hey board, so i just signed up for an escort site as a providerim not really hot enough to do it but i suck at every real job and am currently in a terrible spot financially. so i figure i might as well sell my body since i’m a failure at all the normal stuffi figure i will still get at least some attention bc chasers have no standards and are desperate.any girls in here have any experience doing this kinda work? any tips and tricks? what scares clients away, what attracts them, safety stuff, how to spot someone who seems safe but rly isnt?
>>43327923it's a bad idea. how old are u nona?
>>43327941i know its a bad idea. im 27
>>43327923you should let me fuck you for free
>>43327960maybe! i’m gonna need practice taking dick if i want to succeed as a whore
How much are you gonna charge?
>>43327955girl you should know better at that age
>>43327976what state? i can stretch you out before dropping you off at your client's houses
>>43327923terrible idea you WILL regret one day if you think your opinion of yourself is bad (im assuming) it will be 10x worse after you sell your bodyt. groomed into online sex work by an ex, quit, regret
>>43327999hm not sure about that yet. i will probably try to figure out the average going rate for my area and charge like 50%of it bc im inexperienced and ugly
>>43328016its basically the only viable way for me to get out of debt and start saving for surgeries. and waiting any longer than i need to for ffs would be a much bigger regret
>>43327923i had to do it to survive when i was 21 and it completely ruins you emotionally and physically>>43327955how long on hrt? even if you're hot and get high end clients you're not going to make enough to make it worth destroying yourself over
>>43328025if ur inexperienced and ugly ur not gonna be making much at all. you'll make more working at mcdonalds. Completely not worth nuking your self-worth and image over. Literally any other shitty job is better and you'd probably make more money
>>43328069i already have a shitty job, but it’s not enough to pay my bills, pay off debt, and save for surgery. i’m not planning to quit my day job, just to use this so i can actually build financial stability and get myself out of the hole
>>43327923Ask any sex worker and they’ll tell you it’s a terrible idea. You’re a fucking idiot.
>>43328069not true, a hooker can make more in an hour than a wagie does all day
>>43328144exactly. with like 1 meetup per week i could effectively double my income. it would b life changing money for me
you should be prepared to accept that you'll probably never be able to land a stable relationship when you're done hooking but that's only if you like men. if you like girls you'll still be able to find a partner
>>43328181yea maybe 5% of men are willing to commit to dating a tgirl the percentage of men willing to date a tgirl prostitute? probably less than 0.5%
>>43328208i'm not just talking about that. hooking ruins your ability to form emotional bonds with people but in my experience lesbians are sometimes more willing to overlook that
>>43328219i mean, what is the mechanism by whoch it “destroys your ability to form relationships”?
>>43328269i'm not a scientis so i can't tell you how it works. you can ask any former hooker
>>43328144Yeah but are you gonna be meeting multiple men a day. How many clients could you possibly have in a week. Good pay of 200+ is for high end hookers not a pathetic ugly tranny
>seeing other mtfs make the worst life choices over and over again >while refusing to take advice i can’t even
>>43328278if i charged 100 an hr and only got 1-2 hrs of work a week, that would still increase my weekly income by 20-40%, which puts me in a way better position.
sad thread
>>43328323amazing.
