy what I can.

>>43281945
I'm kinda the same way. Buncha nerdy tech hobbies and stuff. And I would also feel incredibly motivated to work hard for my gf. Without one, not so much. At the end of the day, I guess we need to hack our brains and consider that one day, there'll for sure be someone again, and when that time comes, we might even think we wish we'd done more sooner.

>>43278855
Is this bear queen speaking? Anyone remember?

>>43281995
That is objectively the "happier" way to do things but I am above almost everything else, a skeptic. I also personally value the idea of growing to be our best selves together, and deeply unlike the idea of reaching that level on my own and then only being valued BECAUSE I'm fit and successful instead of for what kind of person I am.

>>43281640
There's one I know whose quite sweet. She's poly so shes got a few bears, likes to be of comfor--wait.
>>43282022
Elaborate. I might know her

>>43282022
it's not but i have been considering investing in tripfaggotry for my entertainment

>>43282033
if you don't put any work in at the current momen women have no reason to assume you might have the willingness to put in work in the future. i would not have anything more than a one night stand with someone who is broke and out of shape and it's more about drive and prospects than anything else, because being better does just show you have the drive to become better.

i work my ass off to stay pretty and get work, and i expect my man to at the very least show me he has the capacity to do the same, even if he's not all the way there

>>43282140
We could spend all day arguing the philosophical and psychological aspects of this. The simple way to put it is, of all of my goals and wants, none of them really necessitate being fit or making good money. You don't need either to write a book or make music or help people through their problems. The ONLY value either thing has for me is superfluous quality of life improvements that mean little to me, OR because I want to 'get the girl'. I lost a ton of weight real quick in my last relationship and started working on getting more income so I could afford a place for both of us, completely unprompted, because I suddenly had a reason to give a shit. Then she cheated on me. Now I have extremely high doubts anyone is worth the effort. I still obviously want there to be someone who is, but I'm not going to invest a ton of time and energy and mental strain on things I don't care about for the sake of people who would only value me based off of what I can provide for them.

>>43278855
OP here, afternoon update, i found his sleep shirt and shorts laying around and took a deep breath and it felt like i was gonna pass out. progesterone is one hell of a drug.

>>43282887
Is he getting back from work soon? What’re you gonna do to reward him for last night?

>>43282934
if all goes well he's gonna be needing a hip replacement by the time i'm done. we have a fancy dinner date later so i have to keep it under an hour though

>>43282097
Prominent husstuss Hungarian 4troon who was really pretty and based and "quirky" except for the times where she info dumped how her bear bf would make her ass bleed. Im not so sure she's posting anymore or even if she ever was on the board instead of reddit

>>43284468
Definitely not her. She's from the states, west coaster. Lovely woman and very funny.