Do you support edating?
>>43326015It's my only option as a shut-in repper from a rural area
I like e-dating. Now that I'm an independent adult with adult money I could visit my e-gf or have her visit me.
>>43326015Nah
>>43326015as long as you do it with the intention of meeting up and eventually even living together it's fine and increasingly commonat least one person needs to have some money and be able to travel and you have to be willing to commit just like in any other relationship. it works great for some people but is not for everyone
i have never or will never have sex (other than e-sex)
>>43326022Why not just move to an urban area?
>>43326015yes but only because it’s how i met my fiancé
>>43326066I don't think anyone employed would edate in the first place, that's the problem.
>>43326015its not for me, i tried it once but the lack of physicality and the fact that all of our "dates" were just spotify listening jams and watch parties was a major letdown, then again im a bpdemon tranny so
>>43326015It's a criminal waste of time.Cuz I just burn out and ghost people I need physics stimulation
>>43326068Because I'm a dysfunctional retard who's entirely dependent on parents and incapable of living on my own. Otherwise I'd already have trooned
>>43326078well that's not true. lotta lonely employed people out there.
>>43326079I think you're doing the boring kind of edating.
>>43326083>physicsphysical
>>43326078I am employed and would e-date.
>>43326091They should be in my dms instead.
>>43326088If you're cute, you should look into getting a sugar daddy who'll support your transition.
>>43326101Hey... would you fuck a ftm by any chance
>>43326093well what else is there
>>43326114>cuteI think I could still approximate cute for a year or two after some time on HRT, but I'm old (28) so the guy would probably have to be really fucking gross. And becoming a prostitute would be an absolute last resort. I got diagnosed with ADHD recently and I'm getting checked for autism, so maybe I can actually keep a job at some point. I'm going to try to move out again in autumn but I have little hope
>>43326128I don't like men. I wish I did.
>>43326015>Do you support edating?Yes and I really need a boymoder egirl right now. I want to send her my cock, cumtributes and talk about our days, play vidya and shit...I just want to compliment her ass and jerk off together. I miss my old egirl, but I hate cis women now.
>>43326015used to be against it but i ended up falling really hard for a girl, im going to fly over to her and one day we will get married. i've never felt so strongly for anyone or anything before this
>>43326015Its often miserable and not real. Edating for us is just a phase of yearning for a year before we move in together.But tbf we NEED to be able to be held, so, y'know
>>43326015lol, Hell no. You honestly need to just go outside and be with the people where you are, or if the place where you live really sucks that much, then move to the nearest major city. Because otherwise e-dating will just become a cocoon that keeps you sealed away, unchallenged, in a way that just stops your development as a real person, you're just spinning your wheels because it's easier than exposing yourself to uncertainty. You gotta get over that, I'm serious.
>>43328249>just movenot that simple
>>43328258I'm not gonna lie it kinda is. Even if you're this type of person >>43326088 you should probably just do it anyway because it's the only way you'll figure it out.
>>43326015i'll never leave my shithole country so not only would i be dooming myself to never getting laid i'd also be dooming someone i like to that same fate. it only works if there's a chance you'll ever meet.
>>43326015No, it's a form of self harm. Find real love.
>>43328342I "just moved" and it didn't solve anything. I'm living the exact same lonely life.
>>43328386Oh okay, good, I think you should try going to gay/alt bars then, and something like local shows too, like follow an ig page for local bands and show up to things like that, and just try to interact with people, develop your personal style if you need, and just commit to like, sharpening yourself through contact. Especially now, it's getting warmer outside again. Try smoking if you don't already.
>>43326066fails 90% of the time.
>>43328441This kind of advice only applies to people in their late teens/early 20s btw...
>>43328342I don't have the money. I'm stuck with my current employer for another year. It's not that simple.
>>43328449Just like any other kind of relationship.
>>43328474Oh that's not true, '20s' means 25-35 now, everyone's so broke you don't get adult money until your mid 20s anyway. And I spend actual hours hanging out with the older trans ladies in their 50s on Saturday nights here, like. There have always been old people, come on now. If anything there being so few of us makes age groups even less relevant. Except ig, I don't relate to teenagers but that's a real like childhood/adulthood split. >>43328479Cute girls get drugs for free. But okay that is hard. And if it's really that tight and you're spending like $1,000+ a month just to have your own place then maybe getting a roommate is just an L you gotta take. If you look for rooms thru a local gay facebook group type of thing, it's not so daunting. If the prospects of bag-getting are low, though, hey.
>>43328582I'm in my 30s. If I tried fitting in the way you suggested people would call the cops on me lmao
>>43328632Oh you know that's not true, I didn't say to hide in the bushes and jump out at people.If you really don't have any social hobbies you enjoy going out and doing then I think you should try some and see. Like, go to raves, or if you like film then start frequenting an indie cinema or video store if you've got one around. There's a lot, alright?
>>43328708When you get older you will understand why these things aren't an option anymore.
>>43328708this isn't a thing that we can just do retardkys
I feel bad about the anon above saying kys to you. It really does suck to hear lucky young passoids basically say "just be me lol" but you guys can't help not being able to empathize with our situations
>>43328805I'm literally in my 30s idk what you want.
>>43326015Fucking hate the idea because physical intimacy is essential for me, but I assume I'm just gonna have to do that or nothing at this point