>>43328305cause you cant extrapolate why its bad, use words not emotion baiting
>>43328349ppl itt have already explained the gist of it but the safety and disease aspects have largely been ignored
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>>43327923Been doing it since 2017. It's way harder than it seems. It's incredibly inconsistent, competition is stiff (no pun intended), working on appearance and advertising is expensive, so many timewasters and assholes. Honestly I hate it especially as HRT and all the weird requests killed my sex drive so pretending to like the client is even harder. And they WILL complain if they think you aren't enjoying it. I originally went into it thinking that I'd be treated like a girl and it would be fun. No, most clients want to treat me like a gay man. nothing kills my already low sex drive faster than some 50 y/o hairy faggot asking if I will fuck his ass and cum on his face. If you still want to continue with this the best advice I can give you is how to spot timewasters. I've basically set up a filtering system where if I hear certain words or phrases I hang up immediately because 8 years of experience told me that these people never turn up. Examples are:>What service do you do? >How much? >What time are you working until?>How big is your dick?>How old are you?>What are you up toOr just generally asking too many questions.For outcall make sure to get a deposit or have them book you an uber. Do not just go to whatever random address they give you. Half the time it's fake or they changed their mind and switched off their phone when you arrive. >>43328069Passing doesn't really matter, Half the other ads are clearly Brazilian dudes in wigs. Most of the clients are just gay and want dick without it seeming too gay. Therefore pics of your dick and talking about how big it is and how much you cum will get the most customers. I refuse to do this but it will put off clients. >>43328025Do not do this. Having weirdly low rates just encourages timewasters and creeps. In fact having higher rates than the others can actually get you more customers. It's the "luxury product effect" whatever that is called.>>43328144Yes but it's not consistent.
It's better to whore yourself out to one guy and drain his cash than multiple men
My Mommy is gonna pimp me out hehehe
>>43328363I am this >>43328399 person. Even though I agree it's a shitty job, so are most jobs. if you detatch and grind it can be good side money. Telling people not to do it because their feelings might get hurt is feminist bullshit. Refuse collectors, soldiers, oil riggers don't get told this even though their jobs can also result in death and disease. And they aren't even making 200 bucks an hour. As for the disease thing it's way overblown. Just use condoms and PrEP consistently and refuse any client asking for bareback.
>>43328399i really appreciate the writeup! would you say that you agree with the ppl itt that it will destroy me emptionally and make me unable to form bonds and such?
Id pay for a BJ if you were on the west coast lol
>>43328452>it will destroy me emptionally and make me unable to form bonds and such?i posted that and i probably have more experience with sex work than that anon and i know a lot of sex workers. it's such a naive and stupid question. the answer is yes and you'll see for yourself if you choose to pursue it
>>43328399ok but how is the money? NUMBERS>>43328451>Telling people not to do it because their feelings might get hurt is feminist bullshitdepends on the person
>>43328399i wanna pay to suck you off while you call me a faggot
>>43328436Hmm it depends. Ironically part of why I decided to do it was because looking for a sugar daddy seemed to be a waste of time. I'd meet a guy, they'd push me for sex, as soon as I did it they'd ghost. So I thought I may as well just charge upfront. Even if they didn't ghost, trying to get money out of them was like getitng blood from a stone. Most men are happy to spend on meals and clothes but straight ask for a couple hundred cash and they run. Even though it should be obvious most men are delusional and need to believe that the person half their age really likes them. I say "it depends" though because there are guys out there who will buy you a car but they are few and far between and it requires a lot of work. I have one former client who dated me and put me in his will for 150k but that was only after knowing him for years and having shared personal tragedy. >>43328452They are probably right however see >>43328451Is working in Wendys any less soul-destroying?
>>43328535This is the average client, no joke.>>43328502It's hard to say because it's so inconsistent.I've made 2k in a week but then it's dead for weeks afterwards. I did track it once and I averaged about 2k a month with some months 3k, others a couple hundred. YMMV. to be honest I am not the best at it, I refuse to top, have no surgeries and am too autistic to pretend to like the client. If you are the outgoing, surgeried-up "shemale" type you will probably make a shit ton of money. Most of them are advertising in the expensive part of the city idk how they are affording to live there. That's another issue; your location affects your business. But it's a catch 22, need to be successful to live in the area with wealthy clients.
