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>be me, tranny
>have bf, cute twink pooner
>he acts nonchalant and cool
>kinda lazy but very nice
>suddenly 1 month ago says he feels like being more feminine
>starts watching teenage girl movies
>literally acquires a fagcent
>loses any assertiveness and dominance
>ask him if he's okay and needs help, like did he have a psychotic break or something
>"no I just kinda feel like a trans woman"
>get pissed off because I cannot understand being ftmtf
Normally, I'd be completely supportive, but like... did he get AGP randomly or what. Is he AGAMP. Like I'm bewildered. He still wants to have sex and even tries to act dominant but its like he lost his masculinity so I'm completely turned off. Any advice from pooners? What do I do? I love him as a person but I don't really understand this change. We've already had a bunch of personal talks and he has said a few times that he knows he's a disappointment and I have to reassure him that he's very important to me and I want him happy, but he says he knows I'm not happy.
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dump her and get a cis man
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>>43299832
The cis man: >>43299764
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>>43299763
>>"no I just kinda feel like a trans woman"
ngl nona I would instantly assume I was dealing with the empty headed adopted pathology of a bpd woman with nothing to offer except her personal interpretation of other people's struggles in place of a real personality.
not to say i'm right about that. either way it sounds really confusing and frustrating, hopefully someone with better insight can say something informative to hold you over until the two of you can find that middle ground
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Straight relationships really are wild these days
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>>43299763
Hmm. How far is he in his medical transition? Does he pass to strangers?
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>>43299763
you're just mad because she's kikomipilled.
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You need to run. Dude is maybe one step away from becoming a tMRA. Men like that genuinely believe they are incapable of misogyny.
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>>43299894
He passes to cis people. To trans people he seems kinda clocky. They assume hes a boymoder sometimes.

>>43299939
Genuinely not angry at him, just worried and a little confused.

>>43299832
>>43299844
But he was so nice and perfect before. He's still super sweet, but like maybe he just didnt want to be a man or something.
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>>43299980
Does he still go by he/him but just dress faggy? Is/was he on T?
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>>43299980
Maybe he’s a gayden
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>>43299880
When the men and women larping as the opposite sex break through their trauma induced psychosis
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>>43300000
He basically trooned out as a ftm but still wants to be he/him. He was always a hentai addict so...

>>43300013
I thought the same but he likes women 100%. Never dated men. Loves boobs and doesnt really care for dick.
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Kikomi irl
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>>43300060
I’ll just level with you, the male gender like as a role in society fucking sucks these days. You get more respect from strangers, but basically, as I’m sure you know, you’re expected to express like two emotions a month and think about sports and Joe Rogan or else you’re a faggot. Any man with a brain is naturally going to start expressing deviancy or otherwise start plucking their feathers like caged birds. Your partner might just be an intelligent person, felt like a man deep down, transitioned, and is now realizing quite profoundly that the male role just sucks. Especially if they were used to enjoying the emotional expression that comes with being a woman.

All this to say, your partner might be looking at their options of reinventing masculinity or slowly walking away from “being a man”, and finding the second option more palatable.
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>>43300195
I mean, he's basically a NEET so I don't know how much society impacts him. He just smokes weed and does whatever he wants like 90% of the time. I'm the breadwinner here and have been for several years. As far as he's told me he just felt like it was more natural to him. He's still injecting, but idk. Maybe he feels like he was treated better when he was fem presenting, before we met?
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>>43300015
Gincel gincel go away
Go rape kids another day
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>>43300267
>looney troons
>not raping kids
LMAO
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>>43299851
This.
>>43300060
>trooned out as a ftm but still wants to be he/him
She's detransitioning.
Your girlfriend is, unsurprisingly, coming to terms with the fact she doesn't actually want to be a man. Saying she "feels like a trans woman" while wanting male pronouns is classic female mental gymnastics at play. It's the last reach at validating her emotional need to feel special rather than on manning up not just for herself, but for both you and the rest of society.
>>43300253
>she thinks the one with the dick being the breadwinner is "more natural"
Shocker. You're in denial at this point, get out of this crumbling relationship now before she drags you down with her, Nona.



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