I get the impression that a lot of straight men and women see it as being pretty queer at a minimum. I personally consider myself straight although technically I would be polysexual and heteroromantic. I enjoy being dominant and topping and am quite good at it but I'm really not happy in a relationship unless I'm with a lady that enjoys being in control at least some of the time and am a rather big fan of being submissive and bottoming. Just figured I'd ask y'alls opinion on the matter and whether or not I should just give up trying to find a woman that is sincerely and genuinely into this sort of thing and doesn't secretly hate it. Inb4 just be gay bro, I tried, it's not for me.
>>43304063If I could have this, I wouldn't want to be a woman.
Femdom spaces and culture heavily cater towards men in a way that I find disgusting. Somehow even when being "submissive" it's all about their pleasure.
>>43304188suppose that's why they have to pay for the experience
>>43304063i used to like femdom big time now i feel like want to be the domme sometimes atleast a soft glamourous one because of >>43304188t. agp
>>43304188Yeah I don't mean topping from the bottom like an asshole. I mean a woman leading in the bedroom and doing a bunch of sadistic shit to me because it's what she wants to do. Like actual lifestyle femdom at least some of the time. >>43304363Yeah that's the thing I don't want to pay with money for sex. I'd rather pay with submission. If they're not legitimately into it of their own free will and enjoy and want to do it it kills it for me.
On the spectrum of cis male porn fantasies.
>>43306192That's fair. Expecting any woman anywhere to treat someone the way they would want to be treated is pretty delusional. Brb eating lead aspirin.
