>be me >shitty blue collar job to finance degree>guys are being incompetent at their job>have to go and help them and manage them>overhear them talking>something about 'exotic' and thailand vacations>they giggle >feel like they talked about that because of me>feel ashamedI hate it here
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ill only feel bad for you if you look like picrel
>>43333912she is my inspiration; I try to
>>43333485thats men for u all they do is mae gross jokes about women and objectrify ppl, could take it as validation that ur attractive if ur desperatec ause thailand at laest is like "attractive" trans women to cis men>>43333901its all gooners and incels and chuds arguing about trans women or saying they want to have sex so bad or whining that they cant find a partner, if your posts on this board doesnt come down to one of those 3 things people dont care it's so cringe
>>43333930It wasn’t always like this. 5 years ago this board was actually populated by trans women, but it’s progressively gotten worse and I feel like nowadays it’s at least 50% chuds. Some of them even develop a crush on trans women due to the exposure, but it’s all really gross sexualization. You are totally right
>>43333955It has been a downhill slide the entire history of the site in my experience. The internet in general seems infested with increasingly more voices and diminishingly less human sentience. This place seems to be nothing but stupid stuff these days. Just seems like reddit for people who like to say the N word
>>43333990>reddit for people who like to say the N wordpretty much. Feels like the reddit reposts lead to those same people coming here
>>43333485So what is the issue
>>43334401feel like they talked about that because of me, a tranny and I felt ashamed to be one and potentially be fetishized and joked about like that
>>43334401are you dumb or
>>43333485>>43333901dead thread
>>43333485How much longer do you have to stay at the job? Do you think it makes sense to grit your teeth and get through it, or would you consider getting a different job while you finish your degree?
>>43334751thanks for the bump bestie >>43334762it‘s not nearly that bad that I would quit, just annoying. Maybe they didn’t talk about me, maybe they did
>>43335070there's more bumps where that came from brother
>>43335070That’s fair. If you ever need a different shitty part time job you might want to consider working at a cafe, especially one with a predominantly female staff. Customer service has its own issues, but you’re a lot less likely to run into that kind of dumb guy shit with your coworkers.
>>43335269It‘s a nice idea, but my job offers total flexibility for my work hours and the other guys are all older and nice and never make such jokes or comments
>>43335082much appreciated
>>43335457Fair enough op. Glad the job’s not totally unbearable. Gl getting through the rest of your time there.
Dealing with gooners and chasers at your work place is a nightmare. I'm sorry you had to deal with that. I also had my fair share of nightmarish anecdotes, that forced me to boymode out of fear. Hopefully you don't give up who you are due to fear.
>>43336710Nah, I'd never compromise who I am and how I present for others, especially not for childish bs like that. Wanna share your anecdotes and share in the pain or is it rather traumatic?
>>43333485Sounds horrible :/I hope their convo was unrelated but I doubt that it was.
>>43333930>thats men for u all they do is mae gross jokes about women and objectrify ppl, could take it as validation that ur attractive if ur desperatec ause thailand at laest is like "attractive" trans women to cis menI have been around men my entire life and unless i somehow surrounded myself with the wokest of the woke i never hear them talk crass at all
>>43340485lmao way to make something political for no reason. You're totally off too, because at least one of those guys is a bit of a chud. I never got any weird comments from progressive guys on campus
>>43340376I don’t know why they would be talking about it randomly. Even if, it’s awkward to then be standing there as a tranny. I just know my coworker is probably too liberal with the fact that I am trans. I pass so people just see me as a woman otherwise