>>43328669>That's another issue; your location affects your businessother poster here, this is truethere's always a risk but outcalls are much riskier than incalls. if you're doing outcalls you should know that you can end up getting hurt or worse. incalls can be dangerous too but generally less so
>>43328669>This is the average client, no jokewhats your problem faggot want me to stab you instead?
hmm lots to think about with the actual sw repliesi am pretty good at compartmentalizing my feelings so i could probably pretend to enjoy it relatively welldefinitely still a bad idea overall and i probably won’t follow through with it bc i never follow thru on much of anything. but i just want enough money that i can finish laser and get surgery one day and move to a less transphobic state
>>43328669thank you for answering
>>43327923Idk if this helps but I raped a few prostitutes and stole their money. I could tell who was working alone or was new. I just wanted to smoke meth desu. I'm not saying don't be a prostitute only that if you're inexperienced you're probably going to become a victim. The streets filters out girls like you quickly and escort sites don't protect you like a pimp could. Sometimes we'd have a front guy lure you out and ambush you. If you were broke we'd hurt you badly for wasting our time. I've also heard of cops extorting girls like you and more. It's worse for trannies, that's for sure. Most guys that hire you are prison gay and one bad comment from beating you down. Anyways, if you don't know someone experienced you're likely going to be a victim.
>>43328794how can you tell when they're working alone?
>>43328857On the streets it's both a vibe and because more experienced girls will rat you out as competition. It might sound harsh but a lot of girls don't want to share a street and will tell people like me. Not that it's exactly subtle to begin with. It does entirely depend what form of prostitution you're pursuing. It's easier to find a mark on the street in the open than to lure an escort.
>>43328720It's worth it if you have an exit plan. Unfortunately I didn't. Now I have learned about trading I'm piling in as much money as I can into it so I can get out but I'm in my thirties now and work is starting to dry up. Ironically I used to pay for my ads with bitcoin when it was like $3k. Ce'st la vie...
>>43328857That guy is a LARPer but an actual robber will simply ask "are you alone?". Be wary of anyone asking this.
My best friend was an escort at one point in France. Her stories were not good. You'll regret it. I'll respect her privacy by not elaborating further.
>>43328857Like the other guy said it's pretty obvious and other girls work against you.
I never raped a prostitute like that guy but I have just refused to pay after and left a few times. Idk what advice to give you to avoid this
>>43329020thats mean
tje thing i never understood is where do you actually do the fucking. do u just have to rent a hotel room every time? going to their place or yours seems like a recipe for disaster
ain't nobody got money for a hooker in this economy
>>43329020Any escort that isn't stupid will take the money upfront.>>43329069At your own place. Some rent hotels but it's more overhead and risk.
>>43329200but then if the client is actually evil they straight up know where u live!
I'll pay you to be my girlfriend
>>43329274real? how much, and what does being ur girlfriend entail?
>>43327923its not worth it, if u really need money then do nudes instead, way more convenient and far less risky at the cost of more competition and thus less money
>>43329297like i said my body isnt actually very good. no point in me posting nudes, it would be a ton of work for 0 return.
>>43329290you can live in my basement free of charge and i'll feed you once a day since you sound overweight
>>43329320>like i said my body isnt actually very goodhow bad are we talking?
>>43329263That's why you screen.
>>433286692-3k a month seems really low you must be ass at getting people off and establishing return customers
>>43329336pretty badi have tits which is great. but i have a bit of a tummy and no good waist/hips. it basically still looks boy-shaped, especially in profile
>>43329581post body?
>>43329290Actually I'm broke nvm
>>43329600https://litter.catbox.moe/2rer2kotczun6lqm.jpeg
>>43329714EWWWWWyou better pay ME to even touch your doughy lardass
>>43329714you might wanna try a different career field
Question to the sex workers and ex-sex workers here. How many of you were trafficked?
>>43329714I have two bad news The first is that you don't pass whatsoever The second is that yes you will have a good quantity of clients. They will all be married bottom men in their 50' and this is not a joke
>>43329714Holy fuck what variant of spedmoder are you? I'm 3 months HRT and infinitely more fuckable than you because I actually take care of my figure. You shouldn't do SW you'll probably wind up in a dumpster.
