>>43301730
prison gays

>>43301736
meaning?

>>43301748
they are gay because they can't find sex anywhere else

>>43301730
It's the lowest possible form of a app, explicitly made and widely known for being only a virtual cruising spot. The good looking ones don't need that to get laid, and the ones who aren't debased horndogs want something with a little more preamble than "here's my hole daddy cum find me" - even if it's just a short normal person conversation before essentially the same thing. So you end up with the lower tiers of attractiveness and no desire to put in effort, and that's how you get Grindr/Sniffies. Tinder is one step above so it filters out the very bottom tier even if the upper tiers are still not really active on there. Hinge is supposed to be for actual romantic encounters, mostly committed, so most of the time people know they have to put in effort.
At least that's my impression after a couple years using them.

>>43301730
because grindr sells your data to face recognition companies that share their databases with the department of homeland security

>>43301730
Hot people make something good
Normies hear
Uggos ruin it
Hot people leave


U can see this on this very board around 2023

>>43301795
>even if it's just a short normal person conversation before essentially the same thing
that is more common on grindr than fucking without any talking first

>>43301903
>Hot people leave
so where do they go when it comes to apps? Hinge I guess, that app has a fuck load of models on it

I only use grindr to troll.

I tried to use it properly, but ended up getting very, very bad experiences. Plus its transphobic as fuck, im in the UK.

They seem to believe the media propaganda that mtf's are identical to cis men, and the people there become angry and confused when i wont meet them in an alley at 4am, or why i wont invite a stranger into my home.

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>>43301909
>that is more common on grindr than fucking without any talking first
Maybe it was just my experience but I had the opposite impression in the few weeks I spent browsing there. I ended up deleting it without meeting up with anyone after the 10th unsolicited hole and pole pics

>>43302282
>or why i wont invite a stranger into my home.
i mean it's a hookup app after all

>>43302348
So because its a hook up app, i have to disregard basic personal safety?

Talk me through this, i want to understand why you think thats a good idea?

>>43302318
That anon is talking shit, the people there say hi then post their cock.

Its disgusting

>>43302472
so if you're planning to hook up with someone you expect to go to their house, but they can't come to yours?

>>43302502
No, meet in public first, somewhere with cctv, cafe will do.

Make sure the person is who they say they are. Lots of gangs operate on grindr, its dangerous. If you actually want to be safe, go to the sti clinic together, take tests, and show one another.

Anything else is Russian roulette with your life, but you do you

>>43301730
I almost got trafficked trying to meet up with a guy. scary shit. luckily I was smart enough to be hyper vigilant and drove off in time

>>43303163
>If you actually want to be safe, go to the sti clinic together, take tests, and show one another.
I'm not going to pretend you're wrong but this is super autistic and nobody does this (even though again you're right). Really, if you're this selective and smart, Grindr simply isn't for you. Use tinder instead.

>>43303178
pretty sure they're joking,anon

>>43303196
Joking? What is that? Is that like a form of lying?

>>43303196
>>43303178

Not joking.

Sti's are so fucking serious, do you have any idea? Like what the actual fuck. Herpes has no cure. It can cause dementia, blindness, organ failure, paralysis, painful lesions.

Antibiotic resistant infections are starting to happen, scientists warned us for years this could happen, and it has started. I know, because i got one.

I got an antibiotic resistant infection from a man who assualted me off grindr. I was in hospital for a year. CT scans, long term antibiotics, my hair fell out. Do you know how i got rid of it, by getting SRS.

I got lucky, 1. I could afford srs, 2. The infection was located on the uretha which was cut out. I hate to think that that monster off grindrt is still out there, infecting others. The pain was 15/10. I never experienced anything like it. I projectile vomited.

The doctors was so fucking worried they thought i was about to die. They gave me meds which have a side effect of cancer. Did you understand what i just said? The side effect is CANCER and that was seen as preferable to me dying

You have no fucking idea how serious this is, i thank god i had specialists that helped, and was able to afford private srs. Not everyone is so lucky. Do not play with your life, it isnt worth it, be careful. You do not want an antibiotic resistant infection, it can kill you, its no fucking joke, and it can kill you painfully.

>>43303316
they made this thing called a condom

>>43303316
lmao sure hon. this totally happened

>>43303802
Rapists dont care about condoms

>>43303834
You do you

>>43301756
That's not how it works.

These guys are bi, very often. They have to keep this "down low" because women and transwomen alike resent bisexuals--for insecurities why the bi guy is attracted to them, the "ick" factor, whatever.

In prison, bisexuals and closeted homosexuals are free to live out their concealed desires, because they're trapped in a facility with other males. No one cares what happens to them. They're criminals. No one can look in and see the homo behavior. They're finally free to assault males without repercussions.

Kinsey 0s don't turn "gay" when starved of sex. That's like their default state anyway.

>>43304046
>Rapists dont care about condoms
well a rapist also won't go to an STD clinic with you

>>43303316
which antibiotic-resistant bug was it? and how much do the sti clinic tests cost, and do they include the herp
I ask since in my "such high HDI quality of life happiness" country, they skip the herp tests for men as it's not curable, the same for hpv iirc

>>43304255
Thats why i said meet in public first. Anon, you do you, its your life

weird freaks from grindr and sniffies are so good when you aint got a bitch in yo ear telling you they're nasty

>>43304876
Im mot sure which bug, they ran several tests, all negative, they gave me brosd spectrum antibiotics and it wasn't until i got the really powerful stuff from a urologist that i was able to function. The pain was frequent but not at the initial level.

The WHO acknowledges herpes is a pandemic but no western country that im aware of tests for it..

The only reliable test is a blood test called a western blot. That detects if you have antibodies in your blood. There are around 11 strains of herpes, so thats why one person will say "i had it and never knew", and another person will scream in pain each time they go for a wee.

>>43303163
Anon, that's literally just a date. The point of going to Grindr instead of Tinder is precisely to avoid going through all that bureaucracy and get straight to the sex

>>43305967
ikr right
we will have anons on here make posts with +100 replies about their diaper fetish, puppy play, how much they want their dad to fuck them, how hot it would be for a fat bald old guy to random rape them, etc. but then turn around and act like grindr's brand of degeneracy is too much for them

>>43306009
Like i said, its your life.

Just so you know, bad things can happen. You're an adult, you can decide for yourself. Im just one person sharing my experiences, take it or leave it

>>43305943
I mean I just snap them a few times to check they're real. I am not a big guy, but it would be hard to rape me lol

>>43306133
At least thats something lol, not even checking beforehand is kinda crazy to me.

>>43306179
Oh yeah I always ask for their insta or snap. otherwise it could be some maniac lol. Also I prefer to meet at a bar, I have never just gone and fucked someone at their house

I had sex with like 10 different men from Grindr the last weeks, most of them nutted inside me without condoms
I'm not on prep lol
I'm a he/him msnmoder and was taller than all of them except like 2
Some were cheating on their wives
I'm literally just getting into stranger's cars at night and sketchy apartments
Didn't even get properly raped :(

Ama

>>43306462
Do you have your will ready?

>>43306487
Hey Debbie Downer can you go bring down the mood somewhere else please?

>>43306487
No
I'm like 30 and hope I can kms soon

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>>43301730
reputation for easy sex, minimal effort and not much info in profiles, and algo is location and not attractiveness/matching based = a few good looking gays who mostly don't use it bc they can either use normal dating apps or fuck people they meet at gaybars, and a huge number closeted dads shooting a shot at some sex

>>43306462
Are you not worried about STD?

>>43306775
Im suicidal so not really
Have an std test booked and might get PrEP tho