so i am a straight cis guy who does not have gender dysphoria. i might be a bit less masculine than an average male though, which has occasionally led me being mistaken for a girl.the thing is i don't find that insulting at all, in fact it feels quite nice occasionally. sometimes even i get tempted not to correct them.the thing is sometimes i find it so immersive that when i forgot and then later realise i am a boy i get this strange sadness that feels awful. like really really awful. like have you ever cried so hard that your throat feels a little sore? that kind of awful. like i want to somehow remove my body, if that makes sense.is this normal when you sort of pretend to be different gender? like i really need to consciously stop myself from indulging when i get seen as a girl because when i stop it feels awful.
>doesn't have gender dysphoria>goes on to describe gender dysphoria
>>43281695>does not have gender dysphoria>i get this strange sadness that feels awful. like really really awful.are you retarded
>>43281729>>43281745like it's not gender dysphoria because i feel bad only after i have been seen as a girl. like if i get gendered as a boy when i am a boy i don't feel bad in the same way.
>>43281695How old r u
>>4328179219 why ask?
>>43281798Im gonna cry 19 and getting mistaken for a girl
>>43281785>is sad because you realize you're not actually a girl>being a boy is mehmy point still stands
>>43281816??????
>>43281879Im jealous cause im chopped huzz and you’re not chopped
>>43281879nona is saying you should troon out cause you;d be a passoid
>>43281695you'll figure it out dw
>>43281695I really wish I could be happy at being called a woman and it feeling right, just as much as I wish I'd actually hate being called a man
>>43281695>>43281785rather than any intense dysphoria you seem to be experiencing moments of gender euphoria, which my also be a sign of being transgenderyou might also simply have the mindset of a crossdresser/femboy, enjoying being girly without necessarily being a girlthe classic trans tests are the magic button (upon pressing it you will be transformed into a cis girl, it's one way, will you press it?) and the mundanity test (imagine yourself in entirely ordinary situations: walking down the streets, shopping for groceries, etc. Would you rather do so as a man or a woman?)whether to transition is ultimately up to you. The femboy route is valid tooand a month on hrt could help you sort things out, you won't experience any permanent effects in that short time that can't be undone by a trip to the gym
>>43282525I never understood those tests. If I am attracted to being a woman, then being a woman in any situation is desirable.
>>43281695>is this normal when you sort of pretend to be different gender?It is not exactly "normal" as most people would be against those that engage in this. But it is a completely human thing to want to do that, sure. It's not wrong, I mean.
>>43282569>then being a woman in any situation is desirablethis is the actual point of it. Are you ready to be a woman in your day to day life, not just in sexy situations?
>>43281695It's normal, everyone would want to pretend to be the other gender. You're just like the rest of the humanity.
>>43282662Again, yes, because I would be a woman which is attractive to me?
>>43281695i would say this could be a sign of a gender dysphoria if you are sad that you are a boy
>>43282569a cis man would say no immediately to either of this tests. if your answer is not a resounding no ur prob trans sorry
>>43282776then yeah, it might be worth transitioning for you
>>43283013>>43283040I am not transitioning, so I am not trans. I just like to imagine being a woman. Women are hot.
>>43282747it's not that normal, most people might be curious a few times throughout their life but they don't obsess over it like trans people dothey don't read Marvin Redpost: Is He a Girl? and spend the next month trying to kiss their elbows
>>43283079transitioning is not the same as being transgender. Being transgender is having a gender identity incongruent with your birth sex. Technically it's a neurological condition (back by ~100 studies)
>>43283118Well, I don't identify as a woman so my gender identity is not incongruent?
>>43283084Some cis people do obsess over it though. It's an inevitable result of gender roles. So some cis people do seek out being mistaken for the opposite sex or at least opportunities of being compared to it.They do not do it in the trans way, obviously. But from what OP has said so far, I can't really see anything that couldn't be written off as normal cis behaviour.>they don't read Marvin Redpost: Is He a Girl? and spend the next month trying to kiss their elbowsHad to look up what that is. Reminds me of those myths that if you walk under the rainbow, you will swap genders lol. Was so disappointed to learn that it doesn't work that way as a kid.
>>43281695completely normal
>>43281695get on hrt asap
>>43281695You need therapy
>>43282569>being a woman in any situation is desirable Do you think ftms and gymbros think this? This is an exclusive feeling to women.
