is it ok to be groomed as a minor as long as your groomer was nice and good to you and made you happy and safe and is the reason you didnt commit suicide?they treated me very well and we're still together now. was 14 when it started now 25id probably be dead now if i wasnt groomed, and would probably have started HRT much much later toot. no longer a minor but realized lately i may have been groomed this past decade
>>43335344Grooming minors fucking rocks and saves lives. I think I would have shot myself in the head in front of a public government building already if I hadn't been groomed when I was 13. Groom kids on discord all day nigga
The short answer is no. Up to you what you want to do with that information.
>>43335344yea this is basically my outlook on my own grooming, the fact that my groomer got me on hrt as a youngshit more than outweighs anything else they did
>>43335344Under a consequentialist moral framework this specific case could be considered okay but we can't really ever know if grooming is truly beneficial so there is always the chance of it not being okay. I don't think we should just let people get away with it willy nilly if that's what you are asking
I wish I was groomed like that...
>>43335344Sis, this is just weird. I'm sorry. I'm happy that you're OK and safe, but I'm sorry that you were groomed.
>>43335344syndrome status: stockholm
>is it ok to be groomed as a minor as long as your groomer was nice and good to you and made you happy and safe and is the reason you didnt commit suicide?>they treated me very well and we're still together now. was 14 when it started now 25>id probably be dead now if i wasnt groomed, and would probably have started HRT much much later too>t. no longer a minor but realized lately i may have been groomed this past decade
Yes it’s ok. — “groomed” at 10 and it save my life
>is it ok to be groomed as a minor as long as your groomer was nice and good to you and made you happy and safe and is the reason you didnt commit suicide?>they treated me very well and we're still together now. was 14 when it started now 25>id probably be dead now if i wasnt groomed, and would probably have started HRT much much later too>reddit space>t. no longer a minor but realized lately i may have been groomed this past decade
If you are a tranny pedo faggot reading this: ywnbaw
>>43335649kys obsessed frogbaiter
>>43335688wtf does frogbaiter even mean
>>43335664a lot of projection going on here. is it jealousy or?
>>43335716>not wanting to molest children is projection
it's not okay. It not happening could've prevented a post like this. what a shame.
>>43335734you do want to molest children though, if you didn't you wouldn't be projecting so hard??
>>43335755>you do want to molest children though, if you didn't you wouldn't be projecting so hard??
4cvk... I....
>>>43335734 (You)>you do want to molest children though, if you didn't you wouldn't be projecting so hard??
>>43335772lol you're so angry its comical. im sorry you hate yourself so much
PAGANPILLED THREAD
>>43335764tesak posting will never catch on nusoi
>>43335344Depends entirely on if you had sex irl.If you were born after 1992 and before 2010 you were at some point groomed by some internet person.
>>43335784talk about projection geg
>>43335793Trvst the TQSAK...
GALAGA THREAD ITT WE TALK ABOUT GALAGA
>>43335826least obsessed derailtroon
>>43335344Blessed are those that plant trees, knowing they will never enjoy the shade of their foliage
> Anonymous 04/22/26(Wed)17:25:43 No.43335784▶>>43335809>> >>43335772> lol you're so angry its comical. im sorry you hate yourself so much
>>43335836/lgbt/cux… galaga won
If it was a real relationship and not grooming you wouldn't be asking yourself if grooming is okay. You seeing it as grooming is an answer in and of itself.
>>43335852whats with all the reddit/facebook memes today. i dont visit here much anymore but i dont recall there being so many boomers
>>43335876REDDIT MQGGS YOU
>>43335876NUCLOVERCUX…epstein had sex with moot btw and its why moot self inserts as moot-tan
>>43335903ok granddad
>>43335850That sounds super gay and cucked ngl, Buddhism or whatever is for losers dude
>>43335953You need to be 18 to post here
>>43335344whether or not it’s “okay” is up to you. it is abuse, though
>>43335344Hello I came from that other place and wow what an interesting postOf course that is the point of grooming, making the victim happy? making the victim like them? Your partner is a pedophile, he took advantage of a vulnerable child, groomers don't go after well adjusted kids, they go after weak and vulnerable children because THAT IS WHAT PREDATORS DO. It's like you know you're in a cage but you think the cage is good because it protects you, you were successfully groomed
>>43336720No you don't, that's the point of this thread hahaha amirite guys, high five
>>43335344please look at your mental health now. I was groomed at 15 and im still with the abuser now.but I have a ton of mh issues and still have never enjoyed sex once in my life. I started hrt before I met him tho, so at least ur groomer helped with that which IS a HUGE plus.
>>43337128why are you still with him?
>>43337137lonely plus we live together now so its hard to get away.
>>43337165>>43336764i see..my mental health is ok i think, i have social anxiety and dont go outside as a little agoraphobia ig. but i live with mine too she takes real good care of me. sometimes ive noticed tho she treats me more like a daughter than a gfi dont think of her as a predator or abuser. but i have learned recently that the things she was syaing and doing with me when i was younger was..i know it was grooming im aware i was groomed. but at the same time, i was looked after, and given hrt, and protected from abusive parents. so ive hit this awkward point where im aware i was groomed but at the same time, shes made me happy and always taken good care of me and has always been the most loving and protective mommy to me so its like does it matter really? should i confront her about it? like shall i discuss this with her let her know that i feel like i know i was groomed and why she did that why pick me? just air it out.as said that was 10 years ago im 20s now and shes still with me and still treats me like her baby so?
>>43337225if you are really happy then don't screw it up.
>>43335344I think ultimately still no. Grooming means intentionally manipulating a child for sex, especially through isolating them and progressive boundary violations. I don't think this is ever ok. Even if perhaps your interactions with this person were net beneficial, they could have provided you the beneficial parts without also grooming you. They could have helped you get on hrt and even provided some emotional support without also grooming you, and even if you think the helpful parts outweighed the bad parts (and maybe they did), that still doesn't make the bad parts ok.I'm curious, if you were able to get the support and her access without also being led into a sexual relationship, would you have preferred that? What is your life like now? Are you dependent on them or do you have a strong social support group outside of them?
>>43335344I wish I was groomed, my life would be fair easier
>>43337276as i said here >>43337225 i really dont go out much ig im a little co-dependent, i call her mommy but ive done that since the beginning..i see your point about being able to do all that without the grooming, thats a good pointim wondering if i should confront her and talk to her about all this or will it destroy our relationship because i do have certain questions and thoughts i need to get out
Why didn’t I have anyone who cared enough to get me on hrt? :(((