I've seen twinks 10x more fuckable than you, this is so bad. Nigga let your mommy take your phone away from you, you are a 24/7 optics nukes. chrischan-tier
The preferred move is to go on a regular dating app and pretend to be looking for a normal long term monogamous relationship, but target guys who have enough money to be a paypig without being so rich that they have reason to be suspicious of your motives. So he has to be working a regular, decent paying job, one where he still can understand the mindset of someone with less. Lower six figures is ideal. Obviously you have to adjust this for your local COL.Don't give him any reason to suspect your motives. On the first few dates make a big deal about how you believe in equal rights and stuff, try to pay 50/50 and sound like you mean it. Sometimes you can even pay for the date. This gets him thinking you're trustworthy.Once trust has been established you can eventually concoct a background story that you're in some financial difficulties outside of your control. Don't be too specific about the amounts or the details and don't make it be like "oh haha I was stupid and blew money doing online gambling". He has to respect you. Let him work it over in his mind, the amount is nothing to him. He can easily afford to bail you out, but should he? Would it embarrass you? Does that create a problematic dynamic? etc.If you play it right he'll eventually offer you money. Don't accept it too quickly! But do accept it and be grateful (don't be too gross about this part). Once the seal is broken it's cruise control from then on. Do this with several guys at a time until you've refined your strategy, because a lot of them will bail or get suspicious. It helps to keep a spreadsheet and set calendar reminds so you can keep track of all the stupid things he cares about, and pretend to be interested in his life.You have to be very careful not to get him thinking you're going for the sugar baby thing, it has to be a heroic gesture on his part, not something you wanted. If you always ensure he thinks of himself as the good guy at all times, it's easy money.
If you weren't retarded you would have tight opsec and digitally whore yourself out. If you aren't good looking enough for that just ropemaxx.
>>43329714WouldYoull be fine, ignore these retards dissing you. Wear makeup and have a feminine looking face and you'll be rich from chasers fucking you
>>43329827>>43330128>>43330144Did no-one listen to me? Passing doesn't really matter in sex work. >>43330046Is trans sex trafficking even a thing?
>>43330259>Is trans sex trafficking even a thing?Yes, it is. There is a trip here (wine mom) that was trafficked by her boyfriend and forces to do sex work
>>43330259Sex trafficking in general is much less common than normies seem to think. Recently CNN discovered sleeping fetish porn and turned it into a dramatic investigative report about how men are drugging their wives and raping them. This has spiraled on the larger internet and the current consensus is that 61 million men in the US alone are frequently putting sedatives in their wive's drinks and then gang raping them on livestream for paying customers.People just hear "sex crime" and they completely lose the capacity for logical thinking.
>>43330178No guy with common sense is gonna blow money on a troon like that
>>43330402A ton of guys blow money on girls like that. They are chasers going after dick
>>43330259It does matter retard. You'll get a lot less and lower quality customers if you look as bad as OP
>>43330578You don't understand the industry. it's basically just gay escorting. So long as your'e smooth and thin you can make bank. Granted OP isn't thin but that's achievable.
>>43330809I look for trannies to fuck on escort sites and would never even consider touching OP
>>43329714I didn't get to see this but judging by the reactions please don't go into sex work. It's bad for pretty people. For ugly people, you'll unironically end up dead.
ooh, yippee a trafficking thread>>43330259>is trans sex trafficking even a thing?skip to 1:15 of my vocaroo to learn howhttps://voca.ro/12RaBBdw6yWqalso forgot to add going to a queer youth center while the oldest member of staff knows your at risk is a good way to get epstein-esque trafficking.i can no longer think of myself as anything of value. the world i saw has forever changed me. i want to go back. i use this site to scream into the void hoping someone will help while knowing nothing will be done.
>>43328399I have ads up, and I escourted for two years, I hate it in Seattle the johns suck. the games's fucked up now
>>43331393January Lupez ended up dead, Takiya killed January Lupez. Was based department.
>>43328574>I have one former client who dated me and put me in his will for 150k but that was only after knowing him for years and having shared personal tragedy.imagine putting your tranny hooker in your will. extremely funny im sorry
>>43332795you sound insufferable
>>43332795Can you whisper me sweet nothings to help me sleep